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⚠️PLEASE READ!

As this group has grown a LOT lately, it has come to my attention while responding to comments, that some of the comments are borderline rude. In fact I just removed a member today for being offensive and rude with their choice of words.

I have a ZERO TOLERANCE policy for rude comments in here.

Using words that are insulting to each other will not be tolerated. You will be immediately removed and blocked from this Patreon. Yes, this is strict, but this is the only way to keep this community a SAFE & WELCOMING PLACE for everyone. I want you to feel safe here to be yourself without fear of being bullied because someone doesn't agree with your opinion. That is why I have to remove people without giving them several chances. If I allow rude comments and bullying to happen for just a moment then it could quickly shift the overall feeling in such a large group like this. That's not a risk I'm willing to take.

Now, we don't have to agree on everything. In fact, I rather enjoy conversations where people have other opinions than I do because it makes me think outside of my normal scope. This is how we grow and develop into well rounded human beings. However, it's all in the words you chose. When you feel a deep emotion, please step back for a moment before writing. Make sure that you are using words that are KIND. We can be kind with our words while still disagreeing with someone.

Also if anyone feels someone has left a comment that is bullying or mean then feel free to screen shot it and send me a private message.

In the word's of my mother:
"Love each other, or I'm turning this car around right now"

Comments

I appreciate you

Audrey McDonald ( Songs From A Suitcase)

Hi - if you see anyone breaking the rules on the Discord, please just PM me (bros) or Jay.

Cody M

Audrey, thank you so much for being such a beautiful soul. Sadly, with more followers comes the possibility that at least one of them won't be as respectful as they should be. My message to everyone is to choose kindness especially when you don't agree with someone. Thanks for looking out for us Audrey!!! We appreciate you! 😊

Matthew Nation

I’m sorry 😞 you had that experience. If you face a situation where you are feeling bullied, uncomfortable or disrespected, it’s important to make Ms. Audrey aware. 📝 She does not 👎🏼 allow that anywhere.👇🏼I hope 😌 you are okay👌🏼and have people that love and understand you. ❤️‍🩹 Please don’t be ashamed 🫣 of things you have no control over. You are unique.☝🏼Just know 🤔 that you are amongst a great community. Welcome 😁 and I’m glad you’re here.✌🏼😎

Koko

I’m so glad this was addressed! Because, a long while ago, I didn’t feel that inclusion here and on the Discord, and it kinda bummed me out. Before Aubrey freaks out, it had absolutely NOTHING to do with her or Danny. I had signed up for the voice lessons with Aubrey, part of a group class, and I had seen someone say something very derogatory about the LGBT community, and also had said something about people who have bad teeth must be on some sort of substances, and must be an addict of some sort. My teeth were already messed up, due to a very weak enamel, that was part of my genetics. The other half of that equation was that, for about 7 years, I was prescribed Adderall and was taking it regularly. I later discovered that Adderall is a street legal prescription of a really bad drug. Those 2 factors made me already even more self conscious about things. So, seeing someone be so blasé about people in situations like that, it kinda hurt, and I didn’t feel like causing a huge fuss at the time, so I just parted ways for a while. But, this community now has made me realize that we really do have an inclusion here, and I shouldn’t be so afraid of what others think.

Lucario Stormblade007

Blockbuster.📼🤩 Did you know,☝🏼there is one☝🏼last and thriving Blockbuster 📼 in Oregon, US. That phrase 💬 is forever burned into my brain,🧠 ha ha ha.😆 Me encanta.❤️✌🏼Classic.👌🏼😎🎊

Koko

Thanks so much for watching out for us! We love you and this community!

Jennifer Adame

hahah! I remmeber seeing that everywhere. Be kind rewind!

Audrey McDonald ( Songs From A Suitcase)

aw thanks! <3

Audrey McDonald ( Songs From A Suitcase)

Thats great to hear! Means what I'm doing is working :)

Audrey McDonald ( Songs From A Suitcase)

I’ve never seen any rude comments on here before (although I only read Glee and HSMTMTS comments) but hey, I’m sure you were right to do it🤷🏾‍♂️👍🏾

Manfred

It is very important for this to feel a as a safe space, by the way AUDREY!!! YOU LOOKED SOOOOOOOOOO SO DAMN CUTE IN THE LAST HSMTMTS VIDEO

Andreu Boada de Atela

I, as I’m sure is the same with everyone, really appreciate you making sure this group remains a safe space for everyone in it 😊

Sophie R

Thank you for keeping this a safe place for all! There is no need for negativity and rudeness here. My Mom used to say "Be kind. Rewind." Meaning take a step back and think about what you just said. (Yes. I'm old enough to have used vcr tapes.🤣🤣)

Steph Stephens

Thank you 👌🏼 for you for this post. 📝 This just reiterates why 🤔 this is our special place. ⚡️ You are a mama bear, auntie bear, sister bear, friend bear, all the bears,🐻 lol.😆 You truly care about our community and protect👩🏻‍🚒it at all cost. Let them know, this is not the place. 👏🏼 They don’t have to go home 🏠 but they have to get the heck ❌ up out of here.👏🏼 Peace, 😌 kindness and respect are necessary. And we all 🤲🏼 deserve these because we are human beings. This is the best 🤩👌🏼community. ✌🏼❤️ 🎊

Koko

Thanks for always being there to protect your followers. Your channel and Danny’s are quickly becoming my favourite spaces on the internet due to both your authenticity and willingness to share personal stories. OUAT, American Horror Story and Glee are highlights of my week

Shani Gribben

Well said. You don’t have to agree with someone’s opinion, you don’t have to like their opinion, and you don’t even really need to respect someone else’s opinion - if it’s absolute bs to you, fair enough - but you should respect *people*, because that’s the right thing to do. That’s all in how you tell them they’re talking out of their ass 😂 I’m glad you’re on top of removing bullies from this community. Everyone I’ve spoken to has been really lovely, and they deserve to be taken care of, so this can remain a nice corner of the internet. So thanks for stepping in and doing that.

Heather Dyson

It shouldn't be, but that's also a learned trait. If you haven't been taught to be kind even when you disagree, then it becomes a competition and motivation to prove yourself correct in anyway possible. That can escalate very quickly.

Audrey McDonald ( Songs From A Suitcase)

Oh no. I hadn't seen any comments like that, but, I agree with a group this big it's bound to happen. If my experiences on social media are any indication there's plenty of people who don't realize that not every thought that pops into their head needs to be vocalized. Nor care, I guess, what people think of them or how they hurt people. I love engaging in healthy debate and experiencing in a variety of opinions/view points. It makes things much more interesting! But, some people clearly take their freedom of speech and right to have a differing opinion in a really bad direction. Which is very disheartening to see. Especially in this group which so far I've had nothing but positive experiences in. Lol, I don't have kids but I have used the "Don't make me pull this car over!" Line on many occasions and situations. 😂

Jennifer Lawrence

Yea I don't mind when people tell me what I should watch. I chalk that up to them just being excited <3

Audrey McDonald ( Songs From A Suitcase)

Thank you for making sure this stays the safe and welcoming space it has always been since the beginning ❤️ you can’t let some people just come in and ruin it for everyone. Being kind should NOT be a hard rule to follow.

Samir

It is easy to have intelligent and respectful conversations even with differing opinions, I've found this to be a fun and friendly space. The only even remotely rude comment I've ever seen was one telling you what you SHOULD watch and react to and even then I'm not sure it was meant to be rude.

Kate Baro

people can be so immature but im glad you saw it first hand and put a stop to it.

zane

Wonderful written! ❤️


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