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Added 2023-09-10 22:04:41 +0000 UTCpretty heavy topic!
tell me your thought!!
1. should we forgive a person who bullied others before? (physical harrassment)
2. what is sensitive topic to discuss in western culture?
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Saw this youtubers channel called "Let's ask Shogo". In it he explained alot of why Japanese are the way they are due to bushido culture. So it makes sense why the virginity percentage is like 40%. Earlier today also. Saw that somali guy that harrasses people in Japan made the news. You probably heard about it too bevause he made meowko cry but i just saw a short clip. Although I think everybody would want to punch the guy I saw that there was this blond foreigner who actually did do something. Without knowing about their past I would think why are they just letting this guy push them and disrespect them. And knowing more about their history it makes more sense why they would try to avoid foreigners.
H2O
2023-09-20 01:16:50 +0000 UTCit's interesting drinking and smoking are fine in wetsern culture
툥이 tyongeee
2023-09-19 15:11:29 +0000 UTCi think it's becoming to be main topic in western culture too!
툥이 tyongeee
2023-09-19 15:11:17 +0000 UTCi had to read whole thing! thank you so much for much feedbacks and opinion
툥이 tyongeee
2023-09-19 15:11:00 +0000 UTCI experienced some bullying when I was like 8yo, until that dude pulled my hairs from the back violently in the toilet (I had then long hair like now) and I just snapped and went from 0 to 100 in rage and punched him multiple times in the face, it completely stopped after that. I did had some people later in middle school trying but I did fight back just with words and they just left me rapidly. Underage drinking and smoking, no one cares here, everyone does it, that's normal, I started drinking when I was 13-14. (I even went to night clubs when I was 15 lol) Here they finally started to talk about the school bullying problem in the last few years, but still too slow imo after years of acting like it was nothing, this year it's supposed to be one of the priority of the education minister. Bullying came in the news again recently when a kid killed himself last week... What a tragedy. I don't remember any celebrity in france that had his past school bullying being exposed 🤔. I don’t think it’s forgivable, especially when you are young and building yourself as a person, it can really destroy you or/and have a big impact for the rest of your life and your relationship with others. The gender thing is not only in the US, in europe too, people are maybe less vocal about it but it is also the case here too (but it probably also depend on the countries), and yeah gender and sex are 2 different things, for the vast majority of the population they are the same (like for my person) but for some it can be completely different, I like to say they are women, men and everything in between, humans are not all binary. Their is a pronoun in french for people who don't identified themselves with men or women, "iel", a mix of "il" (he) and "elle" (she). Sensitive topics, well racism and all of the history of france and colonialism are difficult subjects for some people, they still have difficulties to say that colonialism was bad -____- . Another sensitive subject related to that is police violence especially against people of colors (that was what started the riots last july). Also our current interior minister doesn't help as he basically said police violence doesn't exist.... that's not like we had tons of documents and videos for decades about that but you know... Some people can be like "I'm not a racist person" but can still have unconscious racist bias (like you can have misogin bias for exemple) On the difficulty to make friends in korea i heard the same thing multiple times about japan for the same reason, you often feel like there is a distance and can't get really close.
Olympie
2023-09-11 21:06:31 +0000 UTCAs someone who has experienced physical bullying, I can 100% say I would and will never forgive those fuckers for that. It messed me up for a long time and probably still affects me in some sense. I got beaten up several times when I was like 11-12 (and pretty badly, don't really want to elaborate). I think mostly because whenever the bullies tried to verbally abuse or insult me, I always talked back until they just had to show their dominance some other way. This ended when I eventually found some cool people and later joined up a school basketball team where I found more people to hang out with :) As for the cancellation for underage drinking and smoking - nobody cares about that here in this part of Europe. Bullying or doing some other stupid stuff when underage doesn't really come up here in the context of celebrities. School bullying was never talked about when I went to school, but nowadays it's a somewhat hot topic. With the growing of social media, online bullying has gotten pretty bad. Even if a student changes schools, the people from old place don't just disappear, but they continue the harassment online.
