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PATREON EXCLUSIVE (Full Video): Men don't want 'experienced' women

PATREON EXCLUSIVE (Full Video): Men don't want 'experienced' women

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@RhodiumMaiden - Seems like she really showed you! 😂

Joseph Omega

@JO I had no idea she’d blocked me, lol.

RhodiumMaiden

@EC - I don’t expect to change your mind. All I expect is for you to understand men and the difference in how we see things. You say that men are afraid women will change their mind about their loyalty; but when we hear you say that, it makes no sense. To men, you can’t change your mind about loyalty. Loyalty is not based on emotions with men. Buying flowers has nothing to do with loyalty. I wonder if your sister ever told her husband that he broke her heart by not buying flowers anymore. Communication. The reason could be many things. He may have stopped because she stopped doing something. It may be that he could no longer afford it with them living together and combining finances. It could be it was getting old to him, and he was doing something new, and thought the new thing was better. If my wife told me I wasn’t doing something she enjoyed anymore, I would listen to her concern, and we would resolve the issue. You don’t always know you are hurting someone if there is no communication about it.

Eric Linden

@E C - Another suprisingly balanced, empathic and well written response! Bravo again! Though I WOULD have preferred you to have taken a better stab at EXPLICITLY rewriting your original assertion that begins: "If a man treats a woman right she will always love him ...", I know that, in what Alexander likes to call "womanese", you PROBABLY think you somehow DID. But rather than undercut your OBVIOUSLY valiant feminine attempt, let me simply illustrate what I was looking for (with a little help from my oracle friend -- who I kinda asked to read my mind): https://chatgpt.com/share/66f77b46-b2bc-800a-93e4-60da94ac6bdc If you TRULY understand the general technique, you should be able to easily apply it to any assertion in order to manifest "Intellectual Humility". PS. Do you know if there was anything that your late sister SIMULTANEOUSLY stopped doing that may have potentially broken HER husband's heart, and that felt (to him) as if she had stopped being romantic? Yes, this scenario IS all too frequent, and all too sad.

Joseph Omega

@Eric Linden - And almost as many wives thinking that their husband had the same definition of LOYALTY. ¯\(ツ)/¯ Go figure.

Joseph Omega

@Joseph & @EC - Now you are getting somewhere. And you’re staying on the original topic of the post! So proud of you. To think, so many husbands go to their DEATH thinking their wife had the same definition of LOVE.

Eric Linden

@E C - Good. And can you now (as you must have seen me do VERY often), turn it ALL around and CONVINCINGLY create the complementary INVERSE point of view and sentiment? Hint: Replace all instances of "men/man/male" with "women/woman/female" and vice versa? And think about the complementary INVERSE (NOT the "opposite") words that would make as passionate an argument from the male point of view? If successful, you may find yourself tending to strongly empathize with the way males feel. Try to do your very best to be convincing. It may take a few tries, but it's worth it.

Joseph Omega

@E C - I'm not sure how you came to that particular conclusion, but I asked because I'd hoped your answer would trigger a realization: That men tend (and are prepared) to be far FAR more committed (in the classical sense) than women. Again, an illustration of men's approach of loyalty to OTHERS, and women's as "loyalty" to their FEELINGS. I believe I can deduce how women view men, but can YOU then guess how men would view women in this regard?

Joseph Omega

@E C - Good, now read my mind as to WHY I asked.

Joseph Omega

@E C - Multiple choice -- choose your preferred wedding vows: 1. "To have and to hold, until DEATH do us part" 2. "To have and to hold, until LOVE do us part" After you have made your choice and BEFORE responding again, go back and re-read the context under which the question was posed.

Joseph Omega

E C - Oy vey ... 🤦‍♂️ Just in case you're not just playing coy again, the question was: "So, ' ... till LOVE do us part'?" (would be your slogan/vows?)

Joseph Omega

@E C - My point exactly.

Joseph Omega

@E C - Perhaps you need to watch Alexander's new video.

Joseph Omega

@E C - Ah, when a man's self-reliance works to his disadvantage.

