wineaboutit / [#56] Patreon Bonus

I don’t think not caring about the worst happening to someone is you hating them, it’s just not caring, indifference. when you HATE someone you dedicate a certain part of your life to make sure bad things happen to them, is my take.

Yupooman

2024-10-31 14:41:47 +0000 UTC

It’s crazy that people would be so negative towards that fear & episode QT is referencing because that’s my favorite episode and I’ve gone back to listen to it countless times. I’ll often put it on when I have a headache or am laying in bed with cramps and I want something to distract myself. I’ve listened to it and the patreon ep at least 2 dozen times

Bi Bubble tea

2024-10-09 20:40:29 +0000 UTC

Hey yall long time listener new to patreon. Where do I get access to the discord?

CostalArdvark

2024-02-24 09:24:50 +0000 UTC

Same on the forgiving. Why should I forgive someone who hurt me so badly and never apologized? I was raped too and then he harassed me afterwards. I haven’t forgiven him and don’t want to - or would take more energy to do that than not!

octoberdancing

2024-02-23 15:59:31 +0000 UTC

Girl yapping is fun to watch sorry cutie you had to deal with that

joseph Sierra-leon

2024-02-22 05:48:44 +0000 UTC

I just have to chime in and say Jo Koy is widely popular and hilarious. I didn't watch the show (nor any award show for that matter). But just in general. Jo Koy is hilarious, and I would consider world famous and sells out arenas.

Taylor Lamberto

2024-01-26 06:23:48 +0000 UTC

Very late on this either QT is misremembering Ricky's monologue which I've heard nothing but good things for knocking down the absurdity that is the Golden Gloves, I mean he was brought back a few times. But my god is his new standup bad and offensive without the humour

Aidan C

2024-01-24 13:46:38 +0000 UTC

damn I was really enjoying QT yapping so much on fear& like "pop off girl your turn on the mic", had no idea there are such shitty ppl in the fanbase over there

PhlyPhan

2024-01-20 23:21:20 +0000 UTC

I don't listen to to fear& but QT is always great on the podcast, IDK why anyone thinks she talks too much or is a vibe killer. Maybe I'm biased lmao

Obrigaah

2024-01-17 22:03:54 +0000 UTC

I do agree about the "basic white girl" thing being made out to be a bad thing. Because it's literally just normal hobbies done by a white woman and for some reason that's a bad thing???

Obrigaah

2024-01-17 22:00:47 +0000 UTC

The Taylor Swift joke was ultra lighthearted too

Josh Johnson

2024-01-15 06:09:04 +0000 UTC

I have read all of Spice and Wolf. It has nothing sexual about it. It is a manga about trade economics in olden time with a merchant who finds a wolf god among some wheat he bartered for and she wishes to return home to the north. There is an anime but it is currently incomplete.

Genomaxter

2024-01-14 22:46:56 +0000 UTC

The fear& episode was great QT was hilarious through the entire thing

Bullbagaren

2024-01-14 20:29:34 +0000 UTC

I just checked the fear & episode and all the top comments are all about how much they love QT and her doing the sapphire award. Don't listen to the haters, QT. Your fans have so much more to say ☺️

Paula Mejia

2024-01-14 08:19:04 +0000 UTC

The last Fear& episode was literally one of my favourites!! I thought you were genuinely electric 💕💕

Anastasia

2024-01-13 21:19:07 +0000 UTC

As someone with social anxiety who finds it difficult to know when to speak up or but in. I definitely appreciate people like QT who are always able to find something to talk about and fill the inevitable silence.

77katz77

2024-01-13 17:56:33 +0000 UTC

I always thought Ricky Gervais had one of the best monologues so it’s funny to find out people hated it

Adrian

2024-01-13 16:19:47 +0000 UTC

QT I thought you were great on the latest Fear& episode. Loved your Stanley Yelnats joke, was the highlight of the episode!

Okta

2024-01-13 15:55:53 +0000 UTC

man whenever i watch fear& its only for qt, if anyones a vibes vampire its hasan (not to talk shit on their friend but i just don't like him or his sense of humor that much)

patrick

2024-01-13 07:54:44 +0000 UTC

I'm leaving like a prediction and seeing what actually happens on the Streamer Awards. I think the best item Maya could wear with her outfit is a fitted cropped jacket. A blazer would hide the details of the dress. BTW I love it because it's pop punk like I would wear.

ApplesOranges23

2024-01-13 05:03:47 +0000 UTC

I genuinely love watching every episode of Fear& with QT and last week was great too!

Fabian Pegel

2024-01-12 23:29:59 +0000 UTC

they wont be reading this

foldesi elmo

2024-01-12 21:08:33 +0000 UTC

I’ve watched Fear& since Fear & Malding. The pod is sooo much better with QT and Austin.

AirspeedIsAlive

2024-01-12 19:23:09 +0000 UTC

I thought qt was anxious about the duos versus but I’m happy to know you are ok

Njoy

2024-01-12 18:16:54 +0000 UTC

I'm super glad I finally subbed to the patreon! I love the super raw convo! The most vocal in comments and tweets are always the most disconnected and ill-informed.

Cooober

2024-01-12 15:21:57 +0000 UTC

Yoooo I LOVED that fear& episode like that was one of the best ones in a while like wtf ppl be trippin

Caleb

2024-01-12 14:29:51 +0000 UTC

I thought QT was really funny in the last Fear& episode. I enjoyed the banter. Haters/misogynists are always going to hate sadly...

