I disagree. The need for the obvious "bad boy" is so eye-rolling and makes me dislike Portia, and I think it's definitely going to bite her in the ass.
First Name Ella
2025-10-04 11:28:07 +0000 UTC
I don't get to control my partner's body. If he wants to masturbate, he masturbates. I would have an issue if he was watching porn we KNEW wasn't made with actresses being treated fairly and like human beings while on set. The problems come from porn addiction or lack of intimacy, like men who have to watch porn to get off or have given themselves death grip-itis.
First Name Ella
2025-10-04 11:26:44 +0000 UTC
White Lotus being a comfort watch is craaaaazyyyyy 😂
I know I’m late commenting but one thing I just had to say, is that I really appreciate how they portray the situation Portia is in with Albie vs. Jack. As far as Albie goes, they have zero chemistry and we see no real indications that she is attracted to him. He is mostly the one engaging with her, and she seems to be responding mostly out of loneliness. And his attempts at being romantic just seem to make her feel awkward. Conversely, we can see that she is attracted to Jack literally the second she lays eyes on him. And when they meet, their chemistry is off the charts and they’re flirting straight away. I don’t remember how things end up, but at least up thru now, I like that the show isn’t really being critical of Portia for her choices and being true to her feelings. Too often women are shown in a bad light when they let themselves act on their attraction, and shown as virtuous for getting with the “nice guy” that they have no attraction to. Also, most other media would chastise her for having had a few very lightly romantic interactions with Albie, but still feeling free to pursue her attraction to Jack. But the reality is, Albie is still just a guy she barely knows who she met on vacation, and who she’s not really clicking with romantically. At this stage, she’s definitely still a free agent.
Now, the show may punish her in the next two episodes for all of this after all lol, idk, like I said, I don’t remember what happens. I really hope they don’t, but at least for now, I appreciate the messaging.
Jen Bee
2025-10-01 11:21:49 +0000 UTC
The theme for this season is ABSOLUTELY a bop. Easily my favorite of the three
Ledgedancer
2025-09-26 18:42:19 +0000 UTC
I really think the "wounded bird" thing just meant "I'm attracted to women with a lot of baggage."
First Name Ella
2025-09-26 10:48:38 +0000 UTC
45:10 tbh they looked like they were having more fun than the ladies. Also, I'm with her- being a woman mostly sucks. And I don't think the dad wants to change. if he did, he wouldn't have bought escorts the very first night they got there! Portia going for the bad boy instead of Albie is going to bite her in the ass. Also, I think there's more to Greg (Craig?)- I don't think he left because he had a "dick appointment" (lol). Why did he care so much whether Portia was there or not? I swear to God, he's connected to Tanya meeting those gay dudes. He left and they immediately show up? He kept mentioning the pre-nup... those dudes are way too flattering and way too insistent. But maybe I'm just paranoid lmao, or they're a red herring to what's really going to happen.
First Name Ella
2025-09-26 10:44:58 +0000 UTC
Quite selfish
Franklin
2025-09-25 03:45:37 +0000 UTC
Thanks for sharing this. I love it.
Franklin
2025-09-25 03:44:37 +0000 UTC
Damnnnn
Franklin
2025-09-25 03:39:04 +0000 UTC
Lmao let’s go!!
Franklin
2025-09-25 03:38:10 +0000 UTC
Lmao right
Franklin
2025-09-25 03:37:20 +0000 UTC
I’m glad, so much here to chew on
Franklin
2025-09-25 03:37:10 +0000 UTC
Yap perfect
Franklin
2025-09-25 03:36:49 +0000 UTC
100% - address it if it is an issue
Franklin
2025-09-25 03:36:35 +0000 UTC
Facts
Franklin
2025-09-25 03:35:38 +0000 UTC
I agree on Jack—he was very flirty and confident but not rapey.
Cristabel
2025-09-25 00:17:19 +0000 UTC
Sometimes you just gotta crank one out. As long as my husband isn’t rubbing it in my face (phrasing 😬), he can do whatever he wants with his own body by himself. If that were to lead to, or be a symptom of, some sexual issues between us that is it’s own thing that would need to be addressed. Definitely not comparable to infidelity in any way in my opinion.
Valaree
2025-09-24 21:32:50 +0000 UTC
I once heard of this show described as an observable eco-system.
Finnhie
2025-09-24 20:59:27 +0000 UTC
Yep. People see what they want to see in the Godfather films. I’d love to see Frank react to 1 and 2, and maybe even 3. 😃
Susan B
2025-09-24 19:17:20 +0000 UTC
Your commentary on this, as always, gets me thinking about the series in a fresh way.