Joseph Omega

@RhodiumMaiden - All you say is perfectly consistent with male psychology -- I don't think your late husband was an outlier: Both males (AND females, I imagine) enjoy being compared to LESSER candidates. BTW, just in case you don't already know, @E C has just indicated that she UNBLOCKED you, for what it's worth.

Joseph Omega

@E C - Do you regret not having the patience?

Joseph Omega

@E C - I suspect we're WAAAY past that. 😄 Still, my question was a serious one: Can you guess my meaning and why I asked?

Joseph Omega

@EC - Thanks for the late reply!

Eric Linden

@E C - indeed. So, " ... till 'love' do us part"?

Joseph Omega

@E C - I notice you did not answer @Eric Linden's question.

Joseph Omega

That mantra applies in so many ways. Penis size...techniques...etc etc

Mark Bryski

Absolutely and when it comes to sex with women....if you ain't first...your last.

Mark Bryski

Yeah it is far from ideal.

RhodiumMaiden

So bad this Patreon app. No measure to save last video seen.

Tord Pettersson

First of all, everything is relative. Being the most desired man by a woman with a low body count is relatively the same as with a more experienced woman. On the flip side, being the second most desired man by a woman with a low body count can be equally disappointing as with a more experienced woman. That being said, common sense tells us we have a better chance of being “the one” with the less experienced woman.

Mark Bryski

The emotional and intellectual connection needs to be greater. Nobody wants to feel less important or less valuable than a previous partner.

Eric Linden

The culture tells us that men just want sex and women want love. But this video tells us something different. A man really does want to love and be loved. He wants to pair bond. What is love to a woman? Is it really the same thing?

Eric Linden

And we don't want disagreeable, disrespectful women... bedfellows of the bitterness and broken value system commonly displayed by low quality, 'experienced' women.

MB

Latvia?

Eric Linden

Country abbreviation

Nick

My late husband actually enjoyed hearing about my prior crushes & my one prior BF - but maybe that was partly because my husband was my first sexual partner? I think he was also just an outlier. Other men I’ve dated definitely don’t enjoy hearing about my past experiences. I like hearing non- sexual details about past relationships but nothing explicit.

RhodiumMaiden

💯

RhodiumMaiden

What’s LV?

RhodiumMaiden

Another missed opportunity to engage in a good faith discussion… a missed opportunity to show genuine curiosity a missed opportunity to show empathy…. a missed opportunity to allow another person to feel safe enough in that moment to share of themselves who they honestly are and what motivates them in that moment. A missed opportunity to listen…..a missed opportunity to connect…. Instead, you have again chosen violence You are still on your journey Eh? And that’s okay, I guess…I’m going to be charitable and say “ a hurt heart rarely speaks kindly “ Consider the following videos , https://youtu.be/k-J9BVBjK3o?si=6hCWZiTGIZ3f68pv Emotional maturity Or https://youtu.be/l4IeNGE2qX8?si=fab_YtwmjiXBbHvB How to keep growing up Or https://youtu.be/l4IeNGE2qX8?si=fab_YtwmjiXBbHvB Being an adult Or the channel Jimmy on relationships

Peter

Weird how the love making sessions get shorter as we get older or further into a relationship, but they are actually better.

Eric Linden

It's also really good that you mentioned that woman like to be provoked to then be converted to sexual expirience. Its most common thing for the reason to stop being "nice guy". Understanding woman psychology and attraction is crucial part I missed a lot in life. I like that content come to me naturally as I came back to dating market.

Nick

Also I had 20 partners overall in my life with average age of 30. My longest relations was 2 years and went pretty normal, I loved her, girl was virgin in the beginning. Detached because of her friends and physical distance.. However best sexual expirience was with 40 and 50 year old wemen also with very trustfull and deep psychologically interesting expiriencea, nice dynamic in discussions.

Nick

Unexperienced woman are very easy to traumatise, trigger avoidance or just inability to understand male emotions. I don't really want girls under my age (I'm 26, LV, bachelor in business and massage therapist, full family) most of the time they are complected with trust issues so strong you can't do anything without spending extreme amount of time and money to go for something I'd like to do in my life. And it's common that they make an amount twice of what I do.

Nick

If we go to Paris, I don’t want to hear you’ve already been there 10 times with 10 other guys.

Eric Linden

Huck Too Ha!

Peter


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