Pieter Bogemans

2024-01-12 11:04:21 +0000 UTC

If it makes qt feel any better as a normie I still remember how upset I got with comments on my high school about me, so I can’t imagine the feeling of thousands of those comments.

Angelina Young

2024-01-12 07:30:51 +0000 UTC

Love QT when she's quiet, love QT when she's vocal or talks more than she would when not feeling well. She's authentic af for talking less when she doesn't want to, and talking more when she wants to. What a crazy thing to micromanage/nitpick.

Hanna

2024-01-12 02:33:34 +0000 UTC

I looove hasan, will and Austin but I don’t listen/watch Fear& if the episode doesn’t have QT.

Carmnsndiego

2024-01-11 22:08:18 +0000 UTC

I think Jo Koy was like 10th in line, a bunch of people rejected the host job this year. Bombing happens, especially with jokes that bad/tasteless. It isn't the end of the world and I'm sure people still find him funny. I just can't excuse him throwing the writing team under the bus like that.

A. Saffari

2024-01-11 20:42:53 +0000 UTC

QT you were amazing on fear& this week! <3

Alessandra Campos

2024-01-11 20:40:02 +0000 UTC

people are psychotic in those comments. the misogyny and the internalised misogyny is RAMPANT

Megan

2024-01-11 20:37:49 +0000 UTC

I’m someone who only started watching Fear& because QT is on it, I was a Wine About It fan first and it will likely always be what I prefer. No hate to the guys of course - different strokes for different folks and all that! I loved Fear& this week personally - loved the mash of everyone’s humour and personality and QT asking about kaya’s p*ssy and stuff made me laugh so much. Also, the golden globes seems to have not gone over well with most people lol and it was good I guess that the award attendees weren’t laughing for the sake of the show or whatever. Seeing celebs physically cringe or say nope to some ‘jokes’ was nice for a change I guess but idk maybe its always like that. I’ve never really watched the golden globes tbh - i just see clips online usually each year. QT is right though, Ricky Gervais is hated on a lot and the most recognisable name when it comes to that. I personally do not think the guy is funny at all just to be clear I think he is transphobic, ableist, classist, racist, xenophobic, anti-homeless people etc etc but it is very true that he is successful still to this day. He won’t get ‘cancelled’ as people love him, whereas the guy that hosted the show won’t even be remembered next week.

Elijah

2024-01-11 20:32:24 +0000 UTC

I know one comment won't make a difference but I'm also a Fear& patreon listener and I was so glad to see QT took over the pod this week lol. I hate how often I'm interested to hear something she has to say for her to be cut off. It's not the same when QT isn't there...

Howdy Tims

2024-01-11 20:23:09 +0000 UTC

Ugh, I hate that QT felt that way after reading some asshats' comments, because I love whenever she gets to yap about literally anything on Fear&, or even just gets a little comment in. That's probably why I love WAI so much.

Pipsa

2024-01-11 20:00:06 +0000 UTC

Not to armchair psychoanalyze people I don't know, but I feel like it's more noticeable when QT isn't feeling herself (based on her literally stating it and her spacing out/disassociating) and I've never felt that she kills any kind of vibes. She pretty much always carries and brings the vibes to the Fear& pod imo. She is the last person to be a vibe killer or w/e.

ntGonzo

2024-01-11 19:55:11 +0000 UTC

I thought QT was great on Fear& the primal scream she gave was the best bit of the episode!

Couran

2024-01-11 19:28:59 +0000 UTC

meeee in therapy yesterday talking abt how i wish i was the bubbly girl and not the pessimistic one this podcast makes me feel so seen

Jill

2024-01-11 19:13:01 +0000 UTC

Team Selena! Also I enjoy Fear& less when QT isn’t on

Mitch Mitcherson

2024-01-11 18:55:21 +0000 UTC

idk if its been addressed before but I'd love to know the name of the end credits song

Ian Schwind

2024-01-11 18:26:14 +0000 UTC

As a regular fear& listener, qt popped off. Those commenters need to breathe and take a shower cus she is vital to fear&

Colonoscopy_Gaming

2024-01-11 18:12:34 +0000 UTC

The only thing I would really argue against about the Jo Koy statements, is “No one knows who he is”, when it’s really just that you two don’t. He is massive worldwide. Sells out arenas, and has Netflix money…. He sucks, but he isn’t someone that no one knows.

Peter Kviz

2024-01-11 17:23:41 +0000 UTC

I was laughing so much during that fear& episode, people are just hating on anything they can because they wanted to and their lives are miserable and they can't find joy in things that are super funny. And to those who are commenting on your change in mood or that you need help, they're super parasocial and need to get a hobbie outside of being on the Internet.

Daydream_Ow

2024-01-11 17:21:03 +0000 UTC

I was thinking the same thing. Jo Koy has had some big specials, people definitely know who he is. He is not my favorite but I wouldn't say he's not funny. Hosting an awards show has got to be one of the toughest crowds as well, nobody is there to see you.

Marshall Christensen

2024-01-11 17:14:42 +0000 UTC

For QT: Fuck the haters. No really, I mean that with my whole chest. I watched both parts of Fear & and I will say that QT actually brought the energy up and was hilarious. The internet is generally dumb.

