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Sevira Darling
Sevira Darling

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Hi! I’m not sure how many times I have to say this! I am a lesbian content creator, and Sevira Darling was created to provide listeners with exclusively wlw content, and to create a safe space for sapphics! I do NOT and will not EVER do F4M content as Sevira Darling. If you become a My Lady patron solely to commission F4M content from me, I WILL be declining you, you will receive a refund for spending the $25, and be removed from the tier, I really don’t care. Honestly I am quite disgusted right now.

I cannot stop men from listening to my audios, sure. I cannot stop men from becoming patrons, if they like my voice, or they like my stories, or whatever else. Honestly, I try not to make assumptions, since you really never know if these types of listeners are questioning their gender identity or transitioning. But these audios are, at the end of the day, not for the pleasure and consumption of cis men. The audacity to come to me and, with your full chest, ask me to create F4M content as though it is your right… truly astounding.



Edit: After my irritation subsided I had more thoughts. So I’m adding onto this by saying that there are MANY other femme-presenting audio content creators out there who do F4M content, and some who do F4M, F4F, AND F4A. And that’s totally fine! That is the audience they choose, and they are thriving, as they should. You should support them, if that’s the type of content you’re looking for!

I am aware that I’m probably limiting myself financially by only making F4F content, but like. I have other forms of income as well. This is a big one (my biggest - thank y’all for keeping this roof over my head, seriously 😭❤️), but it’s not my only one. I have a normal day job, I am a professional voice actor outside of this. My main career is largely SFW and I’m proud to say I have been having a lot of success as of late.

But Sevira Darling? She’s not JUST about the money for me. Every single second of my audios are carefully and lovingly made solely by me, from the scripts to the recording to the editing. This is my OWN work. I went into this saying look, if I make my own content, it’s going to be content I would be proud of, content I would want to hear, for an audience of people who don’t get enough good content. Like?? When I was only a listener of sapphic asmr, I used to have to scrounge for a crumb of content. Meanwhile F4M content is practically growing on trees.

If you want F4M, there is a plethora of it out there for you, but you won’t find it here.

(I said the word “content” so many times HELP)

Comments

Oh that’s such a shame 😔 Definitely understand where that creator is coming from, gotta do what you gotta do, but man that’s rough. I’m glad you are enjoying my content though! Break a leg if you do end up giving it a shot ♥️

Sevira Darling

I used to be subscribed to another content creator for her F4F audios, but she recently stopped making them because her female audience was much smaller…she couldn’t justify continuing it. I understand why, I don’t think it was solely her choice…but it really sucked since I liked her content. Finding F4F content is so hard, and I really do love your work. Thank you for being so passionate about what you do, you’ve inspired me to maybe try it out myself! Much love ❤️💕

SleepyVessel

i know this isn’t a recent post but i wanted to say thanks for having a strong stance on this 🥺 i just subbed to you a few days ago and wow your content is truly god tier, so thank you for creating content for sapphics!! it’s honestly difficult to find f4f content that checks all the boxes, including being created for women and i’m just really thankful as a queer woman myself! i’m really enjoying your content a lot, i love how much thought you put into your characters and the story-building, and obviously i love your voice as well. you’re my fav asmr content creator and i hope i’ll be able to support you for as long as you’re doing this! i’m sorry you have to deal with men (ugh) but hopefully the women who are enjoying your content will overshadow them! 💖

thedreamer67

Thank you so much for the content you make!! I hate having to search through all the F4M content to find good F4F. Makes me feel a bit ick personally. So I'm so so happy to have found your channel / patreon. I'm sorry you have to deal with stuff from men trying to do bs like that. ❤️❤️❤️

Harper

so sorry you had to deal with that. there is so much F4M content, and even a lot of F4A content isn't written to really be queer. it is always such a treasure to find F4F audios and it is really disgusting how entitled men can act and then demand even spaces for queer women should cater to them.

