Are you a sub or are you a walking imitation of someone else’s fantasies?
Added 2023-12-20 07:39:21 +0000 UTCAre you a sub or are you a walking imitation of someone else’s fantasies? No. Don’t move onto the next sentence. Answer the question. Are you a sub or are you merely living up to someone else’s definition of submission?
Are you a sub or are you too frightened to live out your own version of D/s in case you lose someone you love?
Are you kneeling because that’s what other people do? Or is that collar a point of pride?
It’s okay to be meek and subservient if that’s what moves you. My question is… well, is it? Is this version of submission your own? Or are you living up to someone else’s expectations because you think that’s what you have to do to call yourself a sub?
If it’s the latter, this will not end well for you. Believe me. I’ve been there. It can take years to recover from that kind of relationship because coerced BDSM requires you to give up more than just your body. You must give up your identity as well, so does your submission feel oppressive? Or do you feel free? Are you unapologetically you? Or are you the shadow of someone else’s desires?
Have you agreed to all elements of your dynamic? Does it reflect your personality and desires? Do you feel cherished? Or do you feel played? Does your relationship make you feel more? Or less? Do you feel at peace?
Or are you silently screaming?
If the answer is "screaming", are you a sub? Or are you prey?
