Sigh
Added 2017-05-06 06:45:21 +0000 UTCHello again everyone,
Just an advanced apology... I've gotten some bad news today about a couple of my own relatives now. I guess the homesickness I've been feeling the past couple weeks was the world trying to get me to reach out to my immediate and extended family. I worry so much about getting back to everyone online that I neglect speaking to and sending love to my own family :/ Going to have to figure out a way to balance these things.. even if it's allocating a couple days each week to respond on different mediums to as many people I can. Instead of constantly feeling the pressure to respond to people all day everyday. I hope you don't think I'm unappreciative of all the support and messages and interest people have and send my way. They mean the world. And I want everyone to know that. It's just how to do that without spreading myself too thin and finding time to be productive, have my own peace and quiet, etc. If there's one huge flaw I have, it's my inability to prioritize and organize my life. From my thoughts to my house to my schedule.
I apologize I'm so sporadic. I best be getting to reading all the self help books to help me organize my life. Heh.
Love you all! Big, big hugs.
Comments
Hi Lauren, sorry to hear that, take all the time you need - hugs -
Lucky Leaf
2017-05-08 21:32:49 +0000 UTCSending you good vibes.
W smith
2017-05-08 20:37:16 +0000 UTCMuch love... I hope works out ok :( We understand and do what you need to do.
Elephant In The Room ASMR
2017-05-07 18:56:12 +0000 UTCI'm sorry to hear that :( Please take as good of care of yourself as you do of us!
Finnigan
2017-05-07 03:22:25 +0000 UTCSorry I'm late Frivvy! Be good to yourself, you are loved from all sides, and I hope you're staying strong <3
2017-05-07 02:13:10 +0000 UTCLauren, don't look for us all the time! Switch off your notifications... All of them. I have one YTuber that I hold higher than you and my other preferred ASMRtist. AvE(uncle bumblefuck to his familiars) is an engineer/mechanic... I'm not sure what he is but you'd benefit from his thinking. He takes one hour per day responding to email and patreon and will not go past it. I reckon this should be enough even in consideration of your popularity, I support you as much and more for the perceived tingles/comfort I get from you. Stake some goal posts for your replies here and all your other platforms. Real life always comes first, please don't let it slip twice(I hope you take this as a friendly foot in your ass). I'm sure others here will agree, you have to look out for your kin before you look for us. For sure, I'd respect you less if you didn't. You have a lot of love here but it doesn't compare to the the ones you've been distracted from. They are the ones that will build you up, We can only sustain you. Take care of you and yours first, you'll get greater and more meaningful validation from your family. Trust me.
2017-05-06 21:25:24 +0000 UTCMaybe picking one medium and making sure people know that's the one to use to get a response from you? IDK, I'm not one of the popular kids like you :P Of course don't ask for my advice, because I have the same problem prioritizing as you hahahahahahahacry
KJ
2017-05-06 17:09:16 +0000 UTCI hope things will be ok for you and them and I believe in you, Lauren <3
David KrΓΌger
2017-05-06 16:16:11 +0000 UTCI'm sorry about the bad news Frivvi π§ I hope it's not serious. Please now that we're all here for you and that we all love you. Take all the time you need.
Kyle
2017-05-06 13:37:02 +0000 UTCSending good thoughts your way! =)
Rich Jackson
2017-05-06 12:34:34 +0000 UTCOthers have already said so many nice things and I stand by their kinds words, so I won't drag on into one of my typical rambles. To many of us, above everything else, your happiness is what's most important. Focus on what it is you need from your life to be happy, and we'll gladly support you in whatever way we can. <3
Lance Bates
2017-05-06 12:34:31 +0000 UTCHope its nothing too serious. Take all the time you need n don't worry about us. We are here to support you no matter what. Not for rewards or to hear back from you 24/7 but to give back a little and maybe help you find/maintain your own happiness. Do what you gotta do n I hope things will turn out alright for your family *hugs*
Thanatos
2017-05-06 11:10:44 +0000 UTCTake all the time you like for your family. We totally understand :)
2017-05-06 09:17:55 +0000 UTC-hugs- I wouldn't mind if you never reply to me again as long as YOU are happy and I'm sure many of us feel the same (of course we love talking to you tho - you're just too lovable). If the number of media you have is unmanageable perhaps shut everything except like Patreon and YouTube? That'd narrow your focus, maybe? Not gonna lie, I've enjoyed not having instagram and Facebook these past few weeks. Hope everything improves, much love to you and your family. β€οΈ
Gillzy Bean
2017-05-06 09:10:18 +0000 UTCAlso Sorry for the Wall O' Text, damn Patreon hates spacing and text formatting.
