The Clubhouse Podcast #95 | Topics Thread
Added 2020-10-20 00:34:14 +0000 UTCHello, you sweet vintage lads!
You guys know the drill, in this thread leave any life advice, stories, or interesting topics (Preferably NOT gaming related, as we have AAP as our gaming podcast). And we respond to those and have a laugh.
The only difference now is that James and I will be sifting through the topics and choosing those we feel most relevant, entertaining and/or topics we have not responded to before/recently.
I hope you are all staying safe and well out there in your corners of the globe. Can't wait for another Clubhouse! See you Monday next week - Tyler
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Hey lads, sorry for the late topic and sorry James for dragging out your torment, but hey-ho it's an interesting topic. So as you're both aware by now, I've moved into university accommodation recently. It's been pretty good, all my flatmates are sound and all, except we've got an issue. One of my flatmates, Tom, is super into another flatmate called Molly. Like, super into. This dude has been pining for her since day 1, clinging to her like a limpet to a rock. She's rarely found without him and he doesn't stay in the kitchen with us more than 15 minutes after she goes to bed. Now up until yesterday, this guy was in a two year relationship. He broke up with her because he simply wasn't happy, but he also definitely had Millie on his mind when he did it. Now he's single and has the opportunity to act on these feelings. I severely doubt she has these feelings back. She's 20 and he's 18 going on 16 in terms of emotional maturity. I get the feeling he's got a pretty big "I love you...like a little brother" coming his way, but I could be wrong. There's a first time for everything after all So I'm asking you guys on his behalf (I've slipped into the role of flat advisor and he's entrusted all of this to me, although it's also pretty obvious he has feelings for her), what do you think he should do? As far as I can see, there are 3 outcomes: 1. She rejects him and then its incredibly awkward around the flat and between those two, who have a genuinely really good friendship as well 2. She likes him back, which would really surprise me, but I guess it's possible. If that happens I wouldn't give it long at all, I'd bet they'd break up soon and then it'd be even more awkward. 3. He doesn't tell her and keeps it inside. However, that's gonna eat him up as he can't avoid her. They literally live together, he's going to be constantly around a reminder of his feelings. As you can see there's no easy way out, as far as I can see. Thought I'd see what you lads think, either other options or a preferred one? Sorry if this is long, I'm trying to condense 1 month's info into something readable Thanks a lot guys, congrats on the 300 milestone and have a great day!
FuriousCoco
2020-10-26 00:32:37 +0000 UTCHello lads, hope you're both doing well and Tyler I hope your voice is doing better as well lad. I'm back again with another story, unfortunately, and this time I do need some help because I am stumped on what to do. Well obviously this is about the Witch, she did some mad things last week... Right where else better to start, than the beginning. I came into college feeling like shit because my dumbass decided to stay up all night just so I could finish a couple pieces of work. I met up with my mate Anthony and we went to Tesco to buy some food. On our way out of the Tesco we walked past the Witch... Me being as sleep deprived as I was I didn't notice her but she as per usual tapped me on the shoulder and asked "Why did you ignore me when I waved?" I really couldn't be arsed to do anything so I just walked away. I was about to down to College but then she got in front of me and kept asking me what she did wrong. Anthony was about to move her out of the way so we could get to college, but I stopped him. I asked "You don't know?" to which she nodded her head. I then proceeded to list absolutely everything she did that has pissed me off. From the gay best friend thing, to trying to kiss me and so much more. She just stood there upset and she said "I'm sorry I never knew that upset you, I'll stop, can we be friends again please?" Honestly this was a bit forward and without thinking I just said "We were never friends in the first place." and walked away. Everything was fine up until college ended. I was walking down to the train station and she was there. She usually catches the bus so I was a bit confused but I ignored it. She then came up to me asking what train I was catching, I just stayed quiet and put my headphones in. She then took them out of my ear and just kept apologising about what she had done. I just ignored her then she said something fucked. She said "Jas I swear to god I will jump into the tracks if you keep ignoring me!" and obviously I thought she was bluffing, but then she proceeded to walk over to the tracks and climb down on to them. The 2/3 people there were looking at me and her and I was so uncomfortable so I quickly ran over to her and dragged her away from the tracks. I asked her what in the fuck she was thinking and she just responded with "Ok, now you'll listen" She then just rambled on about some crap I wasn't listening to and then I saw my train in the distance so I just said "Look, I barely know you and what you've done isn't really selling me on the idea." She just asked what she could od to make it up to me and I just looked at her and said "If you leave me alone for the rest of college, that'd be great." I gave her a thumbs up and got on my train as she just stood there. Now I wish this was the end of it for that day but an hour or two later she messaged me on instagram. Now bear in mind she didn't know this instagram account was real as it was just created a week or two back. I have no clue who gave it to her but holy shit was I angry. She messaged me asking for forgiveness yet again. I just blocked her, but then she made another account and did the same. And then she did it again. And again. And again. After a while she finally stopped, but again, that's not the end. The next day I came in and one of friends came up to me and just said "Thanks for forgiving Kareena, she was really upset" Now this took me completely off guard and I told her "I haven't forgiven her about anything, what the fuck are you talking about?" Well apparently the Witch has been going around and telling her friends that I forgave her, which I obviously have not. This only continued to escalate as on my Lunch Break she came up to me yet again and just kept asking me to forgive her. I just ignored her again and went on about my day. She kept following me around to the point I went to class 20 minutes early. The next day was the same but then I told her if she meets me at the Costa down the road I'd speak to her. Obviously I didn't go, I went down to the one place she'd never look, the local spoons. I did feel bad but my mates assured me that at this point it was a rational response. So boys, I really need some help on this one. Do I forgive her? But surely that'd make the whole thing worse. Should I tell someone at college that this girl is harassing me? I'm stuck and honestly I'm beginning to hate coming into college now. I've got half term this week so I have a week to recover from this shit but I am really nervous about what's gonna happen when we come back. Please lads, anything would help at this point. Hope you're all doing well, looking forward to hearing Season 2, Episode 1 from Hammid and I hope that James hasn't killed himself from looking through all the crap topics. Have a great modern day lads. (Also sorry about how fucking huge this topic is lmao) Jas x
Jas Notta
2020-10-24 17:11:00 +0000 UTC
