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[#107] Patreon Bonus

Hey Wine About It Patrons!

This episode — or rather, these episodes — are a bit special (unfortunately, not in a good way) because we encountered some issues during our recording session.
Normally, we rely on a "main recording + two backup recordings" system to ensure we always have an episode, no matter what goes wrong. However, due to technical difficulties this week, we only had the main recording and one backup.

Unfortunately, both of these recordings ended up with issues.

The main recording didn’t include QT’s microphone audio because she accidentally forgot to unmute herself. Meanwhile, the backup recording picked up Fuslie's stream in the background because I (Nico) messed up and didn’t notice that OBS was recording audio from an unintended track and I could not hear the audio myself.

The result is what you’ll see (and hear) in this episode — both the YouTube and Patreon versions — with stream audio playing in the background.

We’re sorry this happened, but with everything else going on this week, there wasn’t a way for us to re-record both episodes. This was the only option left, and before we leave you empty-handed, we hope you’ll still enjoy the episodes despite these technical hiccups.

Thank you for understanding!

[#107] Patreon Bonus

Comments

Queen Elizabeth loved Africans, and did so many good things for Africa in spite of the racism of British people at that time. She was the called "The African Queen". I don't buy for a second that the Queen or the other royals are racist against an African-American person. They don't like her because she's American maybe, but not because she's African.

Steven Precourt

That girl’s friends are NOT her friends. How are you going to force a “friend” to do something they’re uncomfortable with and then not help them out at all? How terrible I hope she realizes she deserves better bc wtaf

Mars

I do sorta agree on your first point, the generalizations just get a little annoying sometimes. But QT does say “everyone” meaning it was likely boys AND girls, but maya chose to single out the boys and let the girls off the hook. Both boys and girls can be mean, whether accidentally or on purpose. And when you say she agreed with maya I actually don’t even think she’s commenting on Maya’s complaint with the “true, yeah, yeah”. I think she’s just expressing a confidence in her own statement. They both kind of have their own separate trains of thought in that moment and come back together after they’re done with them.

Moose

For the trash tv stand in my idea I’m throwing out is maybe double gaming, like maybe the 20 mns of plate up and 20 mins of a story game you two can take turns playing

barth

That party thing is so weird… QT was great to try to help her so much. There are definitely better ways of going about it than what her “friends” did. I found the lasagne video easily, it’s a video on QT’s channel called “My Friend is Actually Clueless” Tbf I’m sure a lot of people who replied to Maya’s tweet are twitter Americans who love Meghan/hate the royals because of her documentary so not really the best sample 😂 Her English friends are right though, most (younger) people here don’t care about the Royal family so don’t have a strong opinion either way. However, there are many older people & royalists that do.

Alanna M

Just gotta say cuz I'm an Irish man. FUCK the royal family. That family has done evil shit for centuries. Even Liz had her coronation in colonized Kenya. I think every royale family in every country should be dissolved. Megan and Harry are chill because they left

Slawncha

Everybody makes oopsies, Nico. Thanks for all you do! <3

Jarvis Cantu

So funny QT being a kind friend not outing whoever rocks a full boner while shaving, and keeping it behind paywall, while Lud just screams it with names right in the middle of The Yard main ep

Brennan

i dont think theyve ever done a "men bad" bit that could even be remotely taken seriously. also consider it was QT's story and she agreed/did correct when maya said it was boys it was probably boys

Theodore Salmon

This is just an idea that came to me but maybe for tier 2 or 3 to replace the trash TV or one of the other rewards. Maybe once a month you do an OG wine about it with alcohol. (it came to me while driving and thought i should at least comment it)

lewits

As soon as I got off the phone with the news of my father's passing the first thing I said to my husband was guess who's officially a full orphan?!

Dani- Lee

I have been getting full body waxed for like 4 years now, including Brazilian and never had an experience like QT's. Only in my last Brazilian did I experience ingrown hairs. I usually go my brazilian at a small business waxer but will probably go my Brazilian at european wax center where I used to before but it was like $300 in central Florida 😅 I also do find waxing has over time reduced the number of hairs and their thickness over time. Because I only wax the hair comes out very easily and doesn't hurt as much. You definitely acclimate to the pain and feel only the Brazilian really hurts. i actually find the warm wax relaxing when they do my back. It's definitely been worth it for me. Also WOC sometimes have adverse reactions to some lasers so do your research if you do it!

Paula Mejia

Love this podcast. Been here since the very beginning. But I feel like the “men bad” thing is a little excessive sometimes. Like why the assumption that only boys called the poor girl “bush”, when it was probably girls that started it seeing as it was swim tryouts. And sometimes they mention that society pits women against each other. I feel like that’s not an exclusively female experience. Jealousy and insecurity are a human issue, not a gender issue. Competition is an inherent part of the human experience and condition. I’m not saying women don’t have issues perpetuated by society, they absolutely do. But sometimes it’s a bit much. I do also get that this attitude comes from past negative experiences with men, so I don’t like being too harsh.

