His Man 2 Episode 7 (Full Reaction)
Added 2023-07-12 13:17:41 +0000 UTC
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šš it bothered me so much! Haha but I guess they were all just comfortable with each other lol -Brian
BL Besties TV
2024-02-01 15:06:28 +0000 UTCš¤£š¤£ i understand the feeling of people getting into my bed but i āpermitā some though hahahaha but i like how u both got different opinions
vz
2024-02-01 12:15:52 +0000 UTCThe thing with Seungho is that he hasnāt done anything to lead anyone on like Seonwoo has. Seungho has been clear about being interested in two people, and heās even expressed to Junsung that heās considering Seonwoo as well. Seonwoo does things that can be read as flirting or making a move, knowing full well that those men are interested in him. For me, it just doesnāt seem right to treat people like that unless youāre sure of how you feel about them. The way heās being portrayed in the show gives me the feeling that he just likes the feeling of knowing that people like him, even if heās not even interested in them. It seems like he flirts with them to get them to keep liking them, even though heās not even sure heās even interested in them. But thatās just what Iām getting from it. I understand that others might not read it that way. His behavior is inconsistent, which triggers my trust issues. He says one thing and then does another. I think itās perfectly fine to want to get to know more people before making a decision. I just think that heās going about it recklessly and isnāt being considerate of peopleās feelings, which is why he rubs me the wrong way. Maybe Iām personally just biased because Iāve been lead on and treated that way in the past, only to be let down and heartbroken later on. So his behavior is particularly triggering for me. Again, I donāt think heās a bad person. I just think the way heās handling things is reckless. I donāt think anyoneās trying to psychologically diagnose Seonwoo. Iām just trying to point out negative patterns about his behavior that can be considered a red flag. I donāt think you have to be a specialist just to point out when someoneās behavior can be considered problematic. I do agree Junsung did go overboard when he became super possessive though. That also didnāt sit right with me. But he has otherwise been really wholesome and nice imo. Seonwoo just did a lot more things this season that I found upsetting compared to that. I did feel better about Seonwoo by episode 7 though. He actually explained himself more and even set boundaries with Yeonghee, which is what I wanted him to do in the first place. I felt like he was finally more clear about his intentions, which was a big improvement. Sometimes I feel like the show doesnāt give us the full context right away to increase the drama. I also feel like the show focuses a lot more on Seonwoo compared to everyone else in the house. So maybe thatās why his problematic behavior sticks out to people more. But I hope my impression of Seonwoo continues to improve.
BL Besties TV
2023-07-13 21:14:52 +0000 UTCI feel like if youāre judging Seonwoo because of that you should have the same energy for Seungho, who tries to sit on two chairs (itās normal in the context of the show, but I donāt get why people are only judging Seonwoo). And i think making psychological analysis of them isnāt a right thing to do if youāre not a specialist. People calling Seonwoo a red flag, but not Jungseong that is kinda obsessive. In my opinion Seonwoo is just mature and he doesnāt fall in love at first sight, he wants to know people better and then decide who to choose, thatās what he has done in this episode.
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2023-07-13 20:27:04 +0000 UTCHAHA YES YOU GET IT! T_T A bed is someone's personal space! Sitting on someone's bed is one thing, but I feel like it's a whole other thing to undo the bed and get comfy under the blankets when the owner isn't there hahah. But yeah, the owners of the beds didn't seem to mind. But if it was me I'd be a little uncomfortable with it hahah. Like if I came home and saw a friend or a family member snuggled up in my bed I'd be like what are you doing in my bed T_T haha now I feel seen and validated lolol. Oh man, I haven't even seen what people are saying about SeonWoo on social media lately, but I can imagine that there are fans who take it too far with the hate. He really gets under my skin and upsets me when we watch, but I also understand that he's not a bad person and he's not hurting people on purpose. He's operating from a place of deep insecurity which I totally understand. But the way he handles things is still not okay so I'm still gonna call it out when it doesn't seem right to me haha. Personally I've just met a lot of people like him who behave similarly and I've seen how much it can cause problems for others. I think that's why it's so triggering for me because I know how much damage it can do when you're not careful with other people's feelings. So naturally when I see those red flags it upsets me hahah.
