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What is the reason?

Dear followers!🍂🍁💛💙

I’m curious, why do men often hesitate to start a conversation with women, approach them on the streets, or even here, where many men seem to limit themselves in communication and comments?

I recently watched an interview with two of our military assault troops who go on missions to storm enemy positions daily. Imagine, it’s like an addiction for them now—if they don’t clear out some thicket or trench, they feel bored and miss the adrenaline. Every day, comrades die beside them, arms and legs are torn off, injuries and death are constant companions, yet they still head out for assaults and clearances daily.

So, a journalist asked them if they were scared. They answered that they do feel a bit scared, but it’s a thrill, and they can’t live without it anymore.

Then, when asked if they have wives or girlfriends, they said they don’t. The reason? They’re afraid to approach beautiful women, they get shy.

Can you imagine? People who face death daily on the frontlines aren’t afraid of it but still feel awkward and scared to approach a beautiful woman.

Maybe it’s something inherent in human nature—a kind of regulator or something like that. I don’t know the reason, but it’s often the case.

Don’t be shy, please share your thoughts in the comments!😊

I would be grateful if at least half of my 200+ followers shared their thoughts with a brief comment on this post🫶🏻❤️

If, of course, the majority even reads my posts.😀

Thank you!

What is the reason?

Comments

So, the key issue is still the fear of rejection. Well, they say knowing the problem is already half the solution 🙂 Especially if you’ve got some insider knowledge from the other side, which goes like this: Women appreciate more decisiveness from men. Make the most of it 😘🤚🏻

Olha

David Wallder

You are very welcome

travellingjournalist

In that sense, yes, it’s a great way of communication. Thank you!

Olha

To me social media or follow you is a chance to converse with someone you would never met before the internet that’s my take on all of this

travellingjournalist

Мені здається в Туреччині проблема не відсутня а навпаки, саме так як в Туреччині це ще більша проблема😔

Olha

Well, I don’t know, but social media is probably different. I don’t meet people on social media. I just interact with followers or reply to comments. But it’s definitely not for meeting people in the usual sense. Most users here are anonymous, and for me, that’s a taboo when it comes to openness.

Olha

Thank you for your response. There is probably some sense in what you’ve said, at least partially. However, in general, I observe this pattern across all cultures worldwide, regardless of national differences. As for Muslims, I’m not sure; it’s a mystery to me since I’m not familiar with them at all.

Olha

О, це все про мене😊 Всі перелічені Вами ознаки не є недоліком для жінки. Але якщо без жартів, то думаю Ви дуже помиляєтесь щодо незацікавленості жінок🙂

Olha

Tano Cariddi

Hello, for me it is very simple, I think, my idea is very simple, starting from the fact that men are generally simple people, 2+2=4, the example that you give of the army, I think that the military issue is under control, assuming the risk that they run. When you share your life with another person, I am talking about boy-girl, the gay issue I don't know if it is the same, there can be routines, habits, love, discussions, etc. All of this is sometimes not controllable, these kids are used to being controlled, military orders, routines, the opposite of being in a couple. Another thing could be that the fear of making loved ones suffer, they put up a mental barrier and shyness is the trigger for not relating. Another could be like athletes, some become addicted to the dopamine that you generate with adrenaline, one is to do more sports, others is to survive. This is what it could be for me, there may be more theories, which one is the good one? Nobody knows, it depends on the culture and habits of each country. They can all be good or bad.

coquus

For me the reason I won’t approach a woman is fear and he main reason is rejection and then it’s fear of misreading their reaction that’s why if I can make some jokes have a little fun and make them laugh it’s half the battle, as you should be able to tell I don’t have any problem chatting through social media, if a woman makes it clear she wants to get to know me then even better think it’s just a lack of confidence though if you met me you would probably think I’m really confident

travellingjournalist


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