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[#21] Uncensored - Everything is falling apart
Added 2023-05-09 19:00:03 +0000 UTCIn this episode, QT & Maya talk about everything from QT’s weekend, and Mayas ferret, to scary storys.
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Dang, that sucks about your therapist Maya! Ugh... but maybe in long term it's a good thing? Maybe you need or could benefit from someone who doesn't know you very well? Be careful, if they they something and you think "oh how would they know, they don't know me" they are trying to get to know you. Yeah it may take a few therapists. It took me about 3. But it's so worth it later on. They could totally bring newer subjects and ways to deal with things too that help. Don't give up!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Sennithee
2023-05-18 02:38:48 +0000 UTCTIL that Elon's mom is Cruella Deville.
Darren Hertenstein
2023-05-15 20:20:02 +0000 UTCdeleted most of my social media too because i spent too much time mindlessly scrolling and wasting time on twitter and ig and ive already been 3x more productive, i hope its working well for qt too. twitter is crack and crack is bad
tilly
2023-05-15 02:32:20 +0000 UTCQT struggling to open the wine was classic 😂
Eric Woodard
2023-05-12 13:55:10 +0000 UTCMy therapist talked about possibly having to “break up” with me(that’s how I viewed it lmao) and I cried a LOT. I’ve been through so many bad therapists but once you find one that works for you it is so worth it. And fun fact; I’ve told my therapist all about wine about it and she’s slowly learning the twitch lingo. 😂 don’t worry, Maya. You’ll find a new one that fits you 🫶🏻 sometimes a new professional perspective can be super beneficial too.
Ladycilece
2023-05-11 17:38:52 +0000 UTCBoth sides of that wine opener go down and the cork pops up btw. 🤣🤣🤣
Anj
2023-05-11 09:40:00 +0000 UTCWhile it's definitely stressful and difficult to have to switch therapists, I'd encourage you that there also might be some benefits to your overall well-being. The therapist patient relationship is one that is very complex, reading a book about it right now, and there's a very fine line between being supported by and being reliant on a therapist. Ultimately, it is healthier for you to have the former, and to get to a place where you have confidence in your ability to apply the tools and techniques that you have learned in therapy to maintain your own mental health to a degree where the therapist has more of a supporting role outside of times of acute stress. Perhaps this can be an opportunity to take a step in that direction that can ultimately build your self confidence and resilience
Seth Hastings
2023-05-11 06:28:13 +0000 UTCYo I've been in Vegas since Monday for a conference, great hiking!
Seth Hastings
2023-05-11 06:01:42 +0000 UTCPsychology in Seattle is the best!!!
jo
2023-05-11 00:29:35 +0000 UTCim literally so excited for speak now TV!! i was at the 3rd night for Nashville (the rain show 😌) and i was SCREAMING along to Enchanted and Mine. also i absolutely need a QT reaction to the album when it drops!
Kiera Clements
2023-05-10 23:49:43 +0000 UTCAlso if Maya wants, there is a documentary on.. the ranch, if she feels so inclined :D
Ambrosia
2023-05-10 23:37:31 +0000 UTCI am from utah, and I knew IMMEDIATELY haha
Ambrosia
2023-05-10 23:33:46 +0000 UTCPsychology in Seattle is my favorite learning podcast! A Psychology professor basically does reacts to reality TV shows like Love is Blind and uses it as a way to teach about mental health.
Jessica Stupack
2023-05-10 23:14:49 +0000 UTCthere's a podcast called beach too sandy water too wet that is all about reading terrible yelp reviews!! cant wait to see yall do it :D
rae
2023-05-10 17:51:17 +0000 UTCMy best therapist ever was a PhD student at my college. She knew I was broken and the only way to talk to me was as if it was about a stranger and it made me learn empathy for myself. When I finally opened up about trauma and cried she would cry too. I never felt comfortable opening up to people before. Every therapist after that sucked they would try grounding with me like "did you go home and lie in bed and feel the sun's warmth in you?" girl what the hell?? Another told me they didn't believe in mental illnesses lmao? Another told me autism isn't real and they just don't like people and don't care to follow social norms. Anyways! Therapists should be able to give a list of recommendations / references of trusted people in their circle and give them notes about you. (I wish I took my good therapist up on this when she offered.)
