Great to hear you came out on top, Bex! Like Burton says, "Be Good to Yourself!"
Don't let others determine your happiness. I was hung up on someone for way too long and I didn't even get to be WITH them! And I haven't been on a date in almost 6 yrs, but I'm happy and no longer heartbroken.
And about that one guy-
(Shawn & Gus): "He can harmonizing), 🎵🎶 SuuUUuUuck iiIiIIIiIIiIiIittttTttTTTtt!" 🎵 🎶
(Patrons, if any of you haven't seen "Psych", I highly recommend it)
CapitalEffyou
2025-12-17 23:05:35 +0000 UTC
I have unfortunately been THAT person, in love with someone else, and it is completely life-consuming.
It started with infidelity (on both parts, horrid, I know), but when everything came out in the open, I faced the wrath, and he denied, and then proposed to his GF. But I was still hung up on him for another 3 – 4 years.
This was over 16 years ago, and thankfully, I am over it all now, but at the time, I was broken. I don’t exactly have the strongest mental health in the world, so it kind of shattered me (which I legit deserved).
Thankfully, now, the only thing I’m still upset about is the fact that I willingly behaved like that. But the strange part is, at the time, it genuinely seemed to make complete sense. My brain absolutely lied to me to convince me that what I was doing was fine. I’ve been cheated on (before this), and it hurt, so I’ve been on both sides, and they both suck.
The only positives I think I can see are that my other half and I at the time were on the verge of breaking up anyway, so whilst the pain was inevitable, the deceit was out of order. He met a new girl and is now very happy. Also, the other guy married his GF, they now have a daughter, and are off living their lives. All I care about is that she is happy. He can suck it.
GrumpasaurusBex
2025-12-17 14:34:33 +0000 UTC
Mistaking THEE gorgeous Jude Law for that other guy had me DYING!!!