Life Stuff Update
Added 2021-08-19 13:22:34 +0000 UTCHey guys,
Been going back and forth on whether or not I should share this with you since usually I try to keep my personal life and work separate, but since it's getting later in the month here I've decided you guys deserve a heads up just in case.
There's no non-shitty way to say it. My father was diagnosed with terminal liver cancer this month. There's been something "up" among other things for a while, but this was the official call. They gave him a 6 month outlook, but we think he's most likely not going to see September. He's just declining too fast, and there are no options.
We had a real scare two nights ago and I've been at the hospital ever since. They stabilized him and he's back mentally, but it's really just a delay of an inevitable future where he gradually slips back into the same state and passes.
Last night I left visitor hours planning to wrap up some things for you guys and get them posted, but as soon as I got home it just cratered into sobbing. I don't know what the outlook is going to be here work-wise; naturally I want to spend as much time with him as possible before his conscious deteriorates - but I can't just take the cintiq with me, so there is a possible situation in the cards where a lot of this month's stuff ends up not getting finished until next month. If something around there is what ends up playing out and you guys want refunds for August, or think I should set the gallery to extend the August pledge, or maybe an extra poll in September or something to make up for it I'll understand. It's going to depend on how difficult it is to set up all this hospice and stuff and how quickly or slowly he goes. I just wanted to get you guys in the loop so that in either case you're not left wondering what's with the delay if the worst case is what happens.
Thanks, sorry.
Boog
Comments
Please give yourself and your family time in all of this ❤
H_R
2021-08-28 05:13:16 +0000 UTCtake all the time you need. Everyone will understand. Stay strong.
JinxXc
2021-08-24 01:51:31 +0000 UTCGo be with your family. We will all be fine. Sincerest condolences for you sir
Darious11
2021-08-21 22:11:17 +0000 UTCFamily and life comes first in many things, so do not be sorry for taking time to attend to that. Spend all the time you need with your father, man.
Twilight Researcher
2021-08-21 02:56:42 +0000 UTCYeah we ain’t going anywhere dude, don’t worry about us. Be with your dad, all the other stuff can be dealt later!
BWill985
2021-08-20 22:48:53 +0000 UTCGo be with your dad bro, don't worry about it.
Drizz
2021-08-20 11:04:23 +0000 UTCNo worries dude, take all the time you need! I'm sorry to hear about your father, what's important is you spend as much time with him as you can and then give yourself time to grieve afterward.
Foamy
2021-08-20 10:38:00 +0000 UTCTake all the time you need with your father, else you will most likely regret it. We are not sex-driven bulls thinking with their dick. We can understand without needing any form of compensation. If this month what I pay isn't used to produce porn, it will be used to allow a man to enjoy his family, and I'm fine with that.
Millusio
2021-08-19 22:08:03 +0000 UTCNo need to be sorry, you take as much time you need! Family comes first the horny can wait!
Cocoa
2021-08-19 21:19:59 +0000 UTCApologies are not necessary, my friend....take care of your family and make the most of the time you have
Zephirum
2021-08-19 20:20:26 +0000 UTCTake your damn time, your family is more important than us.
Jussomegay
2021-08-19 20:06:56 +0000 UTCReal sorry about your dad Boog. Take care of family, they come first
Louis Blazeit
2021-08-19 19:37:23 +0000 UTCBoog I'm so sorry to hear. Take all the time you need and spend it with your family please. We'll be here waitin for ya.
2021-08-19 18:23:22 +0000 UTCCancer's a bitch. We're with you.
crufl
2021-08-19 18:09:23 +0000 UTCYou do whatever you need to do in order to take care of yourself and your family. We all eventually have to deal with hardships and it's okay to take some personal time in life. Stay strong and I wish you all the positive energy I can give.
Grey Bard
2021-08-19 17:55:03 +0000 UTCRight now what you need to do is not worry about any of this and focus on Spending as much time with your dad as possible. I know I for one am not going to be asking for any kind of refund so go do what you need to do for however long you need to do it
Thorny One
2021-08-19 16:00:01 +0000 UTCFuck boobs rn dog go see your dad
Rockinbox
2021-08-19 15:41:08 +0000 UTCOh no Boogie, I'm so sorry. Please take care and don't worry about us.
GameOfPayne
2021-08-19 15:28:53 +0000 UTCTake your time dood. Family shoukd come first.
Despojo
2021-08-19 14:53:41 +0000 UTCYou take all the time you need. I lost one of my Grandfathers to Alzheimers so I know how precious that time you have with him still lucid/conscience is.
CCH
2021-08-19 14:45:08 +0000 UTCFamily first. Take the time you need. Go be with your dad.
Tygre
2021-08-19 14:45:07 +0000 UTCTake the time you can off and spend it with family. It is the most important thing right now for you.
DarenGC
2021-08-19 13:47:02 +0000 UTCI'm so sorry, Boog. You do the right thing, spending time with him, so I don't mind this month's stuff getting delayed or not coming. I am, like most people, here to support you, so don't worry about it. Family and health come first.
2021-08-19 13:46:52 +0000 UTCBoog, I'm a patreon of yours because you do cool shit and I want to support you. You need the support now. Your art can take a break while you're dealing with a huge life event. Much love.
2021-08-19 13:43:59 +0000 UTCTake all the time you need, for you and your family.
corporate banana
2021-08-19 13:43:34 +0000 UTCboogie take a breather. you gave us tons of amazing art and some great flashes i think its time we repay ya. your family needs ya more than we do. while i myself dont know what its like to loose someone is such away i do know the pain of loss. its ok to take a break. we'll be here if ya need us. lastly dont worry about a refund for me. i would gladly help support ya through this so you can focus on being with ya family.
clive silverson
2021-08-19 13:41:33 +0000 UTCPlease spend time with your family, Boogie. I don't want a refund and don't need you to take on any more work due to the emergency. I just hope you are able to make the most of your time with your kin.
Ultimadrago
2021-08-19 13:32:40 +0000 UTCI know the situation your in on a personal level so don't hesitate to take the time off you'll definitely need it.
2021-08-19 13:29:32 +0000 UTCFamily always comes first. Don't worry about this we can wait. Also don't overburden yourself with additional work because you think you need to make it up to us. We would rather you be back doing what you are good at when you are actually ready.
ChronoStriker1
2021-08-19 13:28:06 +0000 UTCTake as much time as you need. It really is never easy to go through. I know we’ll always be here for you.
Zontaxthetaxman
2021-08-19 13:26:46 +0000 UTC