What It Means To Have Substance In A Convo

day 5 of learning pateroni learned substance is getting the girl talk about her self and opening up to you and this makes her comfortable trying to put her in the position of explain her self to you Go Deep not wide Making her feel emotional secure Established a connection with that girl that another can’t and won’t make

Davious Britton

Great video Ty you explained this shi perfectly

Carlos

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ville

nothing has to be about anything, but obviously be on topic for the discussion. Or don’t! You can play that off too, random shit is one of my specialties, but that does lighten up the mood and release tension so it depends on what you’re leading towards

Mark

what's the amazing song playing in the background...

worktodofr1

do you tell her something of substance about yourself or does it always have to be connected to what she said from one of the answers to the "deep" questions you asked her?

nathan

bro you overthinking way too much just vibe in the convo all convos don't have to be deep.

Samba D

When do you start to include substance in the Convo immediately or at least get some small talk going first?

Tumelo Khanya O'ratile Metsing

Sometimes in conversation I feel going deep would make it ultra serious and take from the good fun vibe. I even see it online like I try saying something deeper related to the topic and I can literally feel it on them they're not really into that deep shit and they lose interest like I'm an alien to them. They probably associate deep stuff with a nerdy guy and to them the cultured deep nerd is almost never the successful guy in life but the loser and tbh they're kinda right. I haven't really seen no deep cultured man crush it socially in a club on Friday night. And that happens with most girls l talk to online. How do you balance out the fun vibe, the good emotions you give em with deep topic so that they're actually interested in that depth, cause I feel she gotta like you a bit AAND like deep stuff herself to appreciate a deep man otherwise I just became an old boring teacher to her

David Popa

This gonna help you get the kill tho?

Breadwinner

These are more focused and to the point

TyKwonDoe

How you’re YT videos be 50mins long but you’re paid vidoes are 6-10mins ??

Gabe itches

With Ty as my sensei I got all the confidence in the world

Seven

I rewatch ur stuff all the time because it’s entertaining but mainly to commit to memory.

Sajiste

Wow this explained something to me Ive been wondering 10 years about.

Matthew Ogbuehi

Went on a date last night and on the way I was telling myself “go deep not wide” W vid Perfect timing for me to analyze now with this video

DMT

this been elevating my game so much brodie

Vince Davis

I fw that “go deep not wide” W video on substance