AMA - Only Xander
Added 2024-09-28 09:25:55 +0000 UTC
Answering all the questions that I got in the form! :) It's a long one, so just be warned lol.
This was recorded around 3 or 4 in the morning. I start off a little eager, but I mellow out as it goes on haha
Great taste in horror movies! Like you Halloween and all things spooky are my fav. The scream and saw franchises are definitely something I love and 13 Ghosts is the best!
1naughtykitten
2024-12-06 16:00:51 +0000 UTC
New here! Hello 😊
Just got to the partt where you say you dont like being mean when being a Dom but i swear to all that is unholy, your use of the B word is poetry 😩🤣 I love angry/mean Xander so defo hope you do more even if its not your go to! Thanks 🥰
Charli
2024-12-03 15:35:54 +0000 UTC
Hey X, thanks for the reply,
I hear ya. You do work VERY well together that’s for sure.
I’ll keep listening and I hope all your dreams come true. ✨
Peaking_Pam
2024-12-01 08:34:19 +0000 UTC
Hi there ☺️ I appreciate the feedback and the kind message. I’m very happy to only work with Ellie, it’s a conscious decision. We work well together and both of us combined have created audios that people enjoy and resonate with. Happy Advent to you as well, I hope you have lovely holidays!
🖤
2024-11-30 16:30:15 +0000 UTC
This was such a great listen Xander, you seem so sweet and fun! I have one lingering thought tho that I hope you don’t mind me sharing. And know I’m saying this as a Swedish voice actress of 15 years, not in the spicy end if the spectrum but the opposite end, kids entertainment!
I just want to encourage you to challenge yourself by considering working with script writers and really step into the voice actor dream even further. 🤩
I’ve only ever worked with scripts other people have written and that can be a real challenge for sure.. but it makes us grow as actors. And I KNOW you’d be great at it tho I understand the mental hurdle. Just, consider this a gentle nudge of encouragement in order for you to grow even bigger…
Sorry. I had to. 😂
Oh and, as a former musical performer… the fact that you said you liked musicals made me burst out: fuck yeah Xander! 😂
Would love to hear your thoughts on the ”Wicked” movie. 💚🩷
Give my love to Ellie and I wish you both a lovely first of advent tomorrow. 😉 🕯️ #countdowntochristmas #itsaScandinavianthing
Peaking_Pam
2024-11-30 12:25:01 +0000 UTC
I absolutely love this!! Xander, you're are so real and honest and it comes out in the way you answer these questions and aren't afraid to giggle and be your authentic self. It's appreciated!!
Steffie
2024-11-29 19:36:44 +0000 UTC
I am SO behind on catching up on this! Thank you so much for sharing Xander Marie!
-Aqua Regia is the best ST song. Period.
-more music in audios??? PLEASE YES!! The Crawl playlist stays on repeat and has since it's release 😂
Lex
2024-11-21 12:11:45 +0000 UTC
Me 🤝 Xander
Nic Cage
I know I’m like MONTHS behind on this but this was so fun to listen to! Thanks for taking the time to do it, and also do one with Ellie (that’s next on the listen list). My fiancé wandered in and out while listening and would like me to pass on that you have good taste in horror movies (our anniversary is right before Halloween and this year they re-released Scream at a theatre near us, so we absolutely went for our anniversary date 😂).
Thank you again for taking the time to do this on top of all the other content you put out for us!
Mac
2024-11-19 05:26:57 +0000 UTC
Newish member/ listener here. Just slowly exploring your content here. Enjoying what I've encountered so far. :) Loved the AMA. We'll have to agree to disagree on Halloween 3 though. Lol! Also, the Jersey Devil sounds cool unless you live near that area, j/s. 🤣
Chris Cox
2024-11-18 21:05:23 +0000 UTC
That is exactly how a friend of mine ended up as Taylor Elizabeth Last Name. No one could remember his actual middle name. Now everyone's middle name is Elizabeth.
Bella
2024-10-31 21:07:41 +0000 UTC
Also, I am so sorry for the obnoxiously long comment. I realize it wasn't the proper forum for such a lengthy message. Apologies to the members as well.
