Abyss alts

I can definitely understand that. The more time passes the more I learn about myself, my interests, what I'm looking for, etc. Ultimately all we can do is just do what we can to make the world a better place. We're a big ol' fuckin' community and we're here to do communal things. Help out each other, be helped out in turn. For the wealth to be spread, to indulge in our passions and nerdy interests, to learn about ourselves, to self actualize, to innovate and progress, to harmonize with the universe as much as our own inherent nature and drives. It's a difficult balance, but it's bliss when you find it. Better to not worry about what you don't want to do, as much as you can, and just worry about what you can do at a given moment to make the future a better place. However that looks to you, in whichever way you're able to do it. We live in a society, but we don't have to let causal loops and dominos from eons past dictate our future. Preordainment is stupid. We can step outside of it if we find a way and are wise enough.

Andrew Frisina

I don't even think having kids is the highest calling in life. Nevertheless I had to say uncle and admit I do live in a society, and one way it unravels is if all the marriages are broken or not forming. I don't want that, because then the video games suck. So I do what's got to be done to increase the odds of a future marriage being successful even if I don't think one is very likely. I mean, the ladies throw themselves at me of course, but I'm very solitary. The idea even applies to a gay guy. They don't know if they'll be bi in five years. They don't know they'll find a girl they love in ten. Or twenty. We live quite a while. Traditionalists thought this through better than I gave them credit.

ozone

I don't entirely disagree. Especially with some of what I learned. There is definitely something to be said for saving the most intimate physical experience with someone you inherently click with, who gets you more than anyone else ever has. I've known a couple people like that. It's hard to wait, hard to go that route. But honestly. Maybe for the best. Friend of mine gave me a really special perspective on virginity in multiple ways, which honestly makes me appreciate the traditional symbolism of unicorns and art I got recently all the more. That said, done more roleplay and learned more about the whole shenanigans than I think many others have. I'm not personally lookin' for kids though. If I want kids I'll adopt. Partly because legacies come in many flavors, not just passing on genetics. That and also I do not think I can handle raising a kid up to the age of 18. I adopt some 20s somethings now and then into my fold and try to give them mentorship and wisdom and such. Many ways to make a mark on the world, to make the world a better place for future generations.

Andrew Frisina

Yea at the minimum it's home is between people in private as it has a very real connecting effect on you and your partner. I would go even further and say it is in fact best saved for a lifelong partner, which I know is not exactly what a few around here wants. But, unless something's not working down there, we don't know whether or not we'll be in a relationship where the possibility of kids exist. And for the sake of those potential future replicants of yours, you want the odds of your marriage being successful as high as possible. Which you'll get if you're not attaching yourself to lots of people.

ozone

I was just talking about this with friends. About how for me sex is an emotional an intimate affair, but not necessarily for lifelong partners. It's about learning about yourself as much as your partner, it's a mutual affair between consenting adults. Roleplay is just another format of that, similar to how roleplay can be used in therapy to help you work through various nooks and crannies of your psyche. Similar reasons to why I'm a traumatophile. Extreme consent, denial, chastity, lots of build up, edging, stimulation, alternate forms of pleasure, lots of cuddling, molestin's, ear rubbies, tummy layin's, scalp scritching, shoulder rubbing, w/e. Go above and beyond. Even extreme consent like consensual rohypnol drugging or hypnosis. It's a good ol' time. Go wild with people you trust. It's recreation, it's education, just make sure you're not being a skeevy creep about it. :V So yeah I agree honestly. Go balls to the wall, especially in roleplay. See where the emotions take you, see what you learn about yourself and the world. There's a reason it's roleplay, it's exploring situations in a controlled setting where you can step back if needed. Same with hentai, games, comics, etc.

Andrew Frisina

Eventually I just got to the point where I said you know what, the Christians were right, using explicit sex for pure entertainment is cheap and coom-brained. I recommend artists just straight up put it off bounds, even if sex porn is your thing, and see where it takes you.

ozone

Low health is the best time. Much greater risk of failure. Also more struggle and more difficult. Have to fight harder, can't risk passing out or resting until you're in a safe place. See which gives out first, body and mind or the danger. Either way it's gonna be a ride. Edit: Really big into this sorta horror fetishy stuff, nontraditional preg and pen and just in general more BDSM and foreplay themes than actual penetration and such. Especially denial/chastity. Always more fun. Lasts longer. Big fan of the trauma fueled aspects of erohorror stories as much as the consent and extreme consent of prey trying to survive with each other. Whether or not they properly make it out together. Done a lotta stuff like this in rp. Always a good time.

Andrew Frisina

Ah, gotcha

From The Office. Dwight Shrute explains he sits in the backseat behind the driver instead of the passenger seat to not expose his back and potentially be taken by surprise.

ozone

What's that mean?

The Dwight principle.

ozone

Little did she know, my being behind her means I have the advantage in a surprise attack

Hoard of pre-marital sex havers. Yup, scary.

ozone

Obligatory RE-styled game only instead of wanting to kill you, the infected/enemies just want to bang you senseless. ♪

Locke Robyn