The Q&A (Ep. 17)

I'm not big on making out but cuddling easier.

Desiree Cowling

I would defensively choose cuddles 🥰

Espresso Martini

I’ve been here for 2 years (YouTube) and I usually never comment but its nice to hear these qna!!

Bibi

Okay, in the last q&a you said that you’d have some book recommendations for the next one. So gimme the recommendations K! =)

Samantha

Okay, a weird question. If you were very strongly a "boob guy" to the point of almost fetish, and your partner is not really aroused by nipple play, and actually very self-concious about her (not in a very sexy way) "enormous" breasts, would you want her to fake that she enjoys breast fondling and nipple play? I am understanding that there's giving in a relationship, but I don't want to just feel like a walking pair of breasts and enjoy being touched in other ways than breast-grabs and tit-fucking. How do I navigate this with someone who is really sensitive, very uncomfortable with a lot of affection and initiating touch outside of this? I don't want to humiliate or depleat his confidence.

thatgirlknitstherapy!

what makes sex “average” as opposed to “great” for you?

hi, K<3 sooo ahhaah... imagine you started dating a girl and then turns out she's been your listener this whole time but didn't tell u about it. and u have no idea but she like low-key listened to all your content already. i just thought it was funny. also thank you so much for existing and creating, I can't stress enough how much it has helped me through shitty times. i hope you're doing okay</3

juuzoume

What is your enneagram?

angelina

K, I was listening to this in my car. just driving as I always do. This Q&A has touch me no pun intended. I never really comment because I have bad anxiety but I am a bumble through and through! I’ve been listening to your audios for about 3 or 4 years now (around 2019 or 20). I started on YT then came over to Patreon about 2 years ago and have listened to countless Q&As and audios sfw and nsfw kind. I even started a girlfriend role play channel last year in hopes that you’d find it one day (harder than it looks so I commend you greatly) and I’d become one of your favorite people to listen to like you are mind haha, that was my secret hope anyway. I found you when I was 19 or 20 and you’ve helped me and my life in so many more ways than you know. And not trying to gas you or anything but you’ve truly been a role model in my life for the kind of people I want to have in my life, the kind of man I would hope to have one day, the kind of life experiences, the unmatched energy you bring, you’ve even inspired the kind of woman/ person I want to me and of course the kind of sex life with my partner I dream to have one day. When I found you I was just looking to feel less alone in this world and when I first discovered your Patreon I was a shy, curious virgin (still virgin now :))who was taught this side of myself was shameful and always carried shame with it. But over the years you have or at least your voice has been like the lyrics to that George Michael song “Father Figure” I urge you to look it up it’s very good. Hell, you even introduced me to Chase Atlantic which has become one of my favorites of all time!!! Like one repeats everyday lol I cried so bad when you answered the question about rather you’ll be here in 5 years or not (not in a guilt trip way so please don’t feel bad) because it hit me all at once of big and important role you have played in my life, how much you and your audios have meant to me and my life. I don’t if you’ve ever doubted if this was worth it or not, probably not because you love it so much which shines through every work you speak, but you are so much and mean so much to a lot of strangers on this floating rock in space and probably aliens too and other dimension beings lol to our minds, bodies and our spirits and you do it all just being your fucking wonderful self. Okay I cannot stress that enough what a beautiful being you are, perfectly flawed and incredibly human and as a growing woman myself, I strive to go through life as a a caterpillar in bloom into a magnificent butterfly, as you have. I know I make myself invisible here in this fandom/ community/ family but listening to you has always made me feel seen and heard and cared for and beautiful and (but not in a creepy stalker way) but loved , I love you K, we all honestly do so much. I hope you see this, just so you know what the quiets girls in the corner are feeling (I like to say I can speak for all of us too). I support you always and thank you for a thousand lifetimes!!! K lots of love Ciao Bella 😘😇 - Angel Face p.s. sorry for all the grammar errors I know teachers get mad about such things lol and I love everyone else here too just had to hype up our man 😂 p.p.s next q&a I’ll definitely ask something haha

babiestbabeofall

question: do you ever find yourself learning from mistakes you’ve made irl in relationships , from your audios, personality trait-wise ? do you watch stranger things 👀 n lastly could you do an audio where the listener is home alone and wants your company to make them feel better