Babafunlayo Oke

2024-01-11 16:49:51 +0000 UTC

forsen

Klav

2024-01-11 15:21:07 +0000 UTC

I got into wine about it through watching hasan and I think qt is the best fear& member hands down. a lot of positive comments about her in that episode too. ppl did appreciate and support her a lot I think. fuck anyone who wrote negative comments tho.

Isaac Tombleson

2024-01-11 15:02:34 +0000 UTC

To say no one knows who Jo Koy is pretty wild. I don’t understand how QT can give Ricky Gervais a pass for his “bad” monologue because of the writers and in the same breath say that bad writers is no excuse for Jo Koy. Jo didn’t know he was hosting until 10 before the show. I agree the Barbie joke was distasteful but I believe the reason QT hated the monologue is because the Taylor Swift jab struck a nerve.

Taylor

2024-01-11 14:55:02 +0000 UTC

I watch Fear& as well and I thought you were hilarious

Sam

2024-01-11 14:22:39 +0000 UTC

Me personally i laughed the entire fear & episode, i think qt did a fantastic job

BinkyBonky

2024-01-11 14:18:54 +0000 UTC

QT is easily as beautiful as Margot Robbie.

Michal Dobrzynski

2024-01-11 14:18:48 +0000 UTC

I thought that was one of the best Fear& episodes.

Jordan Marchetto

2024-01-11 14:05:10 +0000 UTC

the main problem with the golden globes is that it’s the only award show that the actors/actresses are sitting in the audience getting absolutely hammered! so once the first bad joke doesn’t hit, everyone gets a bad taste in their mouth and it goes downhill from there! the host needs to be prepared for that and maybe not immediately blame the writers and cry about only having 10 DAYS to write a good monologue 🫠

ashyc

2024-01-11 13:42:58 +0000 UTC

Looks like a whole bunch of people have already said it but to reiterate: QT was on fire this week on both podcasts. I mostly listen to podcasts when I’m out walking my dog and lemme tell ya, “peak” QT (and, to be fair, Austin) is almost always responsible for the times I let out goofy ass audible laughs that make me wonder if anyone saw me and are wondering wtf I find so funny. Its kinda therapeutic and literally makes my day.

Sam White

2024-01-11 11:49:28 +0000 UTC

bro i literally just subbed to this patreon today after last weeks fear& ep cuz qt has been killing it and ive become a huge fan of her yapping. im so confused there are ppl not vibing with her lmao

scrote milk

2024-01-11 11:12:08 +0000 UTC

Glad I'm not the only one here saying that this week's Fear& was so good and that's mostly down to QT. She was on fire and the show was so funny

Brendan Lanigan

2024-01-11 10:43:33 +0000 UTC

I only subbed to Fear& on Patreon once QT joined, loved the recent ep and I want more of that!

Witold_mix

2024-01-11 10:29:32 +0000 UTC

Same, QT has been carrying Fear&!!

Danny

2024-01-11 10:15:58 +0000 UTC

You guys talked about a lot of important things but I just had to chime in to say Spice and Wolf is peak and I respect everyone who enjoys it

BreakerX22

2024-01-11 09:47:59 +0000 UTC

Jo Koy bombed for sure.. But to think people didn't like Ricky Jervais' monologues? They're like, renowned. People point to them as good examples of how you lambaste an audience who is only there to applaud one another's achievements. That's why he's hosted 5 times. I don't particularly care for them, but everyone loves when he hosts. QT's assessment seems a little off. I imagine Jo Koy's writers took a similar approach. But what do I know. Side note, there's a lot about Jo Koy's monologue to critique. Talking about "I don't know who this guy is" is just high school bully shit. Side Side note, QT killed it on Fear& this week. Hasan was right when he said there will always be people that get upset at you for no reason - like creating an award for marginalized genders. Them and those who have shit to say about you being yourself on Fear& are the same exact people. An overwhelming minority. Seeing your full you on screen is awesome

oaka

2024-01-11 08:46:06 +0000 UTC

As a fear& patron, you made the fucking show this week, and most weeks! Fuck those loser haters.

HeyBroItsBrad

2024-01-11 07:57:54 +0000 UTC

QT won't read this, but if I criticize something i did, i try to do it the same way i would criticize someone else. "The pasta you made is pretty good, but i think it needs a little more salt" "thanks for making the cornbread, its tasty, but if you added some more honey next time it'd be even better"

Daddywarbucks

2024-01-11 06:54:23 +0000 UTC

Also having a break in your depression and being labeled manic now is unfortunate experience that even normie women have. It’s so annoying to be feeling somewhat okay and then have it pathologized by people who don’t know what they’re talking about.

Jaded Kills

2024-01-11 06:41:01 +0000 UTC

I litterally love when QT yaps no matter what pod it is lol. She’s such a good storyteller in my opinion I deadass could listen to her yap for 8 hours lmao.

Jaded Kills

2024-01-11 06:38:24 +0000 UTC

I loved the fear& ep. You did great!

