XaiJu
asmrdivya
asmrdivya

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Personal thoughts

I like sharing my thoughts via Patreon because I feel like it's an intimate space where I can be more personal. So while I've been blessed "upstairs" so to speak I've always felt self-conscious about my butt. While I do have hips, thighs etc, I always felt like my butt was too flat to be considered sexy. I try to lift and do exercises that target that area but sometimes I feel like I see no results. 

I feel like there's a lot of toxic beauty standards and pressure women face to have a body that's "in fashion" at the time, which changes every 10 years or so.  Especially because more and more people get parts of their body surgically enhanced when their job relies on how they are shaped, and Instagram can distort the image of what is considered normal. To be completely vulnerable with you, I  spent the last few days researching brazillian butt lifts where they suck the fat in your body to place in your butt because I was feeling so insecure about that area. I also saw the surgery is highly dangerous and currently has the highest rate of death. While I do not judge anyone who chooses to get anything done,  I can see how easy it is to get sucked into that line of thinking. And then, I was thinking how easy it is to feel like you're not enough. What I'm trying to do instead is love myself and remind myself, that I am enough. I hope if you're reading this and struggling with thoughts that you need to change yourself to fit a certain image, I want to remind yourself that you are enough too. <3

Comments

Like im pretty short, also thought about enchanting it with limb lightening surgery, hard to change predestined gene. Aswell we are more than our bodies, our bodies is just a vessel. We have souls wich is the true beauty in my opinion, i dont mind, as you say we are enough, so are you. &lt;3 i I find your peach nice. cute and hot. We cant be perfect. Cant please all. https://www.lifehack.org/articles/productivity/10-clear-reasons-why-you-shouldnt-care-what-others-think.html article of caring. You have a nice body and personality, Eye of the beholder. Best regard

RevivedSoul

My guy, I dont think he means annoying as in saying Divya is annoying for saying what she did about her body. I think he means its annoying because a lot of us think she is perfect and she doesn't see it that way which is annoying because we see her as perfect and we want her to see herself as perfect so that she feels good about herself. Let people have their opinion as you have had yours instead of calling them toxic, because thats not fair.

Knights in white satin

Genetic Jackhammer

Knights in white satin

Genetic Jackhammer

Knights in white satin...

Genetic Jackhammer

Keep your toxicity out of Patreon. This place is for supporting content creators, not bashing them or others who have different opinions than you. Unsubscribe if you don't like it or find it "annoying". You won't be missed.

You need to get out more and learn about women and the society they are in.

She's not "complaining" what? She just said that her ass isn't quite where she wants it to be and you called her annoying for it. You're clearly only here to see tits and don't care about the person creating the content; she's a person with self image issues like the rest of us. And you wanna lol at the other comments when you're straight up being a dick💀

Randy Moore

I’d clap those cheeks

Lol at some of these comments... As far as the post goes, no woman is satisfied with their bodies. Tall ones want to be shorter, short want to be taller, flat chested want melons and the stacked girls want smaller ones... There's a cashier near my house who's gorgeous, probably 20 years old. Could be a model. She is thin and I've never seen her wear anything that shows off her legs. This girl is a 9 &amp; 1/2 but is self conscious about her legs. It's ridiculous. Hearing attractive women complain about one part of their body they don't consider perfect is annoying. And ps, all guys are self conscious about their bodies too, women are very disrespectful towards guys they don't find attractive, just like guys are. Men and women are the same

Genetic Jackhammer

I can't imagine what you deal with, women don't get treated the best always. You are amazing though, beautiful and sexy in every way!

As an ass man, I dont find the Kardashian type ass all that sexy. I like the natural ones over the Brazillian bought ones any day. You look fantastic. Your beautiful, funny, and have a great heart. Do what you need to do but also keep telling yourself that you are a beautiful person just the way you are.

Slimrock

I think you should show off your ass more often. It’s nice

Same comment as everyone here. Your body is very fine. Your butt is lovely. The little I could see of your butt... I wish i could see more of it! Be proud of your body.

stephane

I don’t say this because I’m a subscriber but I see absolutely no issue with your body and I think your figure is beautiful. I personally don’t like fake enhancements to an extreme degree, like these fake huge bums I find them quite unattractive but of course each to their own. I know it’s easy to say you shouldn’t feel unhappy with how you look but as I said there isn’t anything wrong with you, your figure or your bum, I hope this honesty helps a little

Caslas

Honestly, you look great. I would just say keep working at it, and you will definitely see results, it just takes a while, but don't let that demotivate and just keep grinding 👍

LionsGate

You are a very beautiful, sexy and talented person 😊


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