Morning Chats Vol.8 Errol Spence Takes On TOXIC FEMININITY?! pt.2

Me and my father fell out, my only regret was we broke contact sooner. I never needed my father in my life because he was a hateful and envious men who never loved or could. I will say this I now understand why Black men hate their sons and other Black men now that I am older. I really only see the petty jealous, envy and hate in Blacks born in the USA because I am a so called "American" Black male. I wish I had no contact with my father soon. 1 year before my father died I had a dream about him in which the Most High revealed to me how I missed my destiny by not listening to my Baseball coaches and other men who had more love for me than my father. My father had no excuse for the way he behaved and the Most High will deal with him brutally in the afterlife.

Thank you for sharing.

ThePartedSea

Indeed

Joseph Berry

This was a very good lesson. I had to learn many years ago that I had to forgive my Father for the things he did, or didn’t do. Because my Father didn’t invite me to his wedding, and didn’t have much contact with me when we made amends, I became petty, and acted like a woman. For a 10 year period, I had no father figure to lean on, and during those 10 years away from my Father, and going back and forth with with my Mother, my marriage eroded, and I was misguided poor excuse of a man that thought he knew it all in my 30’s! The Most High for some strange reason kept his hand on me, and drew me towards the Truth and Knowledge, and slowly worked on me. Before I left the Police Department some years back, I looked up my Father’s Driver’s License, and got his address. On a whim one day unannounced, I showed up and left my number with my baby brother. Since that day, we made amends, and I apologized for my faults, but my Father told me there was no need, and revealed to me things I didn’t even knew he had endured as a child. Abuse, lack of a Father, poor upbringing, abandonment, and Wartime PTSD from Saigon. He was taking therapy and by the Most High bringing me back into his life and I got to meet my Stepmother, he finally got the closure he was seeking. My Mother and I fell out as well, and when the Most High brought us back together, she revealed also that she endured some heinous things as a child and as an adult. I was so angry that they both had troubled childhoods and were taken advantage of at a moment when their parents couldn’t protect them… it scared them badly and that affected how they raised me even though they were divorced. Since I have forgiven my parents and honor them, they have learned to treat me as a man in my 40’s, and understand that I was hurt and confused from their actions as young parents. My Mother is now finally coming into the Knowledge, but my Father being an Elder holds fast to the Christian Church. Nonetheless, I honor and respect them both, and the Most High has truly blessed me in the process. I hope this reflection helps someone within this community, Peace!

The Scepter Of Judah

20:20 what you said reminded me of Godfather with the Michael and Vito situation at the beginning

Execellent video

I'm not sure if you've done a video on leaving the corporate world; if you haven't it would be a great idea to maybe even make it a series. Brothers need to be told constantly that they do not belong there. I haven't seen Tariq Nasheed's film "Buck Breaking", but I think the corporate world is designed to take us through the modern Buck Breaking ritual. There is no manhood or masculinity allowed whatsoever, if you show it then you'll get constantly "disciplined"; which is supposed to break you. You literally have to make your boss an idol and make them feel superior to you when usually you're superior to them, and they know it. The corporate bosses are extremely insecure and need constant undue praise and worship for them to feel comfortable and competent. I think the corporate world and getting a liberal female pregnant are tied for the worst situation a brother can be in nowadays.

King Des

Those cards are some of the most disrespectful things I've ever seen. It's only coming from our women towards us. Other women don't do that to their men and our women don't do that with other men......I cringe everytime I see these young boys surrounded by older women and older sisters. They are going through extreme hell and don't even realize it......I can't wait for these curses to come off us and onto our enemies.

King Des

Yeah, moving alright. Moving backwards.

Thanks. Its not her beliefs that's the problem, she just doesn't apply everything she knows. Double standard. She can tell somebody who has mental issues they need help but for some reason that doesn't apply to her but ty. I pray me and both my brothers just deal wisely with her. She can and has done a lot of damage to our reputations when she's upset. It is what it is...

Incognero (g)

Yeah I think a lot of us who are in the knowledge or coming into the knowledge have a tough time dealing with “old school” parents who come from that southern Baptist/ Christian church upbringing it’s tough finding that balance between respecting where their at with that stuff and what the Bible really says and that’s not even getting into the little stuff that parents and young adult children get into it over anyway I hope your brother and mother are able to find a happy medium

John Davis

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Raw Tasian

Smh. So much destruction. I wish there were words to say to her that would heal her thought process but our mom refuses to even see a therapist. She said she just needs to pray and study the Bible more lol. Does not the scriptures say the ailing seek a physician? She know she crazy!

Incognero (g)

That mother to son mind manipulation is SO REAL. My father would let our younger sister of 5yrs totally run amuck in our household with me, fraternal twin brother and my mom. He constantly made excuses for her behavior all the way till HS and as she got older she became more and more disrespectful to the point now that she has 2 innocent children with a jailbird that she's been chasing since her 20's and has no man. She also has that spirit of being a hater and a manipulator just to get her way because my father babied her and never could put his foot down with her and say NO. Saying all that to say, I know what you mean about that evironment regarding your brother because I see my own brother is going through that with my sister regarding my niece and nephew with the guilt trips and disrepect and toxic behavior she projects on to him and he allowed it up until a few years ago when he started to realize that no matter what he said or did for her, she never appreciated it.

What’s the other channel?

I wish I could show this to my brother. He's older but is going through things with our mom I went through years ago while establishing boundaries with her. She like you you mentioned, uses "respect" in exchange for worship and have us trying to figure out what we did that was disrespectful. Now he recently got into an argument with her on the phone and hung up on her (like our dad used to) he apologized but she was still mad. I asked him what they argued about, he said she was mad he met with his future father in law to settle some bs. And the guy Apologized. I asked how she found out he met alone with that man and the jigga tells me, "I told her." LOL. Why did you do that...

Incognero (g)

"There's nothing worse than a dumb-ass parent." The realest spoken words. Be careful where you plant your seed and who you pick to be your seed's mother! If the soil is bad, the seed will likely grow bad.

Having loving parents is amazing. I love the fact that my parents love me and still pray for my success even in my adulthood. My mom and dad and their loveless is irreplaceable, only the Most High’s love is more important to me than their’s, loving parents are a very special thing