Rosie and Alena

Calming her down

Added 2024-09-30 03:33:28 +0000 UTC

To some people BDSM is kinky playtime, a little bit of spice in the bedroom, but to some it's more than sexy handcuffs and kink. It's a comfort, an opportunity to relinquish control to another person who you can trust fully. It can be as relaxing as a spa day, as healing as therapy. For me and Alena, BDSM has always been a huge part of our lives. Alena is a pretty anxious girl and along with being beautifully submissive and masochistic, BDSM became such an integral part of not only our time in the bedroom and in our relationship, but in our life.

The past couple of nights Alena has been struggling to sleep peacefully. Stuff happens and her mind is kept ruminating or simply worrying about x, y or z. So tonight we had a little fun together. With a blindfold, bondage and a vibrating wand, I took her mind entirely off whatever had been occupying her previously. Several orgasms later, I gave her the softest aftercare, stroked her all over until she practically melted to sleep. I don't think Doms talk enough about how rewarding it is to have such power and control over someone you care about so much! By exerting that dominance and pushing your submissive through pain or simply something they need to endure for you, you teach your submissive they're strong. By helping them endure the challenges you put out for them in a session, within the safety of your relationship, you give them freedom to express themselves in ways they maybe can't do outside of that setting. BDSM is so freeing!

Now I must get myself to bed too, it's late here! I just wanted to share my ramblings with you all!

xx Rosie