Carissa Grove
2024-10-15 02:23:54 +0000 UTC
Oh perfect! That's on my playlist tonight already. lol Thanks! :)
Carissa Grove
2024-10-15 02:18:39 +0000 UTC
I tend to care about the person first and their appearance later. I discuss this in more detail in the AMA with Ellie, you might want to give that one a listen :)
🖤
2024-10-15 02:16:23 +0000 UTC
Hello! New member, first-time AMA listener, wanted share some first impressions. For starters, Xander, you are fucking adorable. I was already smitten after finding you on Quinn, and now I've got a full-blown crush. Also, I'm a massive fan of the Scream franchise (snuck in to see the first Scream in theaters back in '96 when I was in 9th grade), so I gotta know your ranking of all the films released so far. I know you've mentioned before that you like curves and softer bodies, overall more natural features. As a plus-size woman, I find it tough finding erotic content that promotes body worship through positive affirmation, praise, and genuine desire for the woman and not the fetish. So with that said, are full-figured ladies in the same category as curvy women (yes, there is a difference)?
Carissa Grove
2024-10-14 05:29:49 +0000 UTC
Perhaps it was just a glitch or a technical issue. I’ll submitting again in the October AMA! 😄 Fingers crossed it gets answered this time
Peachy
2024-10-05 03:59:07 +0000 UTC
Now I’m curious what musicals you enjoy…
Sarah LP
2024-10-03 13:54:27 +0000 UTC
I would 100% be down for a Resident Evil timeline/lore audio.
Pinkprincess_
2024-10-03 08:34:34 +0000 UTC
As someone who really loves a good bromance, I appreciate knowing that a Xander/Milo bromance exists. You didn't say "bromance" specifically, but I'll just assume since you're buds. 😂🖤
Sempiternal.being42
2024-10-03 02:50:34 +0000 UTC
It's so rare!! All of the men on Quinn seem to be!! It's so refreshing and gives me hope! And thank you so much for creating a safe space!!!
Jennie Owen
2024-10-02 18:21:43 +0000 UTC
I love this, I really really do. I usually don’t pass messages along to him for the sole purpose of maintaining his boundaries when it comes to not interacting with his listeners, but I know he appreciates you ladies so much and he is such an amazing advocate for women.
🖤
2024-10-02 17:37:13 +0000 UTC
Finally got to listen to this. Thank you for your time - this was so much fun to listen to!!
EchoesAfterMidnight
2024-10-01 22:30:47 +0000 UTC
Xander if you see this can you tell Milo that his newsletter from a couple of weeks ago was really touching to alot of women I know(including me)it's not often(in my life)That men stand up for women. Thanks. If not just delete this.
Jennie Owen
2024-10-01 06:03:10 +0000 UTC
50 horny cat ladies. That's very specific. 🤣🤣🤣🏳🏳
Jennie Owen
2024-10-01 05:55:18 +0000 UTC
I’m so happy you found a copy of Snow Crash! I remember when you posted about it. Looking for rare books is a hobby of mine (I’m a collector) and I’m so glad you got it!
Bisexual Biscuit
2024-09-30 13:48:57 +0000 UTC
Being a fan of Incubus totally tracks (huge fan myself)…your voice and general demeanor remind me a lot of Brandon Boyd! 🖤
Speaking of music, was loving the Lofi version of Creep playing at around the 30 min mark👌🏻
AliciaMarie💋
2024-09-29 21:52:11 +0000 UTC
Oh no! You’re the second person who said that. I might need to make a post incase Google jettisoned anyone else’s questions. If you’re comfortable asking here, please do! I think I need to make a post for missing questions.
🖤
2024-09-29 21:29:24 +0000 UTC
Listening patiently and sad my question are not answered in the audio ☹️
Overall i find that you easily get humored 😂. Taking note ✍🏻 on movie suggestion
Peachy
2024-09-29 16:32:05 +0000 UTC
His mom wanted Marty but his dad thought he'd be bullied so they settled on Martyn with a Y instead of I. So not exact but she tells everyone Marty Mcfly is his namesake. My stepdad had no reason to dislike him anyway but telling him this story meant he was part of the family straight away 😂
Mel
2024-09-29 16:24:15 +0000 UTC
Also, now that I’ve listened to the whole thing… why is a guy laughing and giggling to himself so cute? 🥰
LozC
2024-09-29 14:47:21 +0000 UTC
You’re going to really enjoy October! I’ll leave it at that :)
🖤
2024-09-29 13:54:49 +0000 UTC
Love this so much!! And especially love hearing about the pups! Having a black lab who grew up with huskies and thinks she can howl and speak like them I can only imagine how hard it is to record if the pups are on one and want you to know. This was wonderful! Can’t wait to listen to the Ellie one next.