BL Besties TV
2023-07-13 15:44:10 +0000 UTCHaha Brian! I totally thought I was the only one getting triggered by people getting into others beds when they werenāt in the room š I felt so seen/validated when you mentioned it haha I realise itās probably because I see the rooms/bed as a āpersonal spaceā. They obviously donāt mind (as I also spied minsung under Seonwooās covers a few eps ago during calls) but I could never go under the covers without asking and having them in the room, unless I was really really close with them š Also, on a side note - while I donāt agree with how extreme/cruel some people are being on social media re: SeonWoo, I can totally understand how it rubs people wrong. Each person has different boundaries and expectations so while I personally can understand SeonWoo and Minsungs mentality / actions, I also think itās completely valid for another person (such as yourself and Phillip) to not appreciate or like how they handle the situation and the actions they take. I think sometimes the audience needs to take a step back and realise that different people have different approaches, opinions, thoughts and expectations, and allow them to have their comments (although understandably calling out people who are going too far).
Chookie
2023-07-13 13:29:41 +0000 UTCMy issue is mainly with seonwoo and his tendency to do things that hurt others and lead other people on. Itās frustrating to watch cause it just doesnāt seem right to me. Itās not as simple as him just trying to get to know other people. Thatās not even the issue. Of course itās okay for contestants to want to get to know other people in the house. The issue is he does things that are very narcissistic and selfish that only serve him. And itās at the cost of others getting their feelings hurt. The fact that theyāre real people and not just characters written for a show makes it worse imo. Weāre watching real people getting hurt by someoneās irresponsible actions, so of course itās upsetting to watch. Dating shows like this are designed to make you want to root for who youād like to end up together so of course people are going to have their ships. Granted I agree that some fans take it too far. But I donāt think anythingās wrong with shipping who youāre rooting for and being frustrated and angry with people in the show for doing things that are hurtful to others. I feel that saying āitās not that deepā is really invalidating for those who are really invested in the show and are having an honest emotional reaction to what theyāre watching. I personally just get really upset when I see people do things that cause harm to others and I donāt think thereās anything wrong with that.
BL Besties TV
2023-07-13 01:42:10 +0000 UTCI think that Seowoo just has to be the center of attention and is still narcissistic.
Cindy Bowser
2023-07-12 23:01:35 +0000 UTCi dont know... like its not that deep. this is just a dating show. like people seem to forget that those people arent characters from a series that you can just ship and\or dislike. can you imagine how some of them are feeling right now, reading all the hate theyre receiving on social media for small things they are doing? all the overanalyzing of what they are saying or doing.... thats why i could never be in a reality/dating show. i know id end up being destroyed by people on social media because i have no filter.
Claudia
2023-07-12 23:00:29 +0000 UTCI donāt get the hate towards contestants that just trying to know better more than one person, itās a literally a dating show
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2023-07-12 19:22:13 +0000 UTCMinseong is totally annoying me because I get that he's a bit confused, but Hyungjun is only going to move forward so much before he gets dismayed because he feels like every time he puts himself out there he gets nothing from it you know? He even said he's nervous about showing his feelings b/c he's had bad experiences from it. Minseong's gotta reciprocate at certain points where it counts (phone calls and letters and voice messages) or Hyungjun will get even more confused. Not that he wasn't already lol. They're both a mess but I'm still rooting for them. I hope they communicate a little better. I'm loving all the communication (minus MS and HJun) in this episode. It's a little difficult to keep everything straight since soooooo much talking went on here, but it was necessary and everyone pretty much knows what they need to to make their next decision. I want Junseong and Sungho to have a date sooooooooooooooooooooo bad. Their chemistry keeps building. The amount of times I squealed this episode b/c of them being all domestic.....I'm actually embarrassed lol. They've got that practiced ease already of living together and I think if they just get the chance to go on a proper date Junseong MIGHT be able to sway Sungho more towards his side.
kisa1909
2023-07-12 18:04:31 +0000 UTC