Moose

I had Brazilians done for a year and never bled. I'm wondering if it was who QT went to or something about my body or hair follicles

Taylor

Leslie guest ep hell yeah I'll gladly accept

Mando Chil

My thoughts exactly

Mando Chil

Nico the only thing you should apologise for is that we paid $5 to hear audio of friggin Ellum 😠

Imrano

Omg Ethan Nester would be such a great Alveus colab

Carto

great coverage on that concealer

smuthrat

Shitty friends. QT trying her best. Simple as.

Chuffer

1) audio issues weren’t that bad at all! no stress nico 2) if you wanna get more insight into the meghan drama, you should watch their documentary on netflix from 2020 or whenever!

explizitly

Thanks for giving us the episodes despite the issues!

MundaneBacklot

eight sessions of laser did nothing for me, but that may be due to my PCOS. Also, waxing is not typically bruising and bleeding, try a sugar wax!

Valerie Garza

Saw a comment about having a guest ep where someone teaches you ab a certain subject, mayeb w a powerpoint or something. i also bring up taylor talks what happened w that? I’m sure you have told maya so much ab the lore but that could be fun. Or movie reacts to classics like hsm or other “classic” movies one of you haven’t seen. I loved watching 500 days of summer and discussing it i just feel like you guys have realistic takes and i love maya’s logical analysis of things

Melanie Stewart

Completely agree

Melanie Stewart

No Maya, you're completely in the right. Meghan is hated because of racism and the media narrative. Also QT confusing Jonathan Bailey for Zachary Levi is hilarious 😂

Mary Fuller

dudde parents not teaching you to shave is such a problem!!! i remember being in middle school and i was SO afraid of shaving because no one ever told me about it, my friends literally shaved my legs for me for the first time. i also didn't shave the back of my knee for so long bc i cut it once in 8th grade LOL

rylee tanner

Actually so funny how QT went out of her way not to name the person who gets hard to shave their nuts and then you go listen to the Yard and Ludwig just says it OUT LOUD. Respect to QT lmao

Michael Reid

I thought Meghan Markle was doing her witchcraft on me

Karl Wilson

this audio had me thinking I was having auditory hallucinations

Mitch Mitcherson

An often overlooked part of all the British tabloid hate towards Megan and Harry is because he sued them over hacking his phone.

Leigh Phillips

tech issues happen it’s fine I’ve always wanted Leslie on the pod… also I’m glad there are people like qt who are considerate of others at parties, it definitely seems like a shitty best friend issue

Emi

As a pubic parasite, I feel you girls are being a little judgemental about my lifestyle. Thaaanks

Karl Wilson

Girls, listen, instead of waxing…my wife is lasered, everywhere. Smooth as and never have to worry about shaving or waxing OR hair again..free advice!

MutlerWheelz

Qt trying to have a serious conversation about the future of the Patreon while the vod is in the back is sending me. It’s giving vibes at a party.

Michele C

Sh*t happens. Don't worry about it.

Eureca

Thank you for still posting it

Simon

I'd love for TV/Film reacting to stay in some form cus I perticularly like that kind of content. Some people complain too much, have too much audacity

Cynthia Soly D.

Appreciate the transparency with the audio, it wasn't too distracting! Tech mistakes happen, thanks so much for all your hard work producer :)

Jennica

Aww no worries guys Im glad we even got an episode!!

Ewe A Cicada

sorry I yapped

tyongflight

okay so my take on the Nye story: we as viewers, only got like 10% of what you saw/experienced during this party, which in itself, is probably like 30% of what's happening between those ppl, so it's kind of hard to know exactly who's done what and why, but I think you did everything you could possibly have done and even more, you tried your best but there seemed to be genuinely nothing more you could have done from what we heard. it seems like a complex situation, but saying you don't know someone when a coworker comes and tells you that that person is in literal shambles, is very wild and inconceivable to me for the Patreon bonus stuff: I'm not a tier 2, so I'm not really affected by the whole changes and stuff, but in terms of ideas, I really like the idea of even if not weekly, but biweekly or smth, having one of your friends who's really passionate about a niche subject teaching you all about it, like you could have one friend that's really into this series of books and tells u all the lore and stuff, or someone who's really into idk polish tap dancing competitions (idk if that's a thing I just made it up) teach u all about the nuances and drama of the scene, but it might be complicated to introduce a third party into Patreon content and relying on other ppl for your paid content, but that was just an idea I had. or u could ask your patrons/viewers to make u PowerPoint presentations about their current interest so there could theoretically be endless content

tyongflight

Glad we didn't ex'd the episodes. I really enjoyed the british topic, I think it's fun they're calling experts like dad and excoworker about topics they're curious about. Maybe that's a tier 2 suggestion? Hehe the fuslie stream in the back, very normal when you're multitasking watching! Thanks for the episodes!