Angelique Choate
2024-09-29 13:06:25 +0000 UTC
I haven't finished this yet but did I hear right that you did more than one Ghostface audio? I could have heard wrong, but uf so where are they? And the giggling gets me everytime. Lol. Cute.
Jennie Owen
2024-09-29 06:11:22 +0000 UTC
Stoned me put a lot of thought and calculation into the T-Rex question. Sober me did not expect you to actually answer it! 🤣 Thanks for doing this!
Juana M
2024-09-29 04:25:39 +0000 UTC
I put in some questions that I didn't hear so I think it definitely happened.
moxierose
2024-09-29 03:01:18 +0000 UTC
Ari Aster makes such gorgeous films but his penchant for head trauma is 😮💨 hard for me to take tbh
Margaret Peffy Margie Maggie
2024-09-29 02:50:42 +0000 UTC
It's so nice to hear you outside of non-recording mode. thank you for taking the time out of your day to answer our questions! thank you for answering my question too! ALSO!!! I love that you LOVEE Back To The Future! when I heard you say that, I screamed 😂 that's my all time favourite movie and it's definitely a banger of a classic!! thank you for this xander, I hope you do more AMAs in the future! 🖤
mcxyp
2024-09-29 02:02:26 +0000 UTC
Loved hearing the Sleep Token love! I got a Sleep Token tattoo (and technically a Bad Omens quote in my half sleeve) earlier this year after leaving my 22 year relationship/13 year marriage (I was 16 when it started). Music has always been a huge part of my life so they serve as reminders to never settle for less than I deserve again.
SpookyBibliophile
2024-09-29 01:09:52 +0000 UTC
Mine was missed too. It was about how you - and Ellie - come up with and script out ideas. More what the process looks like as far as creativity if it’s specific to a time and place or schedule.
Shari
2024-09-29 01:05:45 +0000 UTC
Same. 😂
audio.owl
2024-09-29 00:40:34 +0000 UTC
I think you will do great at the audio. You always hit the nail on the head. I have all the faith in the world you will hit it out of the park. And as someone with out irl experience I can't wait to see what you do with it.
A post couldn't hurt *shrug*
Desi
2024-09-29 00:39:47 +0000 UTC
Thank you so much for telling me! Now I’m really scared it happened to other people too, maybe I should make a post! As for the audio, I think it’ll be cool! Trying to make sure it’s genuine and realistic with just the right amount of sappy but not toooooo much :)
🖤
2024-09-29 00:32:14 +0000 UTC
No problem answering this way! You taking the time to answer at all is appreciated believe me! Awwww so excited!!! ❤️❤️❤️
Desi
2024-09-29 00:28:11 +0000 UTC
Ah shoot I don’t remember seeing that one at all, 🥺 and I’m so sorry I’m answering this way and not vocally, but yes!! we’re working on writing one ☺️
🖤
2024-09-29 00:26:53 +0000 UTC
Just was curious if you had ever thought of doing virgin/ first time audios either on Quinn or here?
Desi
2024-09-29 00:20:36 +0000 UTC
Only a couple of minutes in and I’m like, pause. “Hey siri, what’s an apadravya piercing”. I’m a visual learner 😂
LozC
2024-09-29 00:16:14 +0000 UTC
Oh no! what was the question? We’ve heard sometimes when you go over 250 responses that Google Forms can glitch, so please let me know! (if you don’t want to answer here I will accept and watch for a message!)
🖤
2024-09-29 00:14:20 +0000 UTC
It’s so good. I’m partial to Crimson Butterfly. The village gives me goosies.
