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Backlash/comments regarding my BBC audio.

Hi Guys! 💜

I want to talk about one pretty hot topic, or should I say - one pretty hot reason why some people's asses blew up? Anyway, if you follow me on X (or if you are on my server) , you know what I mean. But I decided to actually explain myself properly and comment on some... backlash I received.

Okay, so. I've made one audio featuring BBC, for my WatchMe tier. I want to mention right away that this topic has always been quite painful/delicate/tricky for a lot of people in VA community - for obvious reasons. Creators don't want to come across as racists, as someone who fetishizes people of colour, they don't want to offend or insult POC in any way. Including me. That's why I've been avoiding mentioning any skin colour for quite some time in my public audios - but after multiple requests, I decided to give it a try. I did my best not to cross any line, I definitely tried not to focus too much on ethnicity of the character. IDk if I succeeded - it's for you to decide. This area is still grey for me and I appreciate any feedback/suggestions, you know that. BUT what I do not appreciate in any shape or form - is the flow of insults I received after uploading this audio. Let's break it down:

1. "What happened to no Race Play, you racist disgusting whore" - nothing happened, Race Play is still in my "Red Flag" list so to say. But I figured, that the definition itself can be absolutely different for every person. For me, race play - is focusing on a certain race (duh), objectifying certain race, fetishizing certain race. I've never done that and not planning to. Yes, I mentioned that one of the characters is black - in what world it is considered a Race Play? Honestly, I am confused.
2. "You mentioned black people to get attention" - if I wanted (this kind of) attention, I would have done it long ago.
3. "You are racist" - No I am not. My content is inclusive, or at least I've always tried to make all of my listeners to feel included. At least when it comes to things like Ethnicity. I rarely mention anything that might indicate race/ethnicity.
4. "You are a BBC loving whore" - No comments tbh.
5. "All cucks/bulls are *****" - anyone who thinks that way, can just go and fuck themselves. And not in a respectful/kind way.
6. And last (but not least) - why I answer to some of those hateful messages. Because I believe that "being a bigger person" doesn't always work. You send me shit and insult me in my DMs, especially if you are doing this anonymously? Okay, the least I can do is to express exactly how I feel about your insecure pathetic ass. Sorry not sorry.

I really hope you guys know that I respect each and every one of you - I am incredibly lucky to have such a supportive and open minded audience. I really want to provide a safe and friendly space for each of you to enjoy your kinks without feeling judged or insulted. BUT I have zero tolerance for incels/racists/haters and just rude fckn assholes. I don't need them in my space. Our space.

So feel free to express your opinions in comments - and let's be nice, shall we?
All the haters will be blocked ASAP. Thank you for understanding.

Take care. Hugs. 💋

Comments

omg I didn’t know you made a bbc audio ☺️🫶

Refridgerator

I honestly don't understand people who get made at BBC style porn. It's still fantasy at the end of the day. If it's not your cup of tea, then don't listen or watch it.

Nolan1100games

Thanks for reading all that, i appreciate it. I was thinking about it a bit more and it's a lot in comparison to a cuck/cuckqueen/cheating audio. You can put a disclaimer that it's all a fantasy, but because it has real world application some people can't seperate them. So if you don't denounce that cheating isn't ok then people will think you're endorsing it, even if that's not your irl stance on the matter. And I've noticed before on some cuck/cheating audios VA's have put a personal disclaimer along with their normal one. So when it comes to racial fetishism along side a 'it's just a fantasy' disclaimer some people also need one to denounce racism, otherwise people think the worst. Anyway I thought about this more and wanted to add it along with what I said earlier. Thank you again for reading all that. ❤️

RDVLVET

They're just jealous cause their dicks are smaller. That's the only reason I could think of

SlimTrim

Were people really mad about this? If they were, I bet they didn't even listen to the audio and the backlash was just due to the title. Frankly, the audio had no real BBC fetishization at all and was only mentioned a few times, so it's a wacky ass thing to freak out about. The race was entirely incidental. Certainly wouldn't call saying "BBC" to be raceplay. If it makes you feel any better, I thought the audio was really, really good and probably my favorite of the month. You should be proud of the audio tbh Thank you for what you do, ignore the haters, and keep at it <3

LordOfTheGooners

Thank you so much EMoney! 💜 I appreciate your support and understanding. As a creator yourself, you know exactly how easy it is to become a target for people who completely misinterpreted what you meant and what you actually wanted to deliver. But no matter what, we just need to keep moving forward and improve, using hate as a fuel and motivation.