Felipe Tavares

2024-01-11 06:00:53 +0000 UTC

The only hate comments on Fear& I saw were very very early on, fuck em. QT Vibes are always immaculate everywhere

A Silva

2024-01-11 05:51:30 +0000 UTC

I actually loved the Fear& episode this week, and you were amazing. I did feel like hasan wasn't as receptive or reciprocal but he did explain that he was tired at the beginning of the patreon episode, but I want more qt dominated Fear& episodes

Axolotl_Pines

2024-01-11 05:20:53 +0000 UTC

Before I even watched this episode I had left a pro qt comment on the fear& YouTube video. I don’t regularly comment on YouTube but it made me want to leave more nice comments 💛

Shelby

2024-01-11 05:01:10 +0000 UTC

Fear& this week was so funny. I’ve been watching qt for a while and she looked like she was having fun. It was great to see her in her element, fuck the haters

Todd Sutherland

2024-01-11 04:35:35 +0000 UTC

i literally left that fear& episode thinking that qt was funny as hell. i liked the bits she had. sad people thought otherwise

Jayden Manasse

2024-01-11 03:48:54 +0000 UTC

I'm just at the beginning of the episode and I know QT probably doesn't read these comments but I did want to say this: I'm sure you know... but there's so much people that love QT being on Fear& that just won't comment because they're satisfied with the pod. I exclusively BEGAN listening regularly SPECIFICALLY because QT (and Austin just on a tiny lesser scale) started being regulars. The negative comments are usually a vocal minority. Not that I don't super enjoy Hasan and Will, it's just you're that good on pods QT, even when tired or whatever you add something special and I hope you've noticed just how many people have expressed similar feelings/thougths regarding this (this being how the podcast is SO much better now that you're an official part of it)

Caligastia

2024-01-11 03:45:47 +0000 UTC

Came back to also say, that i think it might be QT’s algorithm… all my top comments on the Fear& pod love her and find her hilarious! Maya i loved the forgiveness segment. Sometimes Trauma needs to be healed by simply hating someone and never thinking (as much as possible) or speaking to them again lol

Mia Luna

2024-01-11 03:04:18 +0000 UTC

Actively putting energy into hating people is what being a hater is. Just hating people (not caring if they die) is normal for people that have actively caused a massive amount of harm in your life.

Melodyingg

2024-01-11 02:56:10 +0000 UTC

I hate that qt only sees the hate comments because I went back through the comments on fear& and scrolled for like 5 minutes and didn’t see any. The vast majority of comments that I saw were about how great and funny qt is

Maggie

2024-01-11 02:49:22 +0000 UTC

I can’t fathom that people on the internet take time to be so vicious. I’m sorry you both have to deal with that, it’s definitely inhuman. Sending love ❤️

Rebecca Williams

2024-01-11 02:41:26 +0000 UTC

I genuinely only started listening to fear& because Qt is there. She's funny and I feel that the podcast isn't the same without her. It sucks she has to see comments like that. I was so excited to hear her talk more on there too.

Zoë

2024-01-11 02:23:15 +0000 UTC

Sometimes I reply to incels and remind them that they don’t matter because QT’s co-hosts love her and so do 99% of the viewers. It’s fun to ratio them.

LeahGia

2024-01-11 02:14:27 +0000 UTC

I actually enjoyed the recent Fear & podcast including the Patreon ep. I thought QT’s Stanley Yelnats jokes was hilarious 😂. The haters are idiots with zero taste.

Imrano

2024-01-11 02:03:19 +0000 UTC

omg i totally get why the energy vampire comment hits so hard. ive had a similar thing said to me that i am just depressing to be around, i dont do anything but i just radiate depressing vibes and i have never been able to get over this comment it makes me feel awful. like why would you say that, and say it like theres nothing i can do to change it, its just fundamentally who i am, depressing to be around. it sucks. why tf do people make comments like that. i think that now i may be an actual vibe killer coz i speak seriously and often go on rants about social issues and impacts because im autistic and this is something im passionate about and find interesting and to be helpful knowledge to pass on but i think sometimes it comes off as just a lecture or i come off as a know-it-all and annoying even though i am just happy and excited about a topic, sadly that can be a buzzkill to others. I also dont HATE people, even people whove abused or traumatised me, i just cannot spend the energy to hate someone when im spending so much energy being anxious all the time, im tired and i dont care, i just want to forget those people exist and ignore them. i think that there are ppl who rly frustrate and annoy me but the fact i am still putting emotions into them is because i believe theyre able to improve and be better, so i wont give up on them, but if i give up on someone its because theyve done something absolutely evil and needlessly cruel that they can never come back from in my mind.

theholyspirit

2024-01-11 02:00:38 +0000 UTC

I want it known that i cracked up at the resetting the Stanley cup joke. Qt i can show you a million tik tok comments that say we watch fear & for you!!! You’re so damn funny - and you play off of all of them so well.

Mia Luna

2024-01-11 01:50:29 +0000 UTC

my theory is she might sort new to old. that’s usually the only way I see hate comments because otherwise they get downvoted. sometimes you’ll find a random incel in the replies of a top comment though. she sees good comments too I’m sure but the bad ones have more of an impact because they validate your self-doubt.

LeahGia

2024-01-11 01:38:13 +0000 UTC

i genuinely dont know how QT is seeing these crazy ass hate comments. whenever i see the comments theyre praising her, if shes not on an episode they whine,cry, complain and start a riot coz they miss her and 'the boys are boring without her' etc. like from my pov everyone loves QT?? feels like she somehow only sees the few negative incels with no life rather than all the queers(me) who think shes great on fear&

theholyspirit

2024-01-11 01:15:43 +0000 UTC

omg i’ve never related more to maya’s segment on forgiveness! I hateeee how so many people and TikTok “therapists” portray not forgiving someone as a lack of emotional maturity or as you holding in some sort of anger/resentment but in reality, a lot of us just think logically, why would I forgive someone who hasn’t asked for an apology? like what? i will never understand that concept lol it might work for most people but fake forgiving someone, for us, doesn’t do absolutely anything and they need to accept that and find other ways to help their therapy patients instead of forcing us into this weird one-size-fits-all you-need-to-forgive “solution”

seni

2024-01-11 00:35:48 +0000 UTC

These are wild takes on comedy. Ricky G was one of the best of all time, thus why it went so viral. Joe crashed and burned, but is one of best comedians of all time. Saying nobody knows who he is is crazy.