IDidDidI
2023-09-11 16:52:00 +0000 UTCJust saw you this morning on Visual Venture youtube channel - The Dangerous World of Twitch ~20min just very brief seconds of you and Jinny were used but saw whole thing there's no story about you or her. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=asjg55_1CXI @ 0:58 sec Tyongeee, @ 1:27 sec Jinny, it was random choice to follow this channel from yesterday I think. I first was watching the episode about omegle
H2O
2023-09-11 12:22:44 +0000 UTC05:48 I have seen this Korean ytubers mother talk about beauty standards. In that video she was very direct almost hurtful in describing her daughter. If it weren’t from a family member I think it might have been seen as a little hurtful. I kind of do like a direct talk like that a more honest give me no bs talk that the mother was using. When you say more stars are getting cancelled is that because of the influence to attract more western attention by adopting western outlooks is happening too fast? 06:29 Near where I live in Katy TX i believe. There was a guy who showed up to a school meeting where superintendents were at. In that meeting he told everyone how one of the superintendents used to bully him and it was believable. The superintendents reaction to it was met with backlash because it was not remorseful just dissmissive. He eventually got fired but he still was able to leave with benefits. I guess he could’ve changed from bullying personality but it was his reaction to the allegation that really told the truth. And if you think about it you would not want to send kids to a school where the people running it are apathetic to abuse. So again his reaction really gave away that he had not changed. 09:40 I used to go around during recess kicking people in the butt. Why, I don’t know. I may have been in 1st grade around that time. I had a friend who was Korean and he didn’t tell me anything. His cousin though came up to me and kicked my butt but it was his anger that made me change because I also would fight alot back in my old neighborhood where all the kids roamed around the apartments just looking to do hoodrat things and just fighting other groups of people (gangs). It was funny when I think about it because he basically said “How you like that? Huh! kicking everyone in the butt 😡” 10:04 Oh shit its like I’m saying too much already. In some channels where the mod or donators are clearly investing too much you can see people fuck with them. For instance when someone is clearly spending a lot on a streamer some dudes just come in knowing they’ll upset them if the streamer starts talking to them. Well you know its a downside of an audience being able to interact with a live show. A viewer can be smart enough to manipulate things like feelings or atmosphere of the show. I think this can be a way can be bullying and also not be but like something else like an accident. If just depends on the person’s intentions. Its that when online really the only person that fully uncovered and vulnerable can be the streamer. So they use that to sort of find out more about everyone. On the other hand if accidental I feel its like a natural part of growing up to be to sort of take things carefully don’t invest to much in one thing too fast. Yo I’m clearly not a writer lol it just makes more sense if talk this ideas out. 11:59 maybe if the bullyer like shows they are sincere in changing and making up for their past. But also sometimes there can be things that can’t be forgiven like I heard sometimes when people fought in school in the bathrooms they got their heads put in the toilet. I would never forgive that type of shit if that happened to me. I would not fucking care how many apologies or whatever money compensation is given. …..maybe billion tho Also let me tell you this story. There was this guy that got beat up along with his friend in the bathroom. And to further humiliate him they made him suck his friends dick. Years after high school news of a high speed chase came on tv. When high speed chases happen it stops everything. Almost all channels broadcasted it live. It is crazy like that because of the ratings thirst the tv stations have. In streamers terms its a content gold rush and everyone’s trying to get a piece. The person robbed some place or people and then eventually it ended when they crashed I think. When the news put up the suspect’s info, it was the guy who they made suck a guy's dick in a bathroom. WTF right? damn. Whatever the fight was about idk. Idk if it had to be ended in that way. Maybe there are some things that are just so off limits like hurting a woman in my family that I think I could do something as bad as that to someone but yeah that dude may still be in prison right now and thinking the time his whole life went the wrong way after that fight. 14:20 Sometimes that type direct talk is needed. It like there need some kind of way to ease into it or warm up a person. Maybe make them or show them your on their side before something potentially harsh is said. 15:30 Everything in America is just more tribal. There a feeling like you have to constantly think way more ahead of time on every single thing you say. I was thinking about using the word “regarded” instead of the r-word which could get you cancelled. “Don’t act so regarded”. I want use that word when it fits so well sometimes but I can’t. 16:00 This is my opinion, I think Korea bullying is not that bad but you know I just don’t know anything because I’ve never been there. Japan tho, I’ve heard some really gruesome horror movie type shit. Like WTF! supposedly like 40% are still virgins. I’m not saying virginity is bad I’m just saying like it doesn’t seem like they’re being wild enough to do crazy shit that I’ve heard. 17:00 Yes, to me when I watch K-dramas its like most of the story events you see someone a guy or girl gasping like they’re clutching their pearl necklace. The smoking/drinking/drugs ban thing is like surprising to see how seriously they respond to it. 18:40 so does the competitiveness in Korea drive people to punish people more for what seems like small offenses to us? 24:50 I agree. Its more like theres a drive at frustrating moments when they can’t communicate what’s wrong that they physically lash out when they can’t talk it out. Or… sometimes a person can be regarded, seems like. 36:04 what does Jinny does here with hair is cute 36:44 cute Jinny moment again, Oh 😯 38:00 I would be all for the death penalty for murderers and stuff that severe but like the evidence that they did the crime has to be like slam dunk no doubt or they confessed to it. Its just that in America there's still cases that appear on the news where it turned that DNA shows they were not guilty and it was too late they had already executed them. I like Jinny’s tan. I saw livestream maybe weeks ago she was dark dark. I kind wanted to say in chat Jinny go inside away from the sun you’re getting burnt. This color looks good idk if it could filter but I like. 40:20 this funny how you tell this Tyongeee, arm starting to wave around heh 45:05 Its kind of funny how after this I was thinking maybe Korea needs to be more racist to overlook the smaller stuff that gets people cancelled. (I’m not saying racism is okay) 47:42 Thinking that strangers in a different country have to want to be around me sounds pretty narcissist. Narcissism happens alot in America. 56:50 celebrities like Will Smith for example need to get cancelled for anything, because it will make way for new people to come in and get acting jobs. Today I heard Jake Gyllenhall was going to be chosen as Reed Richards like WTF! he was already mysterio. They need give new people a chance jeez!
H2O
2023-09-11 05:41:58 +0000 UTC
