When people think non monogamy doesn’t envolve jealousy… it’s just so funny to me.
My gfs are v jealous of anyone new getting close to me and that’s normal. They are not toxic about it and always on board to have long ass talks about the feelings behind their jealousy. I would know they care for me even if they didn’t get jealous often or at all. But they do cause it’s one of the human emotions they experience. I love that we can have peaceful discussions pretty much every time they go through it. The same way I can talk about my destructive impulses or my irrational anger for irrelevant shit. I trust and love those bitches a lot😤
Anyways, don’t demonise jealousy or justify it to a fault. It’s a normal emotion and should be regulated/addressed as such. Balance is key.