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Opening Up About Shame


VIDEO:

https://youtu.be/1YPFX8MKqeY

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On today's podcast Charlie from Charisma On Command talks about shame. 


Thanks for listening! 


Timestamps

0:00 Charlie’s Experience With Shame

2:19 The Denial of Uncomfortable Emotions

13:07 The Danger of Compounding Shame

17:29 Traumatic Events Don’t Feel Important In the Moment

23:36 You Will Regret Ignoring Your Inner Wisdom

29:16 The Surprising Difficulty of Letting Your Emotions Flow

35:21 Feeling Like Everything Is Your Fault

38:09 Understanding the Appeal of God and Religion

42:29 “The Most Supported I Had Ever Felt”

49:00 Reaching Your Full Potential Is Scary

52:13 Feeling Undeserving of Success

56:40 Success Is Not a Zero-Sum Game


Opening Up About Shame

Comments

I think this was one of your best podcasts episodes to-date. I would encourage you to continue to record more episodes where you are speaking without notes, about the insights you are receiving during space-making sessions. Whenever you are able. The authenticity of this episode was thought provoking and emotionally challenging (in a good way). Your presentation of the topic seems accessible to listeners that are 10 years younger and 10 years older then you, and that seemed different than usual.

I love you

This episode was brilliant and very touching. Thank you both for your vulnerability, this episode helped me greatly. For what it’s worth I would really love more episodes like this, only if and when you’re willing an able to give them to us. Thank you guys again!

I appreciate you both, and this podcast, so much! Thank you! It’s interesting that you feel like you’ve shared all your good ideas, because I hear new good ideas from y’all every single week

Thank you for the vulnerability you shared in this conversation. I’ve been appreciating the analogy of space being held in a conversation, it gives words to a hard to explain concept. Last pod, there was a discussion on having more awareness of the reason for a statements being made in a convo, understanding if a statement is fulfilling a personal need or if it supports someone else. That tying into the discussion personally understanding emotions being the only way to make space for others to feel them. Side note: I feel like I’ve barely scratched my past so to hear you two discuss and provide such value in learning about how your past impact you is inspiring. Henry! I love having you on here and look forward to seeing how you two develop these things. Charlie! Thank you for all of your insight over the years. You (and Ben) have wildly shifted the trajectory of my life. Thank you for creating so many pies. -Joe


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