Catra, Trauma, and Restorative Justice
Added 2020-05-04 14:30:43 +0000 UTCWe sometimes want so badly for people to be healed and to grow that we forget that growth not only takes time, but it has to be fostered in the appropriate soil. Especially if what you want is accountability, not punishment.
"our capacities for love, intimacy, and connection are finite, that there is never enough to go around, and that if you give some to one person, you must be taking some away from another." (p.28 of The Ethical Slut)
(If y'all can think of a better title let me know because that's my fatal flaw)
