The Clubhouse Podcast #79 | Topics Thread
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Hey boys, this is gonna be a follow up from the story regarding my mate Sam. I've been trying to write this up all week but this whole situation has consumed my life for the past two weeks and it's exhausted me to the core. This is also going to be written slightly drunk, as I'm currently in a quiet room of a house party, so my apologies if it's a tad rambly, long etc. So as we've established last week, my mate Sam really liked this girl Ellie. He got rejected by her last story, and went into a little episode. However, somehow he managed to convince another girl to get with him and he got himself a girlfriend. I'm not sure if you remember, but a while back I posted a topic about a mate who got super into self help shit, but to the point where he became a living facade. That was actually about Sam, and whilst he dropped all the self help shit, he retained some traits such as being image-obsessed, doing things purely to look a certain way. Personally, I think that's how he got this girl, as he was in a class with her where nobody knew him, and thus he could perfectly control this veneer and make himself appear charismatic and confident despite not being. Flash forward two weeks later, and Alfie hosts a party, pretty much with the sole intent of allowing Sam to lose his virginity as his own place is always messy, and her family wouldn't allow Sam over. Alfie's family are doing a wine tasting session in his lounge during this(because of course they are, middle class as fuck), so we're relegated to half of the house until they go to sleep. The spare room that Sam is meant to be using with this girl is above the lounge, on a mezzanine. Thus, Sam has to wait until Alfie's parents go to sleep to get laid. So naturally, he spends the whole night bugging Alfie asking when his parents are fucking off to bed, which slowly winds Alfie up. They also keep trying to sneak off to the room, and Alfie has to keep pulling them back, and it's taking its toll on him. Eventually, though, they do end up leaving and Sam and his girlfriend immediately go upstairs for about two minutes before he comes downstairs a victorious man. Alfie goes up to remake the bed etc and finds the used condom laying there in the middle of the bed, like some sort of a trophy. It was obscene and kind of annoyed me, that Alfie would inconvenience his family and himself for this guys benefit, and then he'd treat it with such blatant disrespect. He also ended up fingering her on his sisters bed which Alfie asked them not to do, so there's that. Whilst Alfie and I were annoyed, we were fine to brush it under the rug with a "Don't be a cunt again", as I figured he was on a high after losing it, which is understandable enough. Then last week, my mate James ended up hosting, but I guess I can call him Jim to avoid confusion. So Sam once again has his girlfriend over, and goes upstairs with her to Jim's brothers room pretty fast. He ended up tearing her hymen and then after finishing, leaving her up there to deal with it herself without a word. She's apparently in a fair bit of pain, and also has to come downstairs and tell us what happened, which is pretty embarrassing for her I'm sure as obviously the sheets then need washing etc. Sam leaves everybody else to clean up of course, and instead decided to go around talking about how fit Ellie is, how she's literally perfect and he also ends up re-confessing his love for her. This time she's a lot more curt with him and basically says that this isn't fair on his girlfriend and that he's being a prick. Following this, he gets incredibly aggressive with everybody, fights myself and Jim and then ends up just walking around this white carpeted house trailing mud and cigarette ash/smoke throughout. At this stage, the group decides we've had enough and this can't continue. This isn't the first time we've talked to him about this kind of thing, and he's simply unwilling to see how his actions may impact other people. Therefore, we decide that following this, we've got to cut him off and not have him about in the group anymore, and I'm nominated group executioner, so to speak. We arrange to meet at his after college on Tuesday and I explain to him. Initially he's angry but he sort of becomes more resigned and bitter/upset the more he realises its a reality. I know I'm meant to be a stone-cold sociopath and all that, but that was honestly one of the hardest things I've ever had to do, just utterly crushing. Ultimately, the advice portion boils down to the question of whether or not we, or I, did the right thing. I'm feeling pretty reassured in my position and a few purple outside of the group have agreed, but I'd be interested to hear this new perspective. Sorry if this is stupidly long, I've tried very hard to keep it to the bare essentials and to exclude any subplots, but it's a complex situation and needs to be done enough justice. Thanks for this gamers, and have a great modern day!
FuriousCoco
2020-03-15 03:11:19 +0000 UTCHello Gamer Men, hope all is well. I don’t really need advice as such but I’m heading off to my first fight next week with a couple of the boys - a friend of a friend is fighting and I’m just wondering what to expect from the night out. I basically know nothing about this kind of thing, just thought I’d give it a go - good to try new things right? He mentioned his friend is a lesbian so I imagine it’s just girls fighting, but I really don’t know. Do I cheer if a man jumps in the ring and starts beating her up? Who knows. I guess this stems from that convo about anxiety and I guess I’m a little nervous about how to behave at this thing. Thanks a bunch - James I’ve been enjoying listening to the streams recently where I work at the hospital. It’s keeping me distracted from the coronavirus ward being right next to our department. Woohoo. Remember to wash your hands Sweet Vintage Lads, you need them to game - Layla out.
Harry Alexander
2020-03-14 08:16:35 +0000 UTC
