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AMA: Skitty Gives Shitty Life & Relationship Advice [47:30]
Added 2020-08-27 04:26:03 +0000 UTCI asked patrons for "Dear Skitty" questions a few months back and recorded this ramble in July. This AMA will be public since I don't know if the people who submitted questions are still patrons. I hope you enjoy this very long ramble with plenty of "ums" and "ahs".
tl;dr answer to all your relationship problems... Sit down and talk to your partner! :)
PS. Everyone has their own unique experiences and life circumstances. So please, don't take my advice as the be-all and end-all.
QUESTIONS:
02:10 How do you practice safe hand-holding?
04:10 Have you ever had any self-esteem or self-confidence issues?
07:20 What do you do in the "in between" period of losing a friend… a crush?
12:50 How do you recover from pulling all-nighter?
14:35 Should you use Tinder to search for a long-term relationship?
15:35 Where is the most sensitive spot?
16:55 How do you feel about toys?
17:25 Grapefruit for blowjobs?
18:19 How do you introduce a partner to sexy audios?
20:55 Big dick problems. Do you need to worry about it?
25:47 How do you go down on a girl?
28:27 Clean up after cumming in/on someone?
29:50 What is most comfortable sex position?
30:53 How do you overcome nervousness and performance anxiety in bed?
34:40 Do you have to talk about past sexual relationships?
37:24 Any advice for someone shopping for their first toy?
38:45 What to do when you fall in love with someone you can’t be with?
39:22 When do you know it’s over with a partner? Is it worth keeping?
40:50 Is prepping for roleplays not sexy because it lacks spontaneity?
43:10 … Skitty is totally lost on this last question. Sorry, I am confused.
Too shy to comment or critique? I'll close my eyes... Feedback for Skitty
Comments
Dry hands > Sweaty hands (coming from a chronic sweatypalm supersadaboutit person)
Qwafee
2020-09-04 18:16:41 +0000 UTCThe real way to practice safe hand holding is to wear condoms on all 5 fingers. :D
Jason Fetzer
2020-08-30 17:22:18 +0000 UTCI'd make a very bad sex therapist. Not enough experience. But I love hearing stories and experiences from my other friends. I'm an information sponge :3
SkittyKat
2020-08-29 18:12:07 +0000 UTC<3
SkittyKat
2020-08-29 18:10:42 +0000 UTCGrapefruit... your dick is gonna burrrrrrn.
SkittyKat
2020-08-29 18:10:37 +0000 UTCThat's a very good comment. I feel like for every question, my answer is really, "it depends on the girl" lol :)
SkittyKat
2020-08-29 18:10:14 +0000 UTCAll I hear is that you're the be-all, end-all of relationship/life advice :p Surround sound advice? I dig it. We may be degenerates, but we're your degenerates. Skitty's degenerates. Self esteem/Self confidence issues. That's a big hill to get over. Everyone's different, and some situations you'll be the most confident, others you won't. I wish I could be one to give advice on this, but I've got my own issues to deal with that I don't know how to overcome them. Nothing too bad, but can be worked on. I agree with Skitty on it :) Question 3. Move forward. I think that's the best advice, from my perspective. When things don't work out, move forward, since this stop didn't work for you, maybe the next one will. Plus "better" yourself, or be seen by more, to have a better pool for the next person in your life. Just from hearing Skitty's response, I wanna be her friend. Just you sound like a great person to talk with, and you sound open minded about stuff. Plus, with enough randomness to forever be entertaining :p Straight for the heart, stab stab. Love it lol ASMRtist sounds cool. Picturing you figuring out 8 inches, "Like that?". You're sitting there motioning to your audio capture, the hands apart thing lol. Parental advice on giving face? That sounds like a comedy. 3rd person embarassment there lol For the going down thing, I'd assume getting feedback is good. Cummy bed? Sounds like a fetish. Skitty flop lol I kinda want Skitty sex therapist now. Too big toy LOL I remember that audio, the aftermath of it. The internet is your best friend when looking online for sex toys. Reddit alone is awesome. It's what I did, looked online via Reddit, got tons of info and it helped make the good choice. Sex shop workers might not be the best to ask the advice for, my friend use to work at one and he was a tad trolly sometimes. He admits it now, he gives better advice now, amongst friends, but back then, he was a dick. I think he stated "I haven't tried everything in the store, but there's a high chance I'll just direct people to the fist dildo section" Offtopic....sorta. I read something online that hits amazingly for everyone. "Don't make fun of someone who mispronounced a word, it means they read it in a book". I thought this with the "improvisation" pronouncing. I have a friend that occasionally pokes fun when I say a word wrong, since I've never used it.....fucking "tapestry" That is a huge bit of wow, for that last one. There was a jumble of words and situations, with no focus. I'm thinking they mean "does you're experience change your sex experiences, does it null it or enhance it?" But I dunno, I'm just a guy. Was that a double Skitty flop audio? 10 stars Lurv you too....you know, anonymously, via the internet <3 So that's my TedEx talk about my summary of a Skitty sex advice/ramble, and my interpretation of a few key points. Good night, and be excellent to each other.
Da_robblar
2020-08-28 00:18:28 +0000 UTCThanks.
KaiserKei
2020-08-27 22:22:23 +0000 UTCI have a Tinder profile... but only for lurking, hehehe. Fun ramble. :) Some questions were mood and I got to know a few new things!... I gotta check out the grapefruit BJ.
Mishaak
2020-08-27 22:12:16 +0000 UTCYou say you’re giving shitty advice skitty but Communication is literally the key to every relationship. The sexy stuff I wouldn’t know to much about I haven’t gotten past 3rd base but you did make it clear to me that it isn’t about pleasuring “a” woman but “the” woman
JDLGBOYZ21
2020-08-27 19:16:40 +0000 UTCAww, thank you Anya :3
SkittyKat
2020-08-27 16:18:44 +0000 UTCIf it's the relationship/sex stuff... it really just boils down to communication. Cheesy but it works :3
SkittyKat
2020-08-27 16:18:25 +0000 UTCMy advice is so boring, it lulled you to sleep! lolol :D I tease. I hope you got a good night's rest <3
SkittyKat
2020-08-27 16:16:55 +0000 UTCSo that was you vrooming through my 'hood, huh? lol
SkittyKat
2020-08-27 16:15:42 +0000 UTChehe I like the advice I don't think it's shitty :)
Anya Twerk
2020-08-27 11:27:14 +0000 UTCI can't relate to the majority of the questions but it's stuff to consider in the future i guess, lol. *pat pat* Rest well, Skitty. :3
Jordan
2020-08-27 10:51:37 +0000 UTCThank you Skitty, your AMA’s help me relax before bed
Kino
2020-08-27 08:16:20 +0000 UTCLmao @27:20 must’ve been one of my friends or me 🤣🤣
Eddy
2020-08-27 07:29:05 +0000 UTC