bakedLaska
2023-05-10 17:36:39 +0000 UTCi’m cryinnnnnggg this episode is so unhinged lmao
Ellaabunny
2023-05-10 14:35:37 +0000 UTCEnjoyed this so much. I'm so ready to see a tier list
Samara
2023-05-10 14:18:48 +0000 UTCproducer saved the pod with that diagram
Julian Schäfer
2023-05-10 11:05:57 +0000 UTCqt strugling to open that wine bottle is very bad for all women
Klav
2023-05-10 10:19:42 +0000 UTCforsen
Klav
2023-05-10 10:09:22 +0000 UTCHAHA STOP I LOVE THIS EPISODE, i’m obsessed with the flesh pedestrians
veranika
2023-05-10 10:07:19 +0000 UTCI think this guy might be able to help Maya find a new therapist who understands her social context: https://kanojiapsychiatry.com/about/ You might've heard of him :P
Experimental Cyborg
2023-05-10 10:05:54 +0000 UTCAll i wanted to do was take a nice 1am shower and they start talking about native american folklore
Daddywarbucks
2023-05-10 07:47:54 +0000 UTCnever been more caught off guard hearing about the vagina deodorant tasting tier list 😭
cabrabby
2023-05-10 03:12:27 +0000 UTCchanging therapists after seeing them every other week for 2 years felt like a break up to me, similar initial feeling of despair turning into anxiety. Also, just like with a break up, those feelings eventually quieted down and I felt comfortable again yay :)
Nivaldo Farias
2023-05-10 02:37:25 +0000 UTCI think a great segment would be learning & demonstrating how to use different types of wine openers :)
LokeyLB
2023-05-10 01:56:09 +0000 UTCWhy did I think QT was talking about Chucky when she mentioned "man with childish features"
Bassam
2023-05-10 01:45:54 +0000 UTCIs it weird to be happy at 4 am about a girl on the internet I have no actual connection to crying? asking for a friend
Axolotl_Pines
2023-05-10 01:37:14 +0000 UTCthat was the most painful 13 minute wine opening of my life...
Phlexy
2023-05-10 01:35:13 +0000 UTCQt the little knife on the wine ring is for cutting off the foil :)
Melanie Stewart
2023-05-09 23:55:39 +0000 UTC12 mins in and the producer had enough of the wine struggle
ChelseaBee
2023-05-09 23:01:56 +0000 UTCDid anyone else hear audio issues? Sounded like static echo from qts mic and then maya peaked a bit at the end? Another wild episode, skinwalkers being called sex workers was crazy! Sucks to hear about mayas ferret and therapist. Hopefully qt gets sleep fast!
Jose Marin
2023-05-09 22:58:23 +0000 UTC"like how your dumbass bird says happy birthday" killed me
Bri Forcier
2023-05-09 22:54:03 +0000 UTCI loved this episode and I have a lot to say because I've gone through similar things: QT, At the advice of many people I started journaling for emotional growth a couple months ago and I also have a hard time knowing what to write. I totally recommend this video I watched called "How to Journal (Like a Philosopher)" by the channel Jared Henderson. The gist of it is that you start out by writing an event that happened recently focusing on the factual events of it, then you write a paragraph about the positive things you did during the event and then you write 1+ paragraphs about what you could improve on. A way short example is: I hung out with a friend recently, I'm proud of myself for getting myself to go even though I didn't feel like it, if I could improve something in the future I would have asked more about how their college classes are going because there were some awkward silences. If you use this technique you at least write a page about your feelings but usually you get into flow and you write way more. I also recommend the book "Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies" by Tara Schuster because its all about self care and it has a great section on journaling that helped me a lot. Maya, I went through a similar experience where I had a trusted therapist for years that moved so I could no longer see her and I've had some bad therapists since to I've learned how to weed out people. The most common reason a therapist has been bad for me is (like you mentioned) their morals don't align with mine and they give me bad advice or ridicule me because of their own personal political or social views. This has lead me to develop deal breaker questions that I ask on the first meeting with them. One big one that I have had to ask based of personal experience is if they believe in ADHD because I had one in the past say she didn't believe in it. I asked these questions to my most recent therapist and listened to her answers and she's been great and I feel so much more comfortable knowing that in 2 months she's not going to spring a random thing on me that makes me question the quality of the advice she has given in the past. I hope this helps you guys!