Steve norris

2024-01-11 00:15:43 +0000 UTC

I think it’s so crazy how much our own algorithms are against us because I remember so vividly finishing that Fear& episode and proceeding to like all of the top comments which were all praising QT for literally CARRYING that episode! It’s so infuriating to see how QT did not have that same experience scrolling through the comments :( girl half of us only watch Fear& because of youuuu

seni

2024-01-11 00:08:28 +0000 UTC

i am so incredibly sorry that you experienced such extreme trauma. i also struggle with the idea of forgiveness. the therapy forgiveness usually means forgiveness in terms of letting go of the burden after processing it -- whatever that means for each person. but that is forgiveness for your own benefit and not a forgiveness for their benefit. forgiveness for their benefit is so difficult but one thing that i concede religion got right in this context is the requirement of repentance in order to be forgiven. if the person is still hurting people or hurting you habitually, what is there to forgive? yeeees, i 100% agree that people mean different things when using the word hate. i default to the most extreme definition just because its the worst case interpretation/inference by other people (a problematic process where i am catering to the worst case. idk life is so hard man). so in my definition, i dont hate anyone. and what i really mean is that i subscribe to the idea of loving all beings unconditionally -- if only as a logical decision because drawing those kinds of lines are otherwise arbitrary but also by a sense of compassion. and so assuming that i do love all, i do not hate any. hate in the sense that if i could remake the universe and change things, i would never want anyone to needlessly suffer. but rehabilitation to correct harmful behaviour can require self induced suffering. i think people think that im soft on crime. not at all. im supportive of fixing problems and that never prioritizes systematic vengeance -- which is what our current justice system is. for letting things go, in my life ive had some awful awful experiences. i wont compare them with anyone elses experiences and claim its worse. but i do have traumatic experiences. for the most part my letting go is by letting go of the endless dwelling in the pain of the past. and instead i repurpose that energy towards a greater form of justice which is trying to contribute to the solutions so others dont have to have those experiences. its a problem i have with the current justice system. have i talked about this before? i never hear about the justice system providing more than just money - if that - to make those that are harmed nearer to whole (of course this is not always possible, especially if a life was taken or irreversible harm was done). i never hear about the system appropriating any research or funding to implement solutions to pragmatically reduce the incidences of offenses. and worst of all, we send people to prison - sometimes innocent but sometimes not - harrass them, rape them, beat them, even kill them. if they make it out of these "correction" facilities, theyre not rehabilitated. theyre just even more fucked up and probably extremely pissed off. the system is backwards. its not protecting women. like where the fuck is the robust system for women to go to for reporting sexual crimes that are not run or influenced by men? current police departments can and do refuse to process rape kits. and absolutely monstrous injustice. women need to be able to go somewhere where they can trust the people there. idk if women only organizations would work but we need something because what we have now is not working.

FullPlaid

2024-01-11 00:06:29 +0000 UTC

Dude I wonder if after trash tv we could do a small smut reading recommended by Brooke or quarterjade while we find a new show

Aldo

2024-01-11 00:02:08 +0000 UTC

Online personas has to be tough. QT is a trooper the woman goes to all the therapy and still she can't get past the bitch ass commenters. Her secondary podcast really give us an insight into her life lol.

Alex Ozarud

2024-01-10 23:33:54 +0000 UTC

Also, Joy Koy had a bad night, but he's one of the funniest/biggest comedians alive, he sells out arenas around the world.

Justin Sepulveda

2024-01-10 23:22:48 +0000 UTC

if qt is not on fear& i aint watching 🫡

Ali

2024-01-10 23:16:30 +0000 UTC

I only started listening to Fear& consistently once QT and Austin got on. QT is by far the most relatable imo which is why Fear& and Wine About It are only 2 of 3 patreon podcasts I subscribe to. Fuck all them haters QT, your dry and sarcastic humor is right up my alley.

Justin Sepulveda

2024-01-10 23:08:58 +0000 UTC

Gotta agree with all the comments here talking about how good QT was on the latest Fear&! She introduced topics, drove conversation, reacted to Hasan and Will’s topics enthusiastically. In all ways the ideal podcast host! Hope she doesn’t let the haters make her doubt herself. Keep doing you, QT!

James DePersico

2024-01-10 23:00:07 +0000 UTC

I signed up for Fear&-patreon to get the additional content in the bonus episodes, I probably wouldn't have if you were not on the show QT 👍 I can be kinda hard to follow the conversation on that podcast sometimes though, because the topics seem to jump around a lot instead of talking about one topic until you are done and then starting a new one. That's probably mostly down to your inter-personal dynamic though.

N.N.

