To All the Men Who Are Kind ❤️❤️❤️
Added 2024-03-20 18:14:12 +0000 UTC
Comments
I hope you find that one day Tea.
Toshiro Valiant
2024-03-22 18:01:14 +0000 UTCI'm sorry to hear that you're scared of men, though I can understand why. Know that this internet stranger is sending you all of his platonic love. From one quietly suffering soul to another.
Casey Hengstebeck
2024-03-22 05:17:59 +0000 UTCHehe, I do not recommend relationships with men, we kinda stinky. But in all honesty, I do hope someday you can find an honest man you can trust, it will brighten your life.
Micado02
2024-03-21 13:10:04 +0000 UTCI know what it means to be afraid like this. I withhold the same fear towards women.
Gustavo Meras
2024-03-21 05:39:46 +0000 UTCIt's why I love my boyfriends so much. They're both total teddy bears who give me as much trust, love, respect, understanding, and communication as I give them. <3
Cyberweasel89
2024-03-21 05:37:25 +0000 UTCWell said and I do hope you do conquer your fear
SillyBrained
2024-03-21 04:20:49 +0000 UTCI was having a tough day at work, but this made me feel a bit better.
Angel Ortiz
2024-03-21 02:39:59 +0000 UTCI legitimately didn't know you had a problem with men at all. You have my sympathy and I do hope you can have that experience and find a man who you're not afraid of.
Jack S. Krevin
2024-03-21 00:39:28 +0000 UTCThis may sound odd but that's the sweetest thing I've read in a long time. I can't quite describe how reassuring this is. When I was a kid I got bullied a lot and made to feel like I was a creep or a weirdo. I internalized it pretty deeply. I'm kindof a bigger guy so I started to be ashamed of my more masculine aspects as well (and because a lot of my bullies were 'tough' guys). There were 'friends' who abused me and made me feel like I was disgusting even into my 20s. So eventually I'd go online and read some stuff about how bad men are and the horrible things some men do, and it was easier for me to believe those things about myself. It reinforced my self-hatred and made it feel like justice. I've been in therapy almost a year now and there's a whole ton of other stuff I've been working through as well, but it's helped. I'm also fortunate that by the time I was in my 20s, even though some of that stuff was still going on, I had amazing women in my life as well who countered those narratives by giving me validation. I'm still close with most of them and they have been the most wonderful, loving, caring friends as I've begun healing. You are amazing and I thank you so much for this.
sanguinesomnambulist
2024-03-21 00:26:52 +0000 UTCI'm afraid of women so I get it sadly
Falelor
2024-03-21 00:03:59 +0000 UTCI don't hating a group based on a few, do I blame all women for my abuse....not anymore
TheRavenKing
2024-03-20 23:42:24 +0000 UTCI'm a man and I think its unfortunately very reasonable to be afraid of men. For all the events, big and small, that built up to create this fear I'm really sorry they happened to you, and to so many other women (and men). I wish you good fortune in reaching the place you want to be regarding men. And I'll continue to do my part to create a world that is safer and more comfortable for women.
Conor
2024-03-20 22:47:42 +0000 UTCI would protect you and keep you safe.
KOR아홉
2024-03-20 22:44:16 +0000 UTCThis is why we all love you so much.
CurrentlyEatingPies
2024-03-20 22:34:51 +0000 UTCI completely understand why women are afraid of men, some mf are crazy and you’ll never know who is. But I’m glad you actually can see our perspective as men with actual humanity and we’re raised right. and know that those psychopaths don’t represent men as a whole
bringo
2024-03-20 22:17:06 +0000 UTCYou and The Dadvocate are wonderful wholesome woman.
Human soon to be Stinking Helldiver
2024-03-20 22:00:57 +0000 UTCIn all seriousness, thanks for the gesture of kindness.
