A.N. Update on IRL situation
Added 2023-01-26 10:32:28 +0000 UTCHi Patreons, thanks for reading this; it is just giving you an update on some things that are affecting me personally. (Warning it's pretty depressing)
Specifically, my wife and I have been told that our baby is guaranteed to not go the full 38 weeks and will be born premature. This has made things very stressful for us with us having to get ALL THE THINGS for baby with capsule, pram, and get what is known as 00000's clothing along with 000000's and such. So it is rather scary. Throughout this I have been rather stressed out I will admit as yeah, it's not something anyone has done or anything we can control. (For those curious baby has a high risk CCAM)
I still have a pretty large bank of chapters written so I hope I can continue to produce chapters even if it's chewing into safety net. I was hoping to get things way, way more advanced before baby came along and threw my schedule came out.
I have been working with my wife on a few things today on a national holiday here in Australia.
So, that said I am not confident in my ability to get chapters out on time as an induced labour can be called at pretty much any GP/OBY/MFN/Hospital visit that are almost happening every 2-3 days now. I still want to keep writing as I find it very relaxing and fulfilling. It's like the one hobby I have anymore... (read into that as you will...other expectant parents)
So, I toyed with the potential idea of putting a pause on billing if that does occur but with how my patreon is set up to be a pay per 30-day cycle I'm not sure if that will stop people from getting what they paid for. I thought I best be upfront in case something does happen. If something does happen and I can't post chapters I will pause them.
A first step to lighten any load I'm under would be that I would be stopping chapters to the free sites that let people know how the story is progressing.
Ummmmm, yeah. So positive thoughts and all that? but I thought I should give you a heads-up that things are tense IRL for me and I might be slower or fail to meet my release schedule.
I don't want to shortchange anyone but yeah... I'm sorry for that but it's out of my control and my baby and wife will come first. Thanks for all the support you have given me as there have been some financial decisions that were a lot easier recently due to your support. also thank you in advance to any well-wishers. I appreciate your comments.
TLDR:- Viva's as-yet unborn baby has a medical condition that professionals have declared a risk to baby. Baby will be in my life months earlier and at much higher risk. Chapters going forward hopefully will remain as they are but there is not a 100% certainty of that. Thanks for your support.
Comments
Yeah I understand completely, from what I was told I was born almost 2 months premature and it wasn’t easy for my parents to prepare. Hope all goes well for you and your child!
JHudson
2023-02-15 19:20:49 +0000 UTCHey, I was premature too! Went to university and overall healthy. It's gonna be ok.
Daruda
2023-02-05 19:48:20 +0000 UTCFamily first.
jodezaca
2023-01-30 10:39:32 +0000 UTCHey, I just wanted to say don't worry! Your Family comes first, always. I was born premature as well....at 26-27 weeks in 92.....one of the first in my country and I was healthy. I wish you the best!
BlainX
2023-01-26 18:13:07 +0000 UTCMine was born 92 days early. Feel free to message me.
Xegzy
2023-01-26 17:21:02 +0000 UTCBoth of mine were in the 2-3 weeks premature. It definitely throws all planning for a loop. Hope everything goes smoothly and mama and the baby are safe. Don’t worry about the Patreo thing seriously. I don’t pay monthly because of an expectation of an amount of content. But to support budding authors on their journeys to creating awesome stories. Your doing great.
Cindercon
2023-01-26 15:47:32 +0000 UTCWishing you the best with everything! And don’t worry about Patreon, personally it’s more of a way to support an author I enjoy. You do what you gotta do, and extra content is far less important.
Skrubstar
2023-01-26 15:14:24 +0000 UTCCongratulations on having a baby! Hopefully it will be healthy even if premature. Don't worry about there being less chapters, do what you need to do. Nobody with sense will complain about delays with that sort of issue.
AcidYak
2023-01-26 15:07:23 +0000 UTCHey man I was one such baby and I made it through, was sick a lot in my early years according to my mother but now I’m healthy as anybody else, have faith!
Sweetsugar
2023-01-26 14:54:45 +0000 UTCNo one worth listening to will complain about less chapters or no chapters. Family alway first
Wanous
2023-01-26 14:27:03 +0000 UTCFamily obviously comes before everything! I hope this ends up being nothing, but no matter what happens the chapters are the last thing you need to be worried about.
Jake
2023-01-26 13:39:11 +0000 UTCLook at you being a real life Brock and taking care of your family first! Thanks for the honesty, and I'm sure everything will turn out ok for your family. We support you so be sure to take care of yourself and your own first, then continue writing your amazing stories.
juno
2023-01-26 12:57:44 +0000 UTCFamily first man, for me I don't think you have to pause payments. You just gave all of us a heads up that posts might slow down and that should be enough, I'm on patreon to support the writers, I'm a grown adult and can adjust my pledge if I need to. Take care
Netveiwer
2023-01-26 11:53:07 +0000 UTCDude, take all the time you need. Brock will be completely okay with you putting him on the backburner for a while! :P
OrigamiGuyII
2023-01-26 11:10:13 +0000 UTCFamily first mate best wishes. I know im not that high of a pledge but I'm more than fine waiting for chapters.
Biblion
2023-01-26 10:59:45 +0000 UTCYou don't have to do that. I appreciate the gesture but yeah, I just wanted to give people a heads up.
Viva01
2023-01-26 10:46:19 +0000 UTCUpped my pledge and sending my best wishes as well
Shurukkah
2023-01-26 10:44:10 +0000 UTCTake care mate. Wish your fam a speedy recovery! Best wishes
philip
2023-01-26 10:40:05 +0000 UTCGood luck!
Daniel Budde
2023-01-26 10:37:29 +0000 UTCFocus on your family first everything else is not nearly as important. We can wait for the next chapters
Omega753
2023-01-26 10:35:40 +0000 UTCAll the best wishes mate. Please do whatever to keep you and your family safe. If delaying chapters is required you won't hear any complaints from me.
brett thomas
2023-01-26 10:35:36 +0000 UTCOmfg sending good vibes to you and your family. I hope that you know that we understand this means fuck all in contrast to you and yours irl situation so don't worry.
Joel Rodriguez
2023-01-26 10:35:13 +0000 UTCAtb man. Hope everything works out for you and your family. Will be waiting to read your works again should you choose to pause.
Midgarde
2023-01-26 10:34:54 +0000 UTC