2024-01-10 22:54:11 +0000 UTC

You’re the reason I’m patreoned to fear&. I’m a wine-er

Sun

2024-01-10 22:34:38 +0000 UTC

Qt. Love the guys on Fear &, but I literally watch because of you c:

Michael

2024-01-10 21:58:38 +0000 UTC

I never watched fear& until qt joined... haters gonna be haters I suppose

coop

2024-01-10 21:55:25 +0000 UTC

i only started watching fear& because of qt and i was really excited to hear her speak more this week <3 she did a great job

izzi

2024-01-10 21:27:35 +0000 UTC

I am a big Comedy Fan Jo Koy comedy style is similar to Russel Peters, jokes about his family, and Filipino background. So as a fan of his JO koy his first special on Netflix is very good. I also saw him live before Covid at JFL in Toronto. I was surprised that he would even do this as it doesn't seem his style. Read that 5 other comedians were offered it and said no. and that Jo got the job 10 days before, so makes sense that he wrote some and writers did too, I believe that is pretty common for these events anyway. I like comedy goes against the grain, the jokes were going with the grain so they fell short/ Hacky. As I said big comedy fan and I am here for the laughs, keep those jokes coming QT and Maya on here or the Fear&.

Michael Kobayashi

2024-01-10 21:20:26 +0000 UTC

Jesus im so mad that qt got hate on the last fear and. I thought qt was fucking electric that episode.

Samuel Lazar

2024-01-10 21:18:26 +0000 UTC

im like maya on that.. i never forgive... but their existence is forgotten

Lok

2024-01-10 21:17:28 +0000 UTC

Great and interesting convos today! That lip read thing reminds me of watching those NFL bad lip reading videos, hilarious and once you see it that’s all you hear. It’s wild how our brain works and typically searches for the negative things. Not that she’ll see this but I went back to the fear & comments and the first like 30ish I saw were mainly positive.

Jose Marin

2024-01-10 21:12:00 +0000 UTC

QT - Vibes on Fear& were immaculate and you were hilarious. ❤️

Darren Hertenstein

2024-01-10 21:07:57 +0000 UTC

qt said finneas and i was waiting for her to say ferb 😭

shpence

2024-01-10 21:07:13 +0000 UTC

Same!

Jeremy

2024-01-10 21:04:15 +0000 UTC

So do we have todo a Spice and Wolf bookclub?

Billy Lubanski

2024-01-10 21:03:05 +0000 UTC

being called "basic" as an insult or to belittle women for liking popular things pisses me off SOOOOO bad ty qt for bringing that up... also i genuinely started tuning into fear& more because qt joined i love hasan and will but the episodes without qt i never enjoy as much!!

ali

2024-01-10 21:02:40 +0000 UTC

oh man that sucks :( i was watching fear& the past two weeks actually and thought wow qt is electric recently!! i love the vibes she brings so so much. it sucks that negative people tend to comment more unfortunately (i’m a silent watcher myself, just laughing in my kitchen while making dinner)

Malin

2024-01-10 21:02:36 +0000 UTC

I actually subscribed to Wine About It because of wanting to hear more of QT from the Fear& podcast. Keep it up QT!

Marcus Chang

2024-01-10 20:59:35 +0000 UTC

wowie

xoxo_gems

2024-01-10 20:52:28 +0000 UTC

You were really energetic on fear& but it wasn’t annoying at all. My first thought was “oh she’s feeling better today.” It was nice to hear you talk and fill space when usually you’re pretty quiet and get interrupted all the time. The shoe was on the other foot and it got the incels mad. Fuck em 🤷🏽‍♀️ you were great

xoxo_gems

2024-01-10 20:51:09 +0000 UTC

This is my petition for a Fear& Wine About It episode like The Yard one. Get those boys tipsy and make them spill hot goss with QT 🍷🤣

LeahGia

2024-01-10 20:48:36 +0000 UTC

damn they really just completely ignored the second half of that last question lmao

LeahGia

2024-01-10 20:40:01 +0000 UTC

obviously I'm subbed to the wineaboutit patreon posting this, but for what it's worth I loved the vibes on fear& this week

Murkus

2024-01-10 20:39:17 +0000 UTC

I've just gone on the latest Fear& YouTube video and all the top comments are pro-QT. Even sorting by "New" like 80% are either "I love QT" or "I stand with QT". Where is she finding all these bad comments?!

Jon Patreon

2024-01-10 20:38:17 +0000 UTC

theres nothing quite as deflating as feeling good after a long bad period and someone saying ”why are you acting so weird?” like dude sorry im not as quiet and depressed as normal 👍 ill try not to feel happy again

tild404

2024-01-10 20:30:22 +0000 UTC

I listen to Fear& and I can say nothing about QTs performance made me concerned or annoyed. I thought it was a great episode and I thought it was funny when Hasan assumed she was into Stanley cup and she shut him down. It made me laugh cause he seemed so disappointed he stereotyped her wrong.

Mr TheWhite

2024-01-10 20:29:00 +0000 UTC

I might be a bit biased, but I loved QT on Fear& this week. She was so funny. I originally started watching Fear& for Hasan, but now find it hard to watch the full episode if QT isn’t there.

Jeremy

2024-01-10 20:28:51 +0000 UTC

If it counts i think QT was hilarious on this weeks Fear&

LanitaDelBBL

2024-01-10 20:28:24 +0000 UTC

As a fear& podcast patron I can say QT was hilarious on the latest episode. She shouldn’t do the Austin and read the comments. Vibes were good

Michael Kiwan

2024-01-10 20:26:33 +0000 UTC

As the self proclaimed speaker of the girlies that watch Fear&, last episode you SLAYED QT. I was so glad you caught Hasan off guard with not being a Stanley cup girl but also not hating on it, and the trad wife/splitting rent discussion was so relatable.