ShesAnonymous

definite highlights of this audio: saying hi to Whiskers, the cat who always listens to the audios, the toy just casually sitting on his desk, your deliciously detailed instructions on eating 🐱💖 and short sharp sweet round: i choose love over sex, i forget easily but not forgive, follow my heart over head (those hard choices when my heart knew it was right or wrong have been the best decisions I’ve ever made) and definitely cuddle over make out! i love platonic cuddling but even dating someone, if they want to cuddle me that makes me feel more special than if they just want a hot make out sesh. maybe we should do a this or that where we can answer in the comments and you answer in an audio 🤔

Tee

K, im so glad you brought up reading comments in this audio. when i discovered your SFW audios on youtube (only like 3 months ago!! 🙀) it made me so happy to read through all the lovely comments on your videos. all the listeners were so funny and so kind and loving to one another (leaving little 'hope you're having a nice day' notes and reminders to take care of ourselves 🥺💕) and when i joined patreon i was BLOWN AWAY by how incredible everyone in this community is. bumbles are so supportive and caring towards each other 💘 as i make my way through your longgggg library of audios to listen to (both SFW on yt & NSFW here on patreon) my favourite thing to do is read through all the comments to see what details stood out to everyone but also to get a good giggle or two because everyone is so funny and sassy 😹🌶 i listen to your Q&A audios while i go for walks and felt a bit weird about commenting on older posts — like, is it relevant to comment on old Q&A’s? but i LOVE reading comments and if reading through comments makes you smile and feel happy then ill stop being self-conscious about it and just start leaving comments if i want to. and maybe new bumbles who join will get enjoyment from my comments like i do when i read everyone’s comments. to paint a picture of where i go for my walks while i listen to your Q&A's and smile like an absolute lovesick fool listening to all your sweet and spicy answers, i live in australia and i go to a local water reservoir that has walking and bike trails. its basically bushland and this morning when i listened to this audio, i had a mother kangaroo and her joey follow me for most of it 🦘🥰 im very lucky to have a few really close male friends. im a queer woman and have a lot of queer & straight female friends but i really cherish my relationships with my guy friends. they are all such good humans and i don't act any differently with them than i do with my girlfriends, so they know pretty much everything about me and we talk about EVERYTHING. the way that you are so considerate, kind and thoughtful towards your listeners reminds me of my guy friends and makes me feel the same way they make me feel; safe, protected and warm. all my guy friends are in long-term relationships so even though we talk about dating and sex etc, you offer a different and new perspective and i genuinely love listening to you answer questions about dating experiences. it's an invaluable resource to have a guy who is so open and honest when answering questions about anything to do with sex or girls. i just really truly appreciate it and wanted to say thank you for always answering all of the bumble's questions with respect and kindness.

Tee

K, I miss you a lot today. Hope you are doing well out there, eating big meals that you love and not overworking yourself. Here are my questions, ily! (let's pretend I'm whispering here) Did you receive the letter I, (roshni) sent you in September 2021? -Did your sisters ever paint your nails or did your hair when you guys were kids? -What do you do on the days when you don't wanna cook nor do you want takeout? -What Christmas gifts do you give your girlfriends? And what do you get for yourself. (pls don't answer if it's too personal or you just simply do not want to answer) -Do kids come to your house in halloween and do you decorate for them? -How do you deal with heavy workload and stressful times especially before exams? - did you ever go somewhere like anyone's place where you couldn't fit in the room (height wise ) because you're so tall? -Did you ever have a long distance relationship? Lastly, can we maybe sometime have the deed done when bumbles are on period?

Hey K! I’ve never commented on a q&a before but here it goes. What tips or advice would you give for inexperienced people or people who have never had sex who are scared or nervous about their first time?

Nicole Rowe