Find the Strength to Reach Out

Let's not put expectations on others too high. I have a great friend circle that can tell when I'm not myself and reach out to me but that's only because of the last year I spent with them telling them when I wasn't feeling myself. But yes that is an amazing feeling especially if you are someone like me with borderline personality disorder.

Exl Kaldra

<p style="color: #008600;">The best thing is when you don't have to ask other people for help. If you are not alone and you have loved ones, they themselves should reach out to you to help.</p>

VitAnyaNaked

Definitely don't be shy about reaching out to someone for help. We are all human and that's okay.

Naked_SoNUshka

im still trying to work on that, havent called a therapy place or anything (mostly cuz their phone service shuts down when im done at work) but ill do my best to get the help i need

Kuma

Honestly, easier said than done in my situation.

PROJECT_Empyrean5

Nah. Every time I try to express my feelings, I either get put down or given the "you think that's bad, wait til you hear what I've got going" bullshit. Worst part is, it's my parents that give me that; everyone else just shuns me from the group I try to be a part of.

Jacob M

Nah I’m more of an armor on kind of person. The only one who can solve your problems is you

Vulgram

I've been actually really struggling lately. And for the longest time I thought teacup just dipped and was gone. But I was so happy to se that she's still alive and posting on patreon and... on PH? No matter. Very happy.

As always great advice Tea. There is no shame or problem to ask for help when needed.

Phoenix Brave Hideki

I’m the oldest so I don’t struggle. I’m not allowed to ask for help. My loved ones can come to me for help and I’d be there for them in a heartbeat. My loved ones can fail and I’d be right there to lift them up. By my own rule I will always help whenever asked but I cannot receive it. I am the oldest, I never fail and I never need help. I must always be strong. Always.

Jak

this is completely foreign concept to me, how are people doing it, who are they reaching to Suffering alone and silence is the only way.

Samwise Thebravee

Depends on what I'm struggling with, Too scared to tell them any personal stuff because all I would do is stress them out and even if I did they wouldn't know what to do. They then would ask is it that important.

Jeremy Knight

everyone needs help sometimes, it is not a weakness to ask for help when You need it. :D 💜💜💜💜

Lost Puppy