Becca

2024-01-10 20:22:21 +0000 UTC

Your awesome on fear& as well QT 😊

September

2024-01-10 20:21:43 +0000 UTC

Im a Patreon wine abt it and fear& member and I thought the episodes were great! Also it was awesome to hear Maya on fear& for a bit :)

Maria Touw

2024-01-10 20:15:39 +0000 UTC

noooo they scrolled to my question about mayas gear but didn’t answer

Jolie Schrage

2024-01-10 20:02:23 +0000 UTC

wowie

AxialMars

2024-01-10 20:00:22 +0000 UTC

[#56] Patreon Bonus

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I don’t think not caring about the worst happening to someone is you hating them, it’s just not caring, indifference. when you HATE someone you dedicate a certain part of your life to make sure bad things happen to them, is my take.

Hey yall long time listener new to patreon. Where do I get access to the discord?

Same on the forgiving. Why should I forgive someone who hurt me so badly and never apologized? I was raped too and then he harassed me afterwards. I haven’t forgiven him and don’t want to - or would take more energy to do that than not!

Girl yapping is fun to watch sorry cutie you had to deal with that

I just have to chime in and say Jo Koy is widely popular and hilarious. I didn't watch the show (nor any award show for that matter). But just in general. Jo Koy is hilarious, and I would consider world famous and sells out arenas.

Very late on this either QT is misremembering Ricky's monologue which I've heard nothing but good things for knocking down the absurdity that is the Golden Gloves, I mean he was brought back a few times. But my god is his new standup bad and offensive without the humour

damn I was really enjoying QT yapping so much on fear& like "pop off girl your turn on the mic", had no idea there are such shitty ppl in the fanbase over there

I don't listen to to fear& but QT is always great on the podcast, IDK why anyone thinks she talks too much or is a vibe killer. Maybe I'm biased lmao

I do agree about the "basic white girl" thing being made out to be a bad thing. Because it's literally just normal hobbies done by a white woman and for some reason that's a bad thing???

The Taylor Swift joke was ultra lighthearted too

I have read all of Spice and Wolf. It has nothing sexual about it. It is a manga about trade economics in olden time with a merchant who finds a wolf god among some wheat he bartered for and she wishes to return home to the north. There is an anime but it is currently incomplete.

The fear& episode was great QT was hilarious through the entire thing

I just checked the fear & episode and all the top comments are all about how much they love QT and her doing the sapphire award. Don't listen to the haters, QT. Your fans have so much more to say ☺️

The last Fear& episode was literally one of my favourites!! I thought you were genuinely electric 💕💕

As someone with social anxiety who finds it difficult to know when to speak up or but in. I definitely appreciate people like QT who are always able to find something to talk about and fill the inevitable silence.

I always thought Ricky Gervais had one of the best monologues so it’s funny to find out people hated it

QT I thought you were great on the latest Fear& episode. Loved your Stanley Yelnats joke, was the highlight of the episode!

man whenever i watch fear& its only for qt, if anyones a vibes vampire its hasan (not to talk shit on their friend but i just don't like him or his sense of humor that much)

I'm leaving like a prediction and seeing what actually happens on the Streamer Awards. I think the best item Maya could wear with her outfit is a fitted cropped jacket. A blazer would hide the details of the dress. BTW I love it because it's pop punk like I would wear.

I genuinely love watching every episode of Fear& with QT and last week was great too!

they wont be reading this

I’ve watched Fear& since Fear & Malding. The pod is sooo much better with QT and Austin.

I thought qt was anxious about the duos versus but I’m happy to know you are ok

I'm super glad I finally subbed to the patreon! I love the super raw convo! The most vocal in comments and tweets are always the most disconnected and ill-informed.

Yoooo I LOVED that fear& episode like that was one of the best ones in a while like wtf ppl be trippin

I thought QT was really funny in the last Fear& episode. I enjoyed the banter. Haters/misogynists are always going to hate sadly...

If it makes qt feel any better as a normie I still remember how upset I got with comments on my high school about me, so I can’t imagine the feeling of thousands of those comments.

Love QT when she's quiet, love QT when she's vocal or talks more than she would when not feeling well. She's authentic af for talking less when she doesn't want to, and talking more when she wants to. What a crazy thing to micromanage/nitpick.

I looove hasan, will and Austin but I don’t listen/watch Fear& if the episode doesn’t have QT.

I think Jo Koy was like 10th in line, a bunch of people rejected the host job this year. Bombing happens, especially with jokes that bad/tasteless. It isn't the end of the world and I'm sure people still find him funny. I just can't excuse him throwing the writing team under the bus like that.

QT you were amazing on fear& this week! <3

people are psychotic in those comments. the misogyny and the internalised misogyny is RAMPANT

I know one comment won't make a difference but I'm also a Fear& patreon listener and I was so glad to see QT took over the pod this week lol. I hate how often I'm interested to hear something she has to say for her to be cut off. It's not the same when QT isn't there...

Ugh, I hate that QT felt that way after reading some asshats' comments, because I love whenever she gets to yap about literally anything on Fear&, or even just gets a little comment in. That's probably why I love WAI so much.