MadArtist
2024-03-20 21:41:40 +0000 UTCOh, so this isn't for me. lol
MadArtist
2024-03-20 21:41:16 +0000 UTCAdmittedly as I'm typing this, I'm asking myself the question “Is there actually any point to me posting this?” but seeing as it might be in some ways good to hear, and it's unlikely I'm going to hurt anyone by saying it so I may as well post it. I've been on the internet for like 15 years at this point, maybe more, and you're one of three women I've seen on the internet who I have any level of confidence, actually cares about men as people. There's probably another 10 to 20 that I can only hope actually care as opposed to being yet another one that is simply putting on an act that has deceived me and many other men into giving them attention or whatever else it is that they want. The rest I think are most likely putting on an act to extract resources from men that they range from not caring about to secretly despising. Despite my cravings for romantic love and intimacy with a woman who I would ideally spend the rest of my life with, I have decided that love and intimacy is not worth gambling my capacity to enjoy everything else in life. While parasocial relationships such as those frequently found in audio role plays can never truly replace a real relationship they do provide a safe illusion to help satiate those cravings as well as be entertaining to listen to, so for that I thank you for your hard work and tenacity in the face of everything that has tried to keep you down, especially YouTube’s hobby of cyberbullying you. If I was offered a button that when pushed would forever protect the kind souls of the world from those who would use and abuse them and insure they knew that they were now protected, at the expense of me being sent to a hell beyond human imagination for a year, while I would not be happy about it I would push it. Unfortunately I believe it's going to take a good 10 to 40 years for our culture of using people to finally be corrected, meaning that until then, the kind souls of this world are unfortunately left with the difficult decision of throwing themselves out there and hoping that they survive the use and abuse they are subjected to long enough to find the love and intimacy they desire, or hide away from everyone to try and protect themselves and their ability to enjoy the rest of life without relationships. From one kind soul to another, sincerely David.
milo6211 .
2024-03-20 21:32:19 +0000 UTCI'm not here for long but I've never caught even a glimpse of a comment suggesting that You could be a man-hater. Yes, I'm pretty aware that Your experience with men is of a kind that noone should ever have and that it comes with consequences I wish You never had to face but not for a second have I ever thought that You might harbor hatred towards masculine part of the population. On the contrary, honesty of the fantasy interactions You portray here suggests that given a chance of finding trustworthy individual You'd love deeply and let Yourself be loved. Someone hating men would not attain this level of wholesomeness.
Verid
2024-03-20 21:13:18 +0000 UTCTeacup you're okay to feel the way you feel, the thing that happened to you is heinous. The stories I hear women tell, are so monstrous, that I do not know how they continue on in life and make relationships. They are constantly preyed upon by men, so much so you have to distrust them from the get go. I personally do not feel offended or hurt when your claws come out, it is only natural for you to do that because of the trauma you went through. I accept you for who you are, and I respect your decision to live your life the way you wish to.
NightofTwilight
2024-03-20 20:57:47 +0000 UTCA fear of men. That's Interesting considering the % of men Vs woman on this discord. I fear spiders.. not all but those legs they got.. hell no.. 8 legged jerks
AdamUpAe86 !
2024-03-20 20:19:24 +0000 UTCAww, thank you so much Tea; it really means a lot! I really do hope your relationship goals become a reality someday!
Chaka
2024-03-20 19:55:45 +0000 UTCI can appreciate that, and honestly as a man I feel exactly the same about women
Charles Gepner
2024-03-20 19:53:28 +0000 UTC🍻🍻
N1C00825
2024-03-20 19:32:58 +0000 UTCThanks for the kind words. It means a lot to hear. Without your audios, I wouldn't have found a place where I feel like I could belong.
Shadow Of War
2024-03-20 19:24:55 +0000 UTCI really hope you can find good men to be friends with and look up to and feel safe with, Tea. You deserve to have positive relationships with people.
Latefordinner
2024-03-20 19:22:38 +0000 UTC👍👍💪😁😁😊💯💯
Lost Puppy
2024-03-20 19:21:31 +0000 UTCThank you Tea for the kind post and yes I 100 percent agree.
Phoenix Brave Hideki
2024-03-20 19:03:22 +0000 UTCThe feelings are all mutual. I'm grateful for the small handful of women I've been friends with over the years, but I've been single for the last 10 years. I've barely dated or even talked to women. Not because I don't believe there are good women, I know there are; the risks to everything if I'm wrong are just too great. Much love, here's to a better world for all of us.
Mister Wulfe
2024-03-20 19:00:59 +0000 UTCThank you. I really appreciate that you think men shouldn't be belittled or ridiculed, we're treated like monsters all the time and obviously not all of us are like that. It's to the point that we aren't seen as human and being one is something to be ashamed of. Yes equality matters, hatred and fear won't get us there.