Torayume

My brain enjoyed the chaos of the audio in this.

Darren Hertenstein

that girls friends sound like massive assholes!! ps although you can bleed when u get wax that def doesn’t happen every time! i’d agree it’s too painful to try again and this is coming from a licensed waxer

Lu

I used to get Brazilian waxes for months consecutively. It gets WAY easier and better after the 3rd consecutive time around without shaving in between sessions.

Tori Ochoa

also this wasn't bad at all for me to listen to, i do sometimes have streams on in the background while also having music or like a yt video playing

linda

the final questions of the patreon episode where you guys just agreed killed me lol

linda

I think you shouldn't abandon ideas for T2 for a lack of longevity, just do them once or twice and the week after something different

Victor Schilow

with that being said idc how anyone else does it and i wouldnt be arguing online about it thats definitely so silly

MICHY!!!!!

i found out i was autistic because ive always been overly invested in doing things the "right" way, when i brush my teeth it has to be water > toothpaste > water again, TP needs to face outside, cereal must go before milk etc. if I dont do it "right" it makes me so physically uncomfortable lmfao

MICHY!!!!!

as a fan of stanz’s deep dive series i think that would be really fun.

mormonteeth

the beauty of the fuslie vod being in the background is its kinda how i’d be listening to this anyways

stellularphone

voting sticker today

MICHY!!!!!

Mood

With_Thomas

The girl with social anxiety is being bullied by her best friend 100%. I think the uncomfortable feeling everyone had about it wouldn’t exist unless something bad was happening on some level.

Corra Brodbeck

the background stream 😩

katie

the story with the anxious person at the party is odd. i agree with maya and i think personally would act similarly as well. like check up on the person, give them company and try and let their friends know about the situation but if both parties arent really giving me an edge then theres really not that much i can do about it because idk them or their dynamic, i can understand people handling social anxiety differently (even if i dont get their methods lol). giving a situation like that too much attention also feels very uncomfortable and awkward and i know for a fact if i was the anxious one here i'd hate for people to push me or my friends there for answers that none of us wanna give all in all if the friends are saying to leave it be then thats what i will do, they know the person better and the anxious one is dealing with the situation the way they can, i can only interfere to the extent they want me to. leave it at that and at least try to enjoy the party for myself i cant for the life of me figure out why the supposed best friend said they didnt know upset person thats so weird great episodes! audio was scuffed in certain parts, i couldnt understand the call with qts coworker but its okay, the rest of it was understandable. my internal wine about it jug was filled with what we got. thanks qt, maya and nico for all the hard work <3 fully appreciate all of your efforts into making the patreon experience a great, fulfilling one also hope y'all are safe from the fires in LA!! take care

Mosh

Megan hate is 100% racism and old people who’s kids cut them off projecting

KellyAnn

wahoo!

Faye852

as someone with horrific social anxiety, good on qt and ethan for having a heart and actually checking on/trying to help the girl crying at the party. i hope she finds better friends to help integrate her into social spaces. the only reason i could possibly think of for her "friends" saying it's complicated and just shrugging it off is that she does this all the time for the drama and attention or something, but then why would they bring her in the first place so idk

Lizzie

British person here. No one cares about the royal family. Most people roll their eyes about it when stuff comes up or get annoyed about the cost on the tax payer. Also there’s no ‘royal trust’. There’s a the crown estates which basically pays for all the palaces and owns a huge amount of land in the UK for the benefit of the royal family, but they also have their own private billions. Most people really don’t care about Megan, the hate is racist nonsense from the tabloids that is ignored by all but the most die hard royalists.

Couran

37 year old here, was taught nothing about periods, shaving, puberty etc growing up. As guardian to a 14 year old girl (since toddler) we’re super open about everything from get go. Can’t teach her to do eyeliner though cause I can’t do it myself 😆

spacecampsucks

I like this idea. Movies are much more manageable than TV shows!

spacecampsucks

Lovely to hear ellum on this week's pod.

Mark Watling

yippee

the.black.dog.13

maybe reading crazy reddit stories could be a good substitute for tier 2

RubenAlmendarez

Someone roll the clip of Maya going "Shaft hair??"

77katz77

listening to this while drunk and playing marvel rivals was perfect for my adhd ears

hollieb0o

wowie

AxialMars

For tier 2 content you could ask patreon subscribers for our favorite science/history or educational youtube video and then you could put those into a playlist to react too. I think it would be fun to watch and learn about new topics together with you. I think you would have to look at the video titles and get rid of ones you know both of you would not be interested at all in. Idk its just an idea.

