Age Gap Relationships | ZAD PRESENTS: My Nudie Judy
Added 2024-04-30 03:42:42 +0000 UTC
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when will it be my turn
Willie Thomas
2025-01-24 00:08:03 +0000 UTCA topic I live haha. My husband and I have an age gap…actually I am the product of an age gap marriage - my parents had a 14 year age difference, my Mom being the older one which was more scandalous at the time…when I was born my Dad was only 22…the met in the military at Fort Eustis during Vietnam. My husband and I have a 23 year age difference and we’ve been married for 7 years, but known each other for 10. Interestingly our age never really plays a big role in our marriage or is really thought about… What is interesting in our situation was…we lived in different countries when we met - and talking was all we had through the first several years of knowing each other. And we still have a lot to talk about 😉 I actually thought this was a good discussion. One thing to keep in mind about age difference relationships is…like all things…not all are the same. Many people initially looked at my own relationship as if there was “something up”. That he is using me for a green card…I am dangling opportunity in front of him…I was grieving still from my partner who died and my decision was made from grief…the list goes on…yet none applied to our relationship or now our marriage. I do agree where there are situations where older people control or younger use for cash…I have seen it in my own life with gay men I have known. Yet, again, not in our marriage. We run a business together…I have always made sure we are equals in all we do…I never play the “age” card in our marriage…I get we are probably the exception in this perhaps…but when watching a lot of Zach’s videos on his own marriage I often find more in common there, than different. Just a take from someone on the other side of this discussion haha
Erick Reddekopp
2024-05-09 17:26:24 +0000 UTCI remember being an 18 year old gay, just jumping into the vast gay pool of dating, and I remember thinking that I couldn't possibly date anyone over 22. I suppose for someone 18, that makes sense, but now, at 45, I would have a very hard time dating anyone under 30. If I could have been your teen Dad, I'm not going to be your silver Daddy now. On the other end of the spectrum, I still find it weird to date anyone over 50, even though, I'm very quickly approaching that milestone myself. Maybe this is why I'm single! lol
Chris Metzger
2024-04-30 15:26:32 +0000 UTCI loved Harold and Maude. The best!!
rory poulsen
2024-04-30 05:40:06 +0000 UTCI had it pretty easy. I was almost 22 and he was almost 21. We grew up together and it was magic!
rory poulsen
2024-04-30 05:38:10 +0000 UTCTough topic, I had a couple of dates with a 23 year old a couple of years ago it was just a bit to uncomfortable with the age difference. I do believe anyone over thirty for example can make those decisions and see where it goes. When you are the older one you sort of instantly wonder why. A 35 year old absolutely gorgeous male always sort of hints but at this stage with the age difference one assumes you chat about what you both could/would get out of a relationship and go from there. Nice seeing you gents…enjoy the upcoming week. Zach we are excited for you and Alastair for the upcoming hubby comes home sex. It will be great for you both..
Brad Harper
2024-04-30 05:27:41 +0000 UTC
