Pretty Boy, Final News + Update
Added 2025-01-10 16:07:16 +0000 UTCThe surgeon meant to do Pretty Boy's amputation (who is exceedingly experienced and qualified, we were lucky to get her), did the final check before the procedure and determined that the cancer was both aggressive and had spread from his leg too far into his abdomen. At this point, she could take the leg and the cancer would come back in two weeks or less. We've been given a prognosis of one month, two maximum, and signs to look for when it's time.
Pretty Boy has filled our days with the sweetest, fluffiest, purest, most innocent love for twelve years, and as Tamaris' (The Wife's) cat you simply can't overstate the love and bond she has with him. Imagine the most disgustingly adoring relationship a cat and owner can have, then triple it. We've been grateful every second, and our lives were immeasurably better, kinder, and softer for the privilege of knowing him.
I was going to make a fundraising video for the remainder of his vet bills, but you can understand why that's not possible for me right now. At this moment I'm not changing my current return-to-filming date of 1/20--art and media have been a central coping mechanism of mine since childhood--but the reading livestreams will most likely be delayed. I'm gonna take it week to week, because with the past 3 1/2 months we've had and now this, there's no telling what I'll need at any given moment. So whatever I need at the time, I'll do my best to accommodate.
The final amount to be fundraised is $1,006, with the breakdown and donation links below. Any overflow will go towards a mandatory dental issue I'm having treated in a few weeks.
First Visit: $350 (treating a couple of infections, one on his leg mass that had to go down before they could test it)
Second Visit: $201 (testing the mass)
Third Visit: $157 (pre-surgery bloodwork)
Ultrasound: $866
Pain meds: $100
Final Procedure and Cremation: $332
Sub Total: $2,006
Previously Fundraised: $1,000
TOTAL: $1,006
Venmo: @britdia
For the sake of due diligence, here are screenshots of the transactions.
Comments
I’m very sorry to hear about Pretty Boy. As someone who lost my 17 year old beloved family cat in 2024, i understand the pain of the loss of such a companion. I’m sending you my love and best wishes to you and The Wife ❤️ 🫂
Mischa
2025-01-11 13:46:11 +0000 UTCAlso Brittany, I wanted to let you know that your local animal shelter may offer euthanasia and cremation for free or at cost—or even small grants for you to pay for these services, as well. My husband works at an animal shelter, and it is unfortunately extremely common that many people struggle to pay for these costs, so shelters will usually have these services available for residents in their jurisdiction for free or a lower cost…just wanted to let you know you are not alone in dealing with this, and in case you want to check!
Jennifer D
2025-01-11 13:44:12 +0000 UTCI'm so sorry to hear this for you and your wife. I will be thinking about you all during this time, sending hugs. Take all the time you need to return, I'm sure we will be here.
AngelicMouseGirl
2025-01-11 08:49:59 +0000 UTCI am so sorry about the news. But I'm really glad you had many blessed years with him. Blessings 🙏
WorldWideLove2000
2025-01-11 05:36:01 +0000 UTCI’m sorry this is the outcome after all your effort. Pretty Boy has been blessed with two moms who love him very much. No words of comfort are sufficient at a time like this. Just know you are being supported from afar and take however much time you need.
Silver
2025-01-11 05:26:56 +0000 UTCBrittany, I'm so sorry to hear this news. No amount of words will be enough to ease the pain here. Pretty Boy is truly lucky to have someone who loves him so much. Stay strong and take as much time as you need. Sending love to you, The Wife and Pretty Boy.
Ana
2025-01-11 04:38:17 +0000 UTCI'm so sorry to hear that. Please take all the time you need & don't worry about your filming. Best wishes to you, your wife & Pretty Boy ❤️
daydreamingcat
2025-01-11 04:27:47 +0000 UTCI am so sorry. I had to let go of my oldest cat right after New Years because he had cancer. It is so hard, but is the final gift you can give him. I know you will give him lots of love in whatever time he has left.
percysowner
2025-01-11 03:38:55 +0000 UTCI've always been a pretty silent viewer, but I wanna let you know that I feel for you and we all understand you taking all the time you need to spend with your precious little man.
PoorSally Stitches
2025-01-11 02:15:46 +0000 UTCI am so so sorry to hear about this news, and please take all the time you need to spend with Pretty Boy and for yourself and your wife. Losing a pet is a difficult thing to go through… our family dog just passed away this year, and visiting the parents is always bittersweet as the house just doesn’t feel the same without her presence. Many hugs and take care of yourselves too!
Jennifer D
2025-01-11 01:52:50 +0000 UTCI’m sorry. A pet passing is incredibly hard. We lost my cat Zamira to lung cancer, 10 years ago. We still talk about her and send each other photos that remind us of her.
CocoPop
2025-01-11 01:23:19 +0000 UTCI'm so sorry. I've lost cats. I foster kittens and cats and I've lpst a few, including two if my darling forever babies. It never gets easy. You just need to spend. the next however long to say goodbye. Live in the moment. Don't borrow time. It will get easier, I swear.
Dana
2025-01-10 21:08:01 +0000 UTCI’m so sorry to hear this. It’s such sad news. 🫂🫂🫂
Sophisticated Lady
2025-01-10 20:51:26 +0000 UTCThe one thing about a cancer diagnosis is that it gives you time to say goodbye, and perhaps you can find a vet who is willing to come to Pretty Boy at home. I don't know what it is about saying goodbye to a pet that makes it so specially hard, but so it is. The bond is so intense and so specific and in a way so simple. May Pretty Boy's departure be as gentle as his life has been. We will welcome you back to live streams whenever that happens.