Kathryn
2023-05-09 22:46:23 +0000 UTCCalling those dumb made up creatures “sex workers” is so cringe
bl00dzee
2023-05-09 22:08:38 +0000 UTCi'm off my adhd meds today and i am very much feeling this wavelength, so relatable
starlitstellaa
2023-05-09 22:02:56 +0000 UTCbruh QT's life is such an Experience™ 😭
LunaticLynn
2023-05-09 22:02:06 +0000 UTCMaya struggling so hard to cover for QT's commentary is so funny 😭
LunaticLynn
2023-05-09 21:29:10 +0000 UTCI'm unironically proud of QT sobbing
Arrowni
2023-05-09 21:22:14 +0000 UTCi am soooo pumped for SN TV too! can't wait to hear the vault tracks
Glitch
2023-05-09 21:06:41 +0000 UTCGreat ep. But idk if I'm PMSing or what because Maya's therapist situation made me miss my therapist. She was great. (btw she's not dead or anything I just don't need it atm)
Pnwoah
2023-05-09 21:01:15 +0000 UTCI would watch
Michael
2023-05-09 20:58:29 +0000 UTC"and that's what happens when you move to Canada" -QT 🤣
Anabyee
2023-05-09 20:58:17 +0000 UTCThat would be everything! Or even briefly skipping ahead in the Taylor Talks to the vault songs. I'm so excited for the album :)
Nikki L
2023-05-09 20:57:27 +0000 UTCgreat episode as always! and you two should really stop going to vegas, this place hates you
Tfries_
2023-05-09 20:55:09 +0000 UTCGreat idea!
Avery
2023-05-09 20:53:18 +0000 UTCQT can we please have a Live Album Reaction to Speak Now (Taylor Version) as a Patreon perk?
Pax Man
2023-05-09 20:36:59 +0000 UTCOh, good eye! (Or maybe they talk about it) Never mind!
Michael
2023-05-09 20:23:13 +0000 UTCIt’s her stream room podcast still doesn’t
wild uni
2023-05-09 20:22:33 +0000 UTCReally glad QT ended up going to the Park, not surprised Ludwig is as supportive a bf as he seems to be. Yay to healthy life experiences with friends :D
TenaciousDealer
2023-05-09 19:53:32 +0000 UTCQT HAS A MIC STAND!!! I knew my money to the Patreon was being well used! (Great podcast btw)
Michael
2023-05-09 19:46:41 +0000 UTCSorry to hear about your ferret maya
Glitch
2023-05-09 19:37:12 +0000 UTCQt struggling with the most basic wine opener and then blaming whoever bout it is crazy
wild uni
2023-05-09 19:29:08 +0000 UTCqt the croc "hypothetical" was a Lil too real
Pax Man
2023-05-09 19:26:01 +0000 UTCi think qt is a very smart and capable woman but watching her open that wine was PAINFUL
Tfries_
2023-05-09 19:21:05 +0000 UTCFor the DIY dresses, I seen a video that someone makes Taylor Swift’s floral top with a step by step process. 🫶🏻 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gM46ZN22hwY&pp=ygUQZGl5IGZsb3dlciBkcmVzcw%3D%3D also this dress for Maya would match QT’s perfectly! I think it’s sold out right now but I you could make it yourself too~ https://lurelly.com/products/3d-floral-mini-dress
Chanelrooh
2023-05-09 19:16:56 +0000 UTCstorys
Haihan Lin
2023-05-09 19:12:13 +0000 UTCi turned off the yard for this yay ♥️
Kaiyah Papaya
2023-05-09 19:04:31 +0000 UTCLETS GO LETS GO
Lihi
2023-05-09 19:04:30 +0000 UTCWineaboudit 🍷. The s. k. i. n. walker stories were so good and spooky. Really funny episode
Felipe Boubee
2023-05-09 19:03:32 +0000 UTCyay
Olising
2023-05-09 19:03:17 +0000 UTCwowie
AxialMars
2023-05-09 19:00:26 +0000 UTC