2017-05-06 09:07:52 +0000 UTCLauren, I'm fully behind you and if you feel that you're spreading yourself too thin between asmr and your family, I understand completely and want you to completely focus on you and your own life, because that's what ultimately matters at the end of the day. We want what's best for you so talk to your family and figure out how to balance life with what you love to do although it's easier said than done. I'll still be here and so will everyone else if and when you make anymore videos or do some funny streams on Twitch. Even if you decide to take a year off from this just to unwind all the pressure you feel, I want you to know that I won't forget you and I'm supporting you here no matter what. You're an amazing person and I am really sorry to hear that you are going through bad times. Anyway, Your Community is here for you for good and we all love you! Take care! β€β€ -David (DZ43).
2017-05-06 09:05:40 +0000 UTCTime to narrow your focus Lauren. As has been said many times here, you and loved ones must be first in line. Spreading yourself too thin has been mentioned also. Take heed Lauren, we are here because we want to be and the vast majority of us understand completely where your priorities must be. Take care of you Lauren, for you.<3.
2017-05-06 08:41:35 +0000 UTCP.S. sorry i can only donate $10 for now, gotta save up some $ :/
Zach (Zutoo)
2017-05-06 07:28:50 +0000 UTCPeople will always find a way to be angry about you being considerate of your needs, but no matter how kind and giving you are, you still need to be able to take time for yourself. Most of your fans will still be around. The ones that don't respect you, while it'll be difficult, maybe don't even deserve your time.
griplx
2017-05-06 07:16:02 +0000 UTCYou know my situation if you need to talk about the family medical situation drop me a DM my history has given me some epiphanies on dealing with such. Also feeling home sick is a good thing towards peace in your life. Not so long ago I suspect the last thing you'd thought you'd feel is home sick right?
Jason aka asmrpeople
2017-05-06 07:03:35 +0000 UTCFamily first! Always! ly
2017-05-06 07:02:55 +0000 UTCYou have all of our support. I'll be here if you ever need to talk, or just even wan to play games. You've done a lot for me and I just want you to be happy β₯
Kenny Brown (tehAon)
2017-05-06 07:00:50 +0000 UTCCant express how much we care and appreciate u lauren, i just want u to feel better :( and in the end i know u will be...if u need someone to talk to feel free to talk to me or someone else that you would want to talk to more because we are all here for u lauren
Zach (Zutoo)
2017-05-06 06:54:20 +0000 UTCDo what you gots to do <3
Gorgolicious
2017-05-06 06:52:30 +0000 UTCDont worry. we are all here for you. Just do what you have to do to stay healthy.
2017-05-06 06:50:46 +0000 UTCAlways take care of yourself first Lauren and make no apologies for it. You run your life and your channel as you see it. You have plenty of support, not just from myself, but plenty of others here. Do what you need to do, we will support and be flexible. Take care of you and your family. As always best of luck and well wishes. :) <3
Tony XM
2017-05-06 06:49:34 +0000 UTCYou do you Frivvi <3 We will be here <3 =3
Zanerli
2017-05-06 06:49:33 +0000 UTCDo what you gotta do. Hope everything is alright!
2017-05-06 06:47:29 +0000 UTCβ₯
Kenny Brown (tehAon)
2017-05-06 06:47:04 +0000 UTC