Malsperanza
2025-01-10 20:26:45 +0000 UTCSo sad to hear this! Please send the wife hugs from us and know we’re all here thinking about you both. Please take all the time you need we will wait patiently for you. Please remember to take care of yourself 💜💜💜💜💜
Olivia Owens
2025-01-10 20:18:21 +0000 UTCI am so sorry to hear this! I'm a cat parent myself, and it's so hard to lose them. Love to both of you and to Pretty Boy ❤️
avaseofpeonies
2025-01-10 19:49:36 +0000 UTCI'm so sorry. Sending best wishes to you and your wife ❤
S
2025-01-10 19:36:45 +0000 UTCI'm so sorry to hear that, as someone who has had to part ways with their pet in one way or another i know how painfully heartbreaking the experience is. Please take your time and take care.
xialongbao
2025-01-10 19:32:02 +0000 UTCI'm so sorry to hear this news. I can relate what you and the wife are going through having gone through something similar about 6 months ago. Sending lots of hugs!
Joe Lancaster
2025-01-10 19:30:48 +0000 UTCHugs to you and Tamaris. Please take as much time as you need, and do whatever feels best for all of you.
clmoryel
2025-01-10 19:08:15 +0000 UTCOh sunshines... As someone who volunteered in catcafe and has mom and friends involved in cat rescue I know a few sad stories, it's always hard, can't imagine how it is when it's your beloved pet, and I know Pretty Boy appreciates your love and care so much. Take care of yourselves and don't feel pressured to make content, we understand, I hope you'll find some solace in art though ❤️
kuskus
2025-01-10 18:41:51 +0000 UTCTerribly sorry to hear that. It’s always a pity that our furry friends can’t be with us for longer ❤️
Emily M
2025-01-10 18:30:59 +0000 UTCI’m so sorry! I understand how hard it is. I’ve had dogs and cats (even though I’m allergic) all my life and it’s hard every time. My dog that I have now is basically my reason for getting up some days. Seriously, don’t feel obligated to post content. Take some time with him. ❤️
Jamie
2025-01-10 18:29:21 +0000 UTCBrittany, I am so sorry that the new year has begun with such news. Please take as much time as you need, nothing is more important than making the most of what time is left with Pretty Boy. We will be here to welcome you back with love when you are ready.
mwfangirl
2025-01-10 18:25:05 +0000 UTCI’m so sorry.
azazelisawesome
2025-01-10 18:09:17 +0000 UTCI’m so so sorry for your loss. Please do whatever you have to do to protect your peace as you both grieve, it’s an incredibly hard thing to process. Both of you and Pretty Boy are in my thoughts, and I’m wishing all of you as gentle a time as possible in the coming weeks
Sasha Moiseyev-Foster
2025-01-10 18:09:16 +0000 UTCVery sorry to hear that; wishing you lots of warmth and comfort
Ao
2025-01-10 18:05:48 +0000 UTCI'm sending you and the wife all the love and strength 🫂❤️
Lisa Kleine
2025-01-10 17:57:33 +0000 UTCI know that you and the Wife are devastated; my heart is with you both. Take care of yourselves, we'll be here whenever you are up to recording again.
Diana Williams
2025-01-10 17:33:16 +0000 UTCI am so sorry, I had to put down my childhood dog after 15 years a couple months ago and it was one of the hardest things I had to do. The relief you feel that they aren’t in pain anymore cannot be overstated. Again I am so sorry this happened take care of yourselves
Sammi Strong
2025-01-10 17:33:10 +0000 UTCSending so much love to you both. ❤️🩹
freya
2025-01-10 17:30:07 +0000 UTCSending you all the love & strength you need. Big hugs and take care of yourselves <3
Nanathathalielie
2025-01-10 17:16:44 +0000 UTCI’m so so sorry. I’m sending you both all the virtual hugs and love. Take your time, take care of yourselves and each other.
Vol
2025-01-10 17:06:03 +0000 UTCI am so so sorry to read that. My cat died last year after being diagnosed with cancer and 3 months of palliative care. It was the most intense and heartbreaking but also a very rewarding time of my life. So take all the time you need - pretty boy deserves it. Lot of hugs and best wishes to you all.
Doreen Pohl
2025-01-10 16:48:07 +0000 UTCI’m so, so incredibly sorry. God how I wish there’d been better news. Take all the time you need! Hopefully in time the happiness he gave you will overpower grief and he will continue to make your lives better, even if it’s just in your memories ❤️
Emma
2025-01-10 16:38:19 +0000 UTCSo sorry you guys are going through this. Please take care of yourselves throughout this difficult time. Sending lots of love and hugs your way. ❤️
miranda
2025-01-10 16:35:56 +0000 UTC🫂🫂🫂🫂
bindweed_ivy
2025-01-10 16:35:48 +0000 UTCI'm sorry you're both going through this. We lost one of our cats in December to kidney disease. It's hard, even when you know you're doing your best for them. Take care of yourselves.
Karen Dougherty
2025-01-10 16:31:52 +0000 UTCI'm sorry that you got still bad news. Give big hug to one another. 🫂❤️
Lilah Kane
2025-01-10 16:23:59 +0000 UTCSending loads of love & hugs. This is so hard. Take your time, take care of yourselves.
Maria Lima (aka chickwriter)
2025-01-10 16:21:47 +0000 UTCSo sorry you guys have to go through this. I promise, the pain does get easier. Don't feel rushed to come back if you're not ready. Take all the time to need. We'll always be here for you. 🥲❤️
Catherine Stringer
2025-01-10 16:18:45 +0000 UTCSending lots of hugs to you both. Take all the time you need. We are with you, at least virtually. 🫂
Martina Marešová
2025-01-10 16:16:11 +0000 UTC