Haein had a miscarriage and women usually blame themselves. They have these kind of thoughts in their heads with "What did i do wrong" and especially with "What if's". So most think they weren't strong enough to protect the baby. Carrying a pregnancy can be stressful and imagine you lost your baby and your partner left you all alone. I understand both sides but the woman needed support and understanding in this kind of situation because she was the one who experienced the physical and emotional toll of the pregnancy and loss.