Lina

Preach!

Lina

It would be so much better if people just mind their own business and stop judging others for their preferences.

Lina

Oh I am absolutely proud of my community, that's for sure! Thank you so much Arthur, appreciate you! 💜

Lina

Thank you kindly Stephen! 💜

Lina

Thank you Metal fan! 💜 And yes, some people def have too much free time on their hands.

Lina

Usually I do not mention anything that is related to race/ethnicity, so that my listeners can decide for themselves, who to imagine and associate themselves with. But it's def more difficult for animators.

Lina

Thank you for voicing your opinion, totally get what you mean. And also I love your futa BBC idea! 💜

Lina

Thank you KoC! 💜

Lina

Thank you so much Kinky, you are always incredibly supportive! 💜

Lina

Definitely.

Lina

A lot of people spend way too much time finding things to get mad about.

DawgLyfe

Hey Lina, I’m really sorry you’ve had to deal with people like that (if we can even call them people). Sadly, there’s no shortage of insecure, hateful types out there. I listened to that audio when you posted it, and not once did “race play” or anything like that even cross my mind. I get that it’s a tricky subject, but honestly, I don’t think you crossed any lines at all. Blocking them is 100% the right move. I really hope this year brings less drama and stress your way because your content is absolutely top-tier. I’ve already told you I’m a super fan, but it’s worth repeating, your work is incredible! Keep being amazing, Lina! 🙌🏻🙌🏻

KinkyBetaBeta

Sorry this happened. Hope this blows over soon so you can have some peace back.

King Of Cringe

You're talking about your "non-stop nut November for your wife and her 11in bbc" I presume. I only follow your patreon so I haven't listened to it, but I would like to comment because I always find this topic to be very interesting (sorry if it's long). Race play and the bbc fetish are so stigmatized because they have real world application. They're based off real world Ideologies, of the supremacy of one race over the other, so I think that sometimes the lines between fantasy and reality can become blurred and lost. Although I've never left a mean comment to any degree I can understand why people would feel a curtain way about it. I'm not going to name names but I've listened to plenty of audios with the bbc fetish, one creator even used the hard R when recounting a story. I never thought anything of it, and I don't think you or any of the creators I've listened to that have indulged this are racist. at then end of the day it's to get people off. Although when people think about this fetish they usually think about the most extreme end of it. I do think it's important that people separate themselves, their fantasy from reality, you got hate for this because some people couldn't do that. I think people see it as a personal attack against them, like I said I don't condone the hate you got, but I can understand those people. I hope you don't let it get to you because you make fucking great cuckolding audios. Also, I saw on twitter and you make futa audios as well. maybe in the future you could make a bbc futa audio and take out your frustration on the listener. 😉😏

RDVLVET

Tough one. As a 3d porn animator, I get requests for this a lot. I've avoided it by evenly mixing skin color across vids and not specifically targeting any one. For VA I can see its more difficult because you need to use an actual word to describe things. Maybe if you vary and describe the color of everyone evenly it could be inclusive and detailed?

Ogirls Art

Well all I’m gonna say, is if someone was watching/listening to porn and started calling the artist racist, they have absolutely nothing going on in their lives xD I think your audios are great, regardless of topic BECAUSE ITS FUCKIN PORN if we were gonna start getting existential, then start with all the loli stuff, start with the water sports and other insane kinks, but including a fuckin race into porn IS A KINK it’s not racism everyone has a preference and if they prefer black guys/girls FUCKIN GREAT, GET OVER YOURSELF

Metal fan999

I’ve never really commented or interacted publicly, but, been a fan for many months, and it’s so obvious by your personality and nature you never meant anything by it, these people are idiots. Sorry, not sorry