Susan B
2025-09-24 19:14:25 +0000 UTC
this show is so crazy i keep forgetting someone dies lmaoo
Iris
2025-09-24 19:06:08 +0000 UTC
I know women who have freaked out because a partner enjoys porn. Advice from an old woman: ask him what those fantasies are, and participate. 😀
Susan B
2025-09-24 19:02:57 +0000 UTC
There is, unfortunately, some truth in the notion that many young women (me, back in the day) will immediately friend-zone a man who is so kind and giving as not to represent a challenge. We go for the bad-boy vibe and live to regret it. On repeat. By the time I figured that out about myself, I had outlived my libido. 😎
Susan B
2025-09-24 17:59:13 +0000 UTC
The horny Noto guys scene w/Harper references Antonioni's L'Avventura scene, fyi! https://www.youtube.com/shorts/GmTbKmQdLX8
Atom
2025-09-24 17:57:40 +0000 UTC
FACTS
Franklin
2025-09-24 17:49:03 +0000 UTC
OMG at 1:29 with the woman boss giving her younger woman employee exactly the kind of attention that borders on sexual harassment
Susan B
2025-09-24 17:46:52 +0000 UTC
[clears throat for a long TedTalk about The Godfather's alertness to and demolition of the fantasy Alby names, which fans like Bert and critics like Alby disregard, just like they do with Scorcese movies that are also quite critical of masculine violence and its relationship to power]
[reconsiders, instead just says]: Media that portrays something is not always endorsing it!!!
Atom
2025-09-24 17:09:52 +0000 UTC
Another recurring theme seems to be parents whose main interest in their kids is what the kids see in the parents.
Susan B
2025-09-24 16:35:57 +0000 UTC
Im with you %100 and I love the essay comment. Reading and comments is like 40% of the fun for me.
Franklin
2025-09-24 16:15:03 +0000 UTC
Thanks Amanda, this one had me hot!!!
Gaddamn I even forgot that “I don’t lie to my wife” part the previous day - while lying to her face the whole day😭
Franklin
2025-09-24 16:10:00 +0000 UTC
Your reactions to this do not disappoint (as if I expected anything less). I’m so glad you went through with watching it! Bare bones (without the commentary on wealth/class and the different themes of each season), this series is really so well written that it makes you interested as hell in their interactions. It’s like an anthropological study, and I feel like that’s one of your many talents with reacting (reading people, finding their little quirks, seeing the underlying things going on, etc).
Also really glad you’re as mad at Ethan as I was when watching this. “I don’t lie to my wife” the night before, then acting like she’s crazy. My entire trip would be ruined if I were Harper because finding that condom, even though it’s Cameron’s, then Ethan’s continued deflecting/lying just makes it worse. Like dude just say a girl tried to kiss you and you turned her down, and Cameron had sex in your hotel room. Come ON.
Amanda Hill
2025-09-24 15:43:24 +0000 UTC
Also, Tanya really needs to understand that a tarot card reading isn't a "fun light" thing - you ask the cards a question, the cards get dealt and have specific meanings, and are dealt in a spread, and are read based on the spread in regards to the question asked. An experienced reader will be able to make an insightful reading based upon the cards. Thinking it is just supposed to make you feel better is WILD.
Eboe Thrasher
2025-09-24 15:09:39 +0000 UTC
The sad thing is, that douchebag would probably find that his wife would be 100% amenable to being in a polyamorous marriage, but he enjoys the cheating aspect of it too much. No matter how much he espouses the dislike of monogamy itself, he just enjoys being a total degenerate shithead.
Eboe Thrasher
2025-09-24 15:05:03 +0000 UTC
I agree with everything you said. Harper gave him an opening right away by saying that she KNOWS Cameron cheats, and instead of telling her he made her look like a bitch for talking shit about Daphne. He knows Harper's been right about everything but still cares more about what they think. Harper's been dragged on this vacation with this idiot couple and Daphne makes her stay overnight somewhere so she can play games with her idiot husband?? I would be SO mad. And she's obviously comforting herself by comparing her own marriage to Daphne and Cameron which is also sad because she's clearly frustrated and knows her and Ethan have their own problems. Ethan had the perfect opportunity to be like I'm so sorry you're right blablabla. I feel like he definitely feels guilty because he did kiss Mia but he could be justifying not saying anything as being loyal to his idiot friend and not outing him.
And I feel like Daphne is way smarter than she lets on. I think she knows what Cameron is doing (not just the one time she told Harper about) but she does it too and that's what she means by "I'm not a victim".
Also I agree with the Jack/Portia stuff, like, he does come off obnoxious (to me at least) but not creepy. And it's what she's wanted the whole time so good for her.
And I found it interesting how the two characters who talked badly about female friendships are Daphne and Tanya, who are, compared to other women on the show, the most out of touch, privileged two.
I don't mind the pausing and commenting because there truly is something to be said about nearly every scene.
Sorry for the essay of a comment.