Jeremy Knight
2024-03-20 19:00:30 +0000 UTCI think it's totally valid to feel anxious about dating, especially when your fears have built up over the years. Also, neurodivergence throws another spanner into the works. I would say though, if a relationship is something you really want, it might be worth putting yourself out there. It's not a guarantee, of course, but being brave and facing our fears is all a part of getting what we want.
TeacupAudio
2024-03-20 19:00:00 +0000 UTCI don’t think that all women are like that, there are quite a few women I know that I’m good friends with. But I’m really scared of putting myself out there and being taken advantage of. It certainly doesn’t help that I’m autistic.
JacobWSX
2024-03-20 18:57:02 +0000 UTCHell, I’ve never even been with a woman, one of the biggest reasons is that I don’t think I’m good enough and that I have too many issues that I need to fix before I date anyone. Another reason………….. is that there are woman that take advantage of other men’s kindness, and that there are men whose lives have been destroyed because they dated the wrong person, who then decided to accuse the men of something they didn’t do, and destroy their lives and careers. The fact that there some women like that scares me. I’m also scared of being rejected or being lead on, someone toying with my emotions, and someone taking advantage of my inherent kindness. I want to be with someone, but I’m not confident with myself and because of those other issues.
JacobWSX
2024-03-20 18:54:12 +0000 UTCGreat words to live by 👍
ned-418
2024-03-20 18:51:31 +0000 UTC"On a lighter note, I really do hope it's clear that I truly don't hate men. I think men deserve respect, dignity and liberty. I am unfortunately afraid of men. But that fear does not make hateful. I want men to have all the same rights as women. I don't believe men should be belittled or ridiculed and I desperately want more understanding and respect between the sexes. I want to believe in a better future for all. And I'm going to work hard and maybe one day I'll have relationships with men outside of my family where I feel safe, seen and heard. Because that's honestly something I'd really like."
TeacupAudio
2024-03-20 18:49:54 +0000 UTCThank you Tea. You're an amazing person too. And hope you find the right person for you.
Joe Matt
2024-03-20 18:46:30 +0000 UTCThere are good and Bad ppl on both sides, hope u find someone that can help you to get rid of the fear Tea <3
Darak224
2024-03-20 18:42:08 +0000 UTCTea being BASED as usual.
Iron Piedmont
2024-03-20 18:41:08 +0000 UTCIts a hard line to walk. As a trans woman I’ve had a chance to see this from both sides. Some guys are the sweetest most kindest people in the world. They make me feel safe and happy . Others make me never want to leave my house again.
EggDroopSoup
2024-03-20 18:36:18 +0000 UTCWhat does the post say? I can't see.
Jeremy Knight
2024-03-20 18:33:40 +0000 UTCI honestly hate being mean to people. Sure, I get mad when people are being stupid, for example, when I’m driving, and I see people that don’t know how to drive properly. Thank you Tea, for all you do and all the messages of positivity you give us to bring us up. It means a lot.
JacobWSX
2024-03-20 18:33:28 +0000 UTCI… try. I do my best to be kind and this is… really nice to hear. Peter Cullen from Transformers once said at a con: if you’re gonna be a hero, be a real hero. Don’t give into the Hollywood action hero with the screaming and the macho strength. Be strong enough to be gentle. And that message is too underrated.
Flux Goodra
2024-03-20 18:33:19 +0000 UTCthanks
Deus
2024-03-20 18:30:38 +0000 UTCThank you, Tea.
Blindluck92
2024-03-20 18:28:57 +0000 UTCThank you Tea.. means a lot
Cody McClure
2024-03-20 18:25:40 +0000 UTCYou're the best Tea
TheLeky
2024-03-20 18:25:01 +0000 UTCYour words to the universe’s ears. Good karma will come to you as it has slowly
Camilo Iribarren
2024-03-20 18:23:40 +0000 UTCthis really means alot thank you tea
Zhero55555
2024-03-20 18:21:12 +0000 UTCThank you...
Mr. September
2024-03-20 18:21:01 +0000 UTCThanks Tea that's means a lot
Dust
2024-03-20 18:20:48 +0000 UTCWe are thankful for you Teacup🥹
senzu
2024-03-20 18:20:27 +0000 UTCThanks tea ❤️
RZS dran B
2024-03-20 18:20:03 +0000 UTCTy
June
2024-03-20 18:19:28 +0000 UTCThank you for your positivity Tea!
Ricken
2024-03-20 18:19:23 +0000 UTC
![gal ha had[The Sir]](https://xaiju.com/istorage/53465.jpg)