Emma Hagens

Thank you, my fellow homo 🥹🤝

Sevira Darling

So sorry you have deal with disgusting men like that. Thanks for sticking through it all. I genuinely appreciate that you only make F4F content. Also your stuff is just so well written. I really love the attention to detail you put into these stories 💝

Anna Rae

Im really sorry this happened to you, the audacity of some people! I am really happy you make sapphic content since it's so hard to find it out there and I sometimes had to settle for F4M audios because of the lack of sapphic content in this space. Thank you for what you do and keep going! ❤️

Violet

Thank you for all you do ❤️

Nyx 💜

I'm glad there are places for f4f content. The pickings are slim for f4a too, almost non existent for f4NB so finding stuff for you is so nice. There is so much F4M out there and yeah I've notice cis men thinking everything is for them because it usually is. Honestly, I want to believe that some of it is just ignorance. If society is based around you, then why would you question it? Nothing comes up that make you think, 'hey why is it this way?,' unless it really negatively affects someone they care about, and even then most might not even think that far ahead after. I've had to educate a lot of male friends on their privilege and for the most part I have had some positive result... but its frustrating having to educate people who are raised by default to not question or even research into why their society and social structure is the way it is. Teaching people to question why things are the way they are is exhausting but I guess I feel if I do it then some other person won't have to.

FenceCat1300

Cis men have so much content made just for them, but there’s far fewer who make audio for a sapphic audience. Having someone who only creates f4f content is valuable, especially when you’re paying for it on patreon

Arika

bro as a listener it was always demoralizing to pick through f4m content for queer pickings and a lot of the time even the f4f is generally for non-lesbians. I’m always excited for your releases and, unlike other places, it’s never unpleasant to look through your content and pick something; it’s actually quite the opposite. you’ve got a subscriber for life out of this homo 🫶🏽

J

Hot asf for this (respectfully) SHES FOR THE GIRLS AND GIRLS ONLY!!! Real W for us. You choose to pick what kind of content u wanna create and release no one can tell u otherwise. Don’t let those people get to u, ur amazing and super greatful to have an amazing woman representing for the lesbians. 🫶

Mari

❤️

Sevira Darling

YEP. Very much this

Sevira Darling

Fully agree - and thank you! ❤️

Sevira Darling

STAY STRONG ❤🧡💛💚💙💜🤎🖤🤍👸👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩👭👩‍❤️‍👩

Dartz z

So sorry this happened to you Sevira :( I‘m absolutely thankful to have found you and having someone who creates F4F stuff like you do. Like you mentioned yourself there isn’t as much F4F content like F4M, and having someone as awesome as you, plus your awesome writing skills besides your awesome voice acting (lewd or otherwise ;3) is truly a gem! Please know we love you all and I’m super happy and proud of you that you stood your ground and didn’t let your ideals/Goal be compromised :3 sending you a lot of hugs ❤️

Albedo_jen

Content creators should be able to set their own boundaries and make what they want to. And down to the audience to respect that if the creators has stated what they are willing and not willing to do. I don't wanna speak for others here, but there has always been a lack of sapphic content in creative spaces and tend to be overlooked (it is getting better yay). Which is a whole seperate thing to go into. So I appreciate any kind of wlw content, sfw and nsfw made by queer creators. When sapphic content is not seen as profitable and 'riskier' to markets. Especially as a wlw who has listened to asmr and seaching for f4f audios amongst the sea of f4m for years now. And I am sure there are men who genuinely appreciate wlw content. But please keep in mind that sapphic creators are probably not considering you at the forefront. So when someone goes into an underrepresented group or space asking for things it will come off as intrusive and quite frankly rude. But love you all❤️ Anyway just my two pennies.

Violaismine

This kind of behavior has always frustrated and angered me to no end seeing it happen in sapphic content creators' comment sections and I'm just an observer. I just CANNOT understand for the life of me, how as a man, who has access to infinite F4M content considering 90% of all audio roleplays are geared towards straight people, STILL have the audacity to go and harass a queer woman because she isn't catering to your wants. It's unbelievable, I'm sorry you have to deal with this, but I'm glad you've set up boundaries. Keep up the awesome work Sevira, as a queer woman, I really do appreciate the safe space you create for us ♡

W

Truly disgusting, sorry this happened to you.

SailorSteph

I'm sorry that this happened to you :( thank you for making a safe space for the sapphics <3

kelpy

I blocked him as soon as the refund was issued and I notified him that I was removing him from the tier🧍🏻‍♀️

Sevira Darling

*hugged Sevira in support* It's sad you have to make this post. But also, speak truth sister! Proud you are standing up for yourself ^^

WolfLordofTheNorth

Stand on business 😤

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Good for you for standing up for yourself. There are too many people who think they are entitled to whatever they want.

barb

That's so obnoxious. I hope you didn't have to keep dealing with that

Willowsap

Ugh, gross men creeping in 🤮 that is awful fr.

Mik Shepard

That's awful. I'm sorry you had to deal with that.

Obsidrius

That sucks I’m so sorry

Edie Wilde

I'm so sorry hon 🫂

V

I'm so sorry this happened to you!

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