Why I'll Never Cultivate My Submission
Added 2024-12-15 17:14:27 +0000 UTCIf you want to be a submissive, you must cultivate deference with these seven yoga exercises, this obedience class, and this daily writing task. Do them, and the movements of your body and pen will enhance the compliance of your mind. You will learn to tolerate all the things you despise about D/s. So says a particular niche of knink, anyway, but I’m allergic to piousness in all its forms. I won't be training myself to be one iota more subly than I am already. I don't want to invite morality into my kinky sex, so if you require me to provide deference so extreme I have to practice it daily, you’d best click into the next profile.
I’m passionate about power exchange, but I’m passionate about chocolate, too, and I don’t work at developing a preference for orange or ginger slabs. I don’t see a reason to develop tastes that feel unnatural to me. I’m okay with the fact that I don't like every flavour. I do not require depth to let a block of Lindt melt in my mouth, and I don’t require depth of my submission because it’s sex, and sex is fun. It isn't my life’s philosophy.
I’ve had a 24/7 dynamic before, and I was as impossible as a puppy with a ball. I ran in every direction, and my dominant expected nothing different from me. We approached D/s with an attitude of lightness and a sense of humour. He won my submission by appealing to my organic self--the one with the stains and the tears and the frailties. He didn’t ask me to erase those stains. He loved them more than any man ever had, which is why he got my submission.
I’ll settle for that kind of power exchange because it’s authentic; because it appeals to my nature all the way down to my very cells; because it lets me love in ways that only I can.
