This is a real as it gets. Everyone has those down moments. Those dips. Those lulls where you can’t figure out why your drive for love making and passion isn’t there.
We are no super hero’s. It happens to us too. Whether it’s a few days or a few weeks.
But there’s typically a few reasons for this. 🤔
1: Stress. When life gets just too much it’s a complete and total killer for your health. Mentally and physically. But it’s also a killer of your love life. Find the point of stress, and eliminate it.
2: The fast life. We also figured out that often when we have had weeks of lots of run around and busy, that our love life suffers. Often things like passion and sex come from time together. So as much as we want growth and community, don’t neglect each other and/or one of the most valuable things that you will never be able to get back. Time.
3: Unspoken issues. This one has happened three or four times in our 17 year relationship, where one of us, or both of us feels a tension spot in our love life, but doesn’t say it. It isn’t until those things are resolved that your health and passion in the relationship will resume as it did before. And sometimes to an even greater degree.
Of course there are more things than just these three, but these are the trends that we have found to be reoccurring in our relationship if we are not careful. ❤️
Josiah Walehwa
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