I thought QT was great on Fear& the primal scream she gave was the best bit of the episode!

meeee in therapy yesterday talking abt how i wish i was the bubbly girl and not the pessimistic one this podcast makes me feel so seen

Team Selena! Also I enjoy Fear& less when QT isn’t on

idk if its been addressed before but I'd love to know the name of the end credits song

As a regular fear& listener, qt popped off. Those commenters need to breathe and take a shower cus she is vital to fear&

The only thing I would really argue against about the Jo Koy statements, is “No one knows who he is”, when it’s really just that you two don’t. He is massive worldwide. Sells out arenas, and has Netflix money…. He sucks, but he isn’t someone that no one knows.

I was thinking the same thing. Jo Koy has had some big specials, people definitely know who he is. He is not my favorite but I wouldn't say he's not funny. Hosting an awards show has got to be one of the toughest crowds as well, nobody is there to see you.

For QT: Fuck the haters. No really, I mean that with my whole chest. I watched both parts of Fear & and I will say that QT actually brought the energy up and was hilarious. The internet is generally dumb.

forsen

I got into wine about it through watching hasan and I think qt is the best fear& member hands down. a lot of positive comments about her in that episode too. ppl did appreciate and support her a lot I think. fuck anyone who wrote negative comments tho.

I watch Fear& as well and I thought you were hilarious

Me personally i laughed the entire fear & episode, i think qt did a fantastic job

QT is easily as beautiful as Margot Robbie.

I thought that was one of the best Fear& episodes.

bro i literally just subbed to this patreon today after last weeks fear& ep cuz qt has been killing it and ive become a huge fan of her yapping. im so confused there are ppl not vibing with her lmao

Glad I'm not the only one here saying that this week's Fear& was so good and that's mostly down to QT. She was on fire and the show was so funny

I only subbed to Fear& on Patreon once QT joined, loved the recent ep and I want more of that!

Same, QT has been carrying Fear&!!

You guys talked about a lot of important things but I just had to chime in to say Spice and Wolf is peak and I respect everyone who enjoys it

As a fear& patron, you made the fucking show this week, and most weeks! Fuck those loser haters.

Also having a break in your depression and being labeled manic now is unfortunate experience that even normie women have. It’s so annoying to be feeling somewhat okay and then have it pathologized by people who don’t know what they’re talking about.

I litterally love when QT yaps no matter what pod it is lol. She’s such a good storyteller in my opinion I deadass could listen to her yap for 8 hours lmao.

I loved the fear& ep. You did great!

The only hate comments on Fear& I saw were very very early on, fuck em. QT Vibes are always immaculate everywhere

I actually loved the Fear& episode this week, and you were amazing. I did feel like hasan wasn't as receptive or reciprocal but he did explain that he was tired at the beginning of the patreon episode, but I want more qt dominated Fear& episodes

Before I even watched this episode I had left a pro qt comment on the fear& YouTube video. I don’t regularly comment on YouTube but it made me want to leave more nice comments 💛

Fear& this week was so funny. I’ve been watching qt for a while and she looked like she was having fun. It was great to see her in her element, fuck the haters

i literally left that fear& episode thinking that qt was funny as hell. i liked the bits she had. sad people thought otherwise

Actively putting energy into hating people is what being a hater is. Just hating people (not caring if they die) is normal for people that have actively caused a massive amount of harm in your life.

I hate that qt only sees the hate comments because I went back through the comments on fear& and scrolled for like 5 minutes and didn’t see any. The vast majority of comments that I saw were about how great and funny qt is

I can’t fathom that people on the internet take time to be so vicious. I’m sorry you both have to deal with that, it’s definitely inhuman. Sending love ❤️

I genuinely only started listening to fear& because Qt is there. She's funny and I feel that the podcast isn't the same without her. It sucks she has to see comments like that. I was so excited to hear her talk more on there too.

Sometimes I reply to incels and remind them that they don’t matter because QT’s co-hosts love her and so do 99% of the viewers. It’s fun to ratio them.

I actually enjoyed the recent Fear & podcast including the Patreon ep. I thought QT’s Stanley Yelnats jokes was hilarious 😂. The haters are idiots with zero taste.

I want it known that i cracked up at the resetting the Stanley cup joke. Qt i can show you a million tik tok comments that say we watch fear & for you!!! You’re so damn funny - and you play off of all of them so well.

These are wild takes on comedy. Ricky G was one of the best of all time, thus why it went so viral. Joe crashed and burned, but is one of best comedians of all time. Saying nobody knows who he is is crazy.

Dude I wonder if after trash tv we could do a small smut reading recommended by Brooke or quarterjade while we find a new show

Online personas has to be tough. QT is a trooper the woman goes to all the therapy and still she can't get past the bitch ass commenters. Her secondary podcast really give us an insight into her life lol.

Also, Joy Koy had a bad night, but he's one of the funniest/biggest comedians alive, he sells out arenas around the world.

if qt is not on fear& i aint watching 🫡

I only started listening to Fear& consistently once QT and Austin got on. QT is by far the most relatable imo which is why Fear& and Wine About It are only 2 of 3 patreon podcasts I subscribe to. Fuck all them haters QT, your dry and sarcastic humor is right up my alley.

You’re the reason I’m patreoned to fear&. I’m a wine-er

Qt. Love the guys on Fear &, but I literally watch because of you c:

I never watched fear& until qt joined... haters gonna be haters I suppose