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More DM Problems

Hi! So DMs have become a pretty large issue. Since I gave fair warnings for the sexual stuff, I'm able to just block and ban ppl who still try to act sexual at me in my DMs, but there's a new issue. There have been people now trying to guilt trip me into various things. Yeah, that doesn't work on me :P I'm unfortunately going to have to limit my DMs to important questions and such. It's nice to hear support from people, but it's getting a bit much to go through everything as it is, and now I have more and more odd things popping up in there.

I think there comes a point where a creator can't keep up as easily, and unfortunately I'm going to have to start ignoring most DMs. I will try to skim and answer questions that are important, but the best place to get in touch with me is gonna be Discord, which is pinned with my other socials in my posts/ text posts. You can ask me important questions there or pop into text chat or vc when i'm there if u wanna chat. Just make sure to read the rules!

Actually I'll also put the invite here cause why not

https://discord.gg/eT5sMDmEfJ

if that doesn't work, try https://discord.gg/fawniva

Comments

I noticed I was blocked and I do not send messages on a consistent basis in your inbox nor do I send messages all the time. I have never made sexual advances on you nor tried to hit on you. I only respond to the audio which a patron is supposed to do from my years of being a patron of erotic audios. I may give advice or suggestions and share my experiences in a way to connect. I have never had a creator block me for this reason.

Seanaxial

Now, I see my comments are being censored. This is so unreal.

Seanaxial

My understanding of giving messages is to share one's thoughts about the audio and perhaps make suggestions. I have tried discord. There are so many inappropriate things on there and no one is talking about anything relevant. And I usually don't have permission to send text or do anything when I am in there. To me, it is a big waste of time. If I give information in messenger, I am merely trying to help. I am one of your biggest cheerleaders and you block me in messenger. That is cool, so unprofessional. I only speak positive things for the most part about you audio. That is cool. I wish you well.

Seanaxial

You may need to hire a publicist to deal with the unsavory issues or the mundane issues of reading messages when it begins to interfere with your creativity and main objective in creating quality content.

Seanaxial

Hi

People are fucking frustrating man jeez, don’t know any manners

Solace

Jesus h christ on a fuckin bicycle. I bet you its the same people who treat retail workers like shit

I'm sorry that people can be so...disrespectful, or wilfully ignorant of someone else's feelings and time? I'm not sure I've got the right words for it. But I hope you have a lovely Christmas, or holiday in general 🥂

Kyle Fengler

I hope I wasnt a contributing factor. i appreciate her getting back to me and answering my question though 😣

Browning Mike

sry to hear that... 😐

Moschmo

We could make a wiki to answer the fans questions. There are always new fans to her channel and Patreon.

Andrew Nelson

And this is why we cant have nice things.

Church

Smart move, would've done the same. Creators don't owe answers to their fans, it's just nice to have, so this is perfectly reasonable.

Just a question, but if we do not use or like Discord. What do we do?

Andrew Nelson

other people can DM you who are not Patrons?

Andrew Nelson

Its good ish problem to have (getting overwhelming DM's) i remember when you just started out when i came across your channel (princess at stream x boar hunter) you where around 200 to 300 subs then.

BlackTemplar

This is the right decision, there's no reason to tolerate that kind of treatment, if these people can't understand they're acting in a way that is clearly communicated as unwanted, then it's time to just ban. Sucks we can't be nice about it, but your word is final. Good on you for making this decision

The Jolly Dane

You'd think that would be the case. That's more so why I limit these posts so only Patrons can see them, because I do know spreading things beyond that could do more harm than good. But I think it's important for me to make these people aware of themselves and how what they're doing is super weird. When I talk about it, it actually greatly cuts down the amount of people doing this behavior. The reason is because they aren't trolls. If they were, me saying this wouldn't help. These are genuinely people thinking they can get something out of me. That's one of the creepiest parts

Ya gotta stop talking about it Fawn, you're feeding the trolls as they say. Block and move on. Thanks for all the content!

Stay strong Fawn. Dont let those ass hats get to you. Have a Merry Christmas also.

GanRPG

I feel terrible that you have had people send you those aweful messages. Know that you won't get any of that from me, I've kinda been where you are and can't answer everyone's questions and discipline those who are disgusting in their approach to you, I mean I publish fanfiction as a hobby and I still get people who ask me wierd questions but most are good people. Don't lose faith that most people are inherently good and you'll be able to handle any bad thrown at you. If you need help at all, I'm around.

Alexander Olson

Where you make someone feel bad for not doing a certain thing and just keep making them feel bad about themselves until they do it.

Alexander Olson

I’m kinda dumb but what is a guilt trip 😅

Yeah, it's pretty annoying when people stoop that low. Sorry to hear that you're dealing with such crap behavior from others.

UnsightlyComa

So sorry you are dealing with people doing all this stuff. Nobody should have to put up with that shit. Folks need to do better.

tony

Ew. People really and sexual shit to patreon creators ?

redrobin

People just don't know when to quit, do they? Sorry you have to deal with that, Fawniva.

Iron Piedmont

Definitely slap them with a block/Ban. People are weird 🙄

Scott Evans

People are STILL sending that junk?? Sorry to hear about that smh

Dr D. Ragon

Give her a break y’all🤦🏾‍♂️don’t make it weird for her, that is doing way too much. You’ll get through this Fawn, enjoy your Christmas!

Dang, I had no idea that was happening; sounds like it really sucks.

RikkaTikka

Sucks you’re going through with that! Hope the very best for you and next year. Merry Christmas!

JsMaster


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