Stephen Fleming

To be completely honest, I stay clear of Twitter for this exact reason. Trolls and incels will find a way to take offence from anyone and anything. I don’t know how you do it but I applaud you for sticking to your guns and Continuing to fight the good fight. You have great morals, common sense, a level head which is severely lacking in the online world these days. Tackle them in your own way but know you’re appreciated and loved for what you do and your true fans and friends know the real you would never deliberately trigger anyone in such a manner. These strangers don’t know the artist who makes this content. So what gives them the right to judge you in such a pathetic way? Regardless, Nice to see so many positive and encouraging comments here on Patreon though. You should be proud of your little community, Alina! ♥️

ArthurWynne

My thing is everyone has their own tastes when something comes on and I don’t like it I don’t bitch I just find something I like if their is a audio that people don’t like you don’t have to listen to it it’s your choice if the artist wants to make this or that it’s their choice she’s not making anyone listen people need to grow up and mind their own business and worry about themselves their are some audios I don’t like but I’m not bitching I just find audios I like and listen to them this is her audio she can make whatever she wants and people need to realize that

Knifehunter97

I keep saying this to myself and to others. If there was people that gave less of a fuck about some things that's not their business or could just simply move by and go on about their lives...the world would be a better place. :/

Cameron Austin

Anonymity is such a double-edged sword in our community. I see so many people choose to ignore that. A majority of creators in our community are still indie. You know Lina sees all your comments; she cares about what you have to say. She spends hours recording, editing, and rewriting audios. None of us have some gigantic team behind us like corporate porn. People take for granted that you not only have to visually design your platform, including getting the right art, dubbing shorts, putting out full audios every week, and so much more. I use my anonymity exactly how my mother raised me and how I am day to day. My comments are exactly as if I were face to face with someone at a table. But people think because they don’t have a face, they can be rude and mean to everyone in this community. It hurts, guys. I know it hurts Lina. She cares deeply about creating art. So please remember next time she sees what you say and treat her with kindness and respect. Make what makes you happy, Lina; that’s important!

EMoney3372

This is the biggest mystery tbh. Why people can't just walk by/skip/scroll down.

Lina

Thank you Otaku! 💜 Glad you liked the audio!

Lina

Very good point, I usually do exactly that. But sometimes my patience runs dry yk.

Lina

More than I thought tbh...

Lina

Ahahaha thank you Arch Angel! 💜

Lina

So here's the thing: Not every video is meant for everyone. Not into BBC or being a cuck? Fine. Go watch something else. What's not fine is hate posting a comment on a video you probably didn't even watch. If its that much of an issue for you then cancel your sub and take your money elsewhere.

Francisco Dill-Boyce

It was and still is one of the hottest audios I’ve listened to so I can’t complain I would just say keep doing what people ask for/enjoy, nobody forces them to listen to audios including tags they don’t enjoy/like

Degenerated Otaku

That you went out of your way to explain yourself says alot about you. I would have just told those people to fuck themselves and been about my day.

Rene

Sounds like there’s a lot of snowflakes out there. Keep up the great work and disregard the trolls.

Rich S.

Lina, again what you’re doing is all a fantasy and it usually doesn’t happen in real life. Maybe the hotwife arrangement can be real if it’s with consent but the other things you mentioned can be a fantasy. Sorry to explain my point. What I’m trying to say is there are many great VAs that fit one’s needs. Some can’t handle it at all and that’s okey. But what I don’t like is that some degrade you or say nasty things about you just because you and your writers create these things. Anyways keep doing your thing, Lina. That’s all that matters right now.

Joseph

I just love your voice so I don't give a fuck .much love

ArchAngel121996

Thank you so much for your kind words, Tess! Appreciate you 💜

Lina

Very good point.