Mikey

voting sticker today

hollieb0o

Barely...

Eddie

why tho, we pay for this

Jorge Ramirez

If you are having trouble processing what's being said during the stream noise portion, try using the closed captions. Even though they are auto-generated, they seem to be mostly correct. It makes it easier to focus on what they're saying.

Nuki

Also, not related to what I said but I like Trash TV format now as it makes sense and I like all the new things you’ve implemented for here. Not really helpful feedback but I’m happy to take whatever you guys want to give us for content

Elijah

the background stream wasn't that big a deal until toward the end when they weirdly got real loud. +as for more content for the patreon, another podcast I listen to has done an advice thing where they find interesting questions from existing advice columns (dear abby, etc) and then give their own take. usually not even reading Abby's response, but you could reveal to each other what the "official" advice was, if you wanted. I know this doesn't include audience interaction, but it would help prevent getting the same questions all the time

Marc !

All I could think about this entire episode(s) was Maya's XLR cable hanging on for dear life.

Trevor Ayala

Can we have movie reacts instead? I liked the 500 days of summer watch along because you guys were actually able to finish watching it and discuss what you thought about it in it's entirety, unlike the shows which take literal years to finish.

Ed

I 100% understand Maya’s Glenn Powell comment

Sophia

Me when I'm roleplaying that this episode of Wine About It was recorded in the middle of my work Christmas party.

BisonHero

Very grateful for the episode regardless 🙏

Andrea

The audio is barely noticeable, thank you, Nico, for letting us know and we appreciate all you all do and thanks for posting this great episode anyway! I completely agree that the Meghan hate is just racism. Granted, I am Irish and despise the royals as an institution and all that; but due to proximity as the UK is just a stone throw away or so haha, we are fed all the phenomenal reporting in the likes of the sun and daily mail (eye-roll) and it does seem that its royalists who are mainly white, middle-class or above, middle-aged people who don’t like the idea of “diluting royal (white) blood” that have such a strong hatred of her. Even the idea that she didn’t know how to curtsey or whatever always seems to be blown out of proportion because well why would anyone know how to do that unless you’re like the people who are raised to get into the royal family which we have seen throughout history and I’m sure that’s what Kate was surrounded by throughout her upbringing. Anyway, all those expectations of knowing and going along with them for me is an absurd thought and then knowing how vocal Meghan has been about her mental health since being enlisted into the royals essentially and therefore needing to act and present a certain way with an inbred racist family who I can assume likely see you as an inferior person to themselves for multiple reasons - yeah I think it comes down to classism, racism, imperialism, etc, etc, etc.

Elijah

Ellum shut the fuck uppppppppp lololol

kron

her videos were the first thing I thought about when they started talking about the royal family

Mars

QT reading off a bunch of celebrity roast jokes she liked, while Maya politely listens and doesn't know who any of the celebrities are, is peak Wine About It.

BisonHero

Audio listeners, we're multitasking.

mynameiswaylon

At first the stream in the background was annoying but it started to grow on me

Jaret Strickert

i agree!!

meemie

Its very helpful that they talk loud. + it wasn't as bad as i was expecting by reading the description

Arden

imagine explaining to a victorian child why and how I listened to all of this podcast, no problem while playing a video game.

DOPAMINE27

ok munecat’s videos are actually 3 years old, so a bit more recent than i thought

ty_next

A video essayist by the name of munecat did a couple of videos on british tabloid culture’s treatment of Meghan Markle and hypocrisy like the example Maya gave with Kate Middleton, though I think they are old enough to be pre-covid. Tabloids/racism/anti-american sentiment are all definitely major factors in the way people treated Meghan and Harry, though some people whose judgement I generally trust (TrueAnon podcast) are pretty sus on her too, but I don’t remember the reasons.

ty_next

Fuslie guest episode

Chris

Bonus Fuslie stream!?!?! POG

HeyBroItsBrad

honestly i’m treating the audio issue as an exercise in improving my auditory processing skills by trying to isolate qt and mayas voices

meemie

Yeah, lining that up sounds like an absolutely hellish task that I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy. Thank you for your service 🙏

nick

I tried phase cancellation, but unfortunately Twitch's actual VOD is not in sync with the recording, and lining everything up with it being different timings as the recording progresses, it was impossible in a timely manner. ~ Nico

Maya Higa

If there's a vod for fuslies stream it might be possible to remove the audio, though depending on a few factors it might not work or have bad artifacts - I've done it before, but only when I've had the exact audio file (i.e. not recompressed) so I am not certain it would work here.

nick

Don't stress! Both QT and Maya were busy, we appreciate everyone involved for delivering anything at all.

Smelly

Very glad we are at least getting an episode instead of scrapping it entirely, looking forward to hearing Fuslie talk lmao

Samuel Lazar

welcometowineaboutit

meemie

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