Intimacy Test Questions

Pasted below will be the question to the intimacy test as mentioned in a preview patreon video:

Questions which both you and your conversation partner ask and answer

Set A

1. Would you like to be famous? In what way?

2. What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?

3. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be? Why?

4. For what in your life do you feel most grateful?

5. Given the choice of anyone (living or deceased) whom would you want as a dinner guest? What would you ask that person?

6. Name two things you and your partner (the person you are talking with right now) appear to have in common.

We both have good hearts. Both like to look at the bigger picture.

7. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?

More consistency amongst parents decisions.

Set B

8. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, or anything else in the future, what would you want to know? Why?

9. What is your most treasured memory?

10. If you knew that in one year you would suddenly pass away, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?

11. Alternate sharing something you consider a positive characteristic of your partner (the person you are talking with right now).

12. How close and warm is your family (the family you grew up in)? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people’s?

13. How do you feel about your relationship with your mother?

14. Make three true “we” statements each. For instance, “We are both in this room feeling ... “

15. Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share ... “

16. If you were going to become a close friend with your partner (the person you are talking with right now), please share what would be important for him or her to know.

17. Share with your partner (the person you are talking with right now) an embarrassing moment in your life.

18. If you were to pass away this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet?

19. Share a personal problem and ask your partner’s (the person you are talking with right now) advice on how he or she might handle it. Also, ask your partner (the person you are talking with right now) to reflect back to you how you seem to be feeling about the problem you have chosen.