Lina

You have navigated the whole situation in a flawless manner. I know you well enough to confidently say that you are not a racist nor would you ever make an audio that would include any form of racism. I know you take extreme pride in your work and always work to ensure the quality of it and that it caters to the intended audience. Just because every audio is not meant for everyone but are geared towards more specific kinks doesn't make you inconsiderate, racist, bad VA or any of that sort. You've already made it easy for people to keep different kinds of content separate with different Patreon tiers and if people still seek out audios not to their tastes that is on them and they can wallow in their misery and self pity. You are offering one of the most understanding and open minded environment for people with some harder kinks and you do it with style and grace that is unmatched. I agree that being the bigger person doesn't always work and so far your response to the incels has been as high of a quality as are your audios. Keep doing what you do, keep being yourself and let the incels cry themselves to sleep. All the best to you, always.

Tesser

My thoughts are simple I see the tags if I don't like on don't watch. You are looking at someone making content if you don't like what the content is go somewhere else.

The boss x10 x360

(But incels don’t know what “nuance” means… 👀)

Matt Andre

Not to mention “Race Play” is, by definition, specifically mentioning and making the character’s race THE emphasis for everything. BBC is not inherently race-specific. There’s also “BWC” content, but it’s not about/because the character being/is white. Race Play literally emphasises the ethnicity and makes it the whole conceit.

Matt Andre

And at least the ones I spot in the wild being notoriously shitty on Insta, etc, calling them a “fragile incel” makes them red with rage and saying “b-but you look like the incel!! 🥺😤” Oh, my dude… At least I know how to satisfy a real woman. 👀🙃

Matt Andre

Yuuuuup. They’re weak cowards. They assume that they’re the oppressed ones, treat women like absolute dirt, and then wonder why no real self-respecting woman will ever talk to them… 👀

Matt Andre

Thank you so much, will do! 💜

Lina

Also, imagine being so fragile about yourself (these incels) that you over-generalise and whinge about Bulls the same way calling people “cucks” (and misusing the term in the process). They’re probably afraid that a Bull will objectively satisfy any woman better than they ever could. 🥲 Anyone being anti-Bull is a closeted cuck. 😂

Matt Andre

You're the best 🥹

Charli

Thank you so much, Deeno 💜 Will definitely deliver more bangers, that's fro sure ;)

Lina

White incel losers is exactly the term I'd use, too

Charli

Exactly. Some people just can't get over their own insecurities. Pathetic.

Lina

You are my favorite VA in the whole world and how dare they say those things to you! 💢 It's kinda' disgusting what some people think is okay.

Charli

Thank you so much Marco, I really appreciate all the support 💜

Lina

Thank you so much, Charli 💜

Lina

I just want to be transparent with you guys and explain what's going on and why I react in a certain way. I am not even angry or insulted, but it absolutely pisses me off that people insult MY audience and call them names. That's the worst part tbh.

Lina

Idk some folk just wanna be offended by something even if it's as something not a big deal imo as mentioning that a particular character in a single audio rp is a particular color of skin Just my thoughts And keep up the high quality work and hold your head high

Dr.Reaper

Its a shame ppl just can't enjoy your content and be happy with with what you give us. Your loyal fans appreciate you regardless of the criticism from the stupidity of other jerks out there. I personally love your content and hope you keep giving us banger audios as you always do!

Deeno

The sheer irony of people calling “racism!!” while they themselves are being racist AF. I’ve NEVER seen this kind of backlash, plenty of OF creators do “BBC dildo” content. Sounds more like some white incel losers got fragile. 🥲 You do you!

Matt Andre

Dear Lina, I am really sorry you had to endure this amount of stupid, vulgar, pointless insults. I am sure you did your best, and I would not believe not even for a second that you are racist or you want to gain attention. I love your works and I give you my support. I know being the good person sucks, it's ok to react at those insults, just don't let them make you feel less than what you are. You are great and those people don't deserve a second of your much more precious time or care. Keep on doing, girl, you are awesome 😊

Marco Afruni

I'm so glad to hear you're blocking them. Some people are so insecure, small, and stupid. You don't need them in your life and they certainly don't deserve to enjoy your content. You are amazing and I think you served a kink that's common enough, and did a great job with it. Don't ever stop being you, Lina 🤍

Charli

I feel sad that you have to explain yourself like this but I guess I understand. I’ve got nothing but love for you and I hope you don’t let these nasty comments get to you ❤️

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