Sarah LP
2024-09-28 23:23:27 +0000 UTC
Right? It's gonna bring a whole different image to mind now that I know when I go back lol
Desi
2024-09-28 23:18:27 +0000 UTC
Not just you… then I had to think back to it being described in the audios and things make a bit more sense now…
Shari
2024-09-28 23:16:29 +0000 UTC
Fatal Frame 3 is my favorite 😁
🖤
2024-09-28 23:14:05 +0000 UTC
Is it Marty? Biff? also your stepdad has good taste :)
🖤
2024-09-28 23:13:31 +0000 UTC
THEYRE IN MY EYES
🖤
2024-09-28 23:12:43 +0000 UTC
I'm sad my question got skipped or I zoned out and missed it lol gonna have to give it another listen to be sure no big deal
Desi
2024-09-28 23:12:26 +0000 UTC
Cannot wait to take your recommendations for movies and dive into the horror genre! I’ve always loved reading horror novels but never have gotten into movies. Thank you for doing this, it’s always lovely to connect with the creators outside of their normal content ❤️
Britt and Belle
2024-09-28 23:06:06 +0000 UTC
Anyone else immediately pause to google the piercing because they'd never heard of that one before?
Just me? ok *back to my hole now* lol
Desi
2024-09-28 21:15:54 +0000 UTC
Thank you so much for taking this time to answer all of our questions!
Couple of thoughts:
☕️ As a fellow tea drinker, I gotta recommend Yorkshire Gold if you haven’t tried it!
🎶 When you mentioned wanting to dress up as incubus for Halloween, I 100% thought “which one?” Took my mom brain way too long to figure out you meant the demon and not Brandon Boyd 😂
Kingraham
2024-09-28 20:19:33 +0000 UTC
*Aging myself* I worked at the movie theater when the first Scream came out, also when Halloween H20 came out. I'm scared for life 😂🙈 Also as a kid the decade I was born in was terrifying
Jessica
2024-09-28 20:00:40 +0000 UTC
Adam Driver, yes please! Nic Cage... I can... Kinda see it, tbh? 😂😂
(also this reminds me it's nearly time for my annual double feature of Ghost Ship & 13 Ghosts, my first spooky movies of October!)
And 8 really is young for Saw, good grief! 😂 (in fairness I think that was around when I read Pet Sematary, so...)
What a delight, thanks, Xander.
Margaret Peffy Margie Maggie
2024-09-28 19:17:59 +0000 UTC
I feel bad that I ended up picking a commonish question, but I love how you took a different approach to each one. 💞 I love that its just random things that help you come up with things, there's not really a set set of things, etc. 🫶
definitely will think of a more unique one for next time. 🥰
The freaking giddiness I had! Ahhh! Seriously the biggest perk of having a unique name, lmao! 🥰💞🤭
Lotus and Chanel
2024-09-28 18:48:00 +0000 UTC
I probably wouldn’t do a live just so I have the capability to screen the questions first, although it’s a fun idea!
🖤
2024-09-28 17:58:19 +0000 UTC
Do you think you'll do a live for an AMA?
Gigi
2024-09-28 17:45:59 +0000 UTC
Loved the AMA, but ngl I’m more excited about the fact he pronounced my name correctly more than the fact he answered my question 😂 just glad he didn’t pronounce it as Jassy, Jackie or jazzy 🤣🤣
Jacy Posey
2024-09-28 16:31:06 +0000 UTC
I'm only a few mins in and I already love the vibe. And Nic Cage?! Oh I love you more.
Gigi
2024-09-28 16:23:54 +0000 UTC
Just finished listening, aww it’s not a dumb AMA and you’re so giggly.
Thank you for this! Resonate much on that difficulty in receiving compliments. Getting better at it now. I hope you do too. Keep on creating, you’re good at it and we all see and appreciate your efforts. 🏃♀️🏃♀️Going to listen to the other AMA with you and my girl crush after this.
ikarus30
2024-09-28 15:21:27 +0000 UTC
You did so well, but now I feel like I have MORE questions! Love how you could talk on and on about the things you love 🥰
Also, Resident Evil 🙌🙌🙌
RE4 Remake was my game of the year in 2023, and my hubby and I went as Leon and Ashley for Halloween 🤗🎃
Alayna Douglas
2024-09-28 15:03:45 +0000 UTC
I love Ghost Ship! If you like the Mandela Effect you should google the Sinbad movie Shazam.
Marie🌺🦋
2024-09-28 14:55:30 +0000 UTC
Hold on. HOLD ON. HOLD ON! Fatal Frame?!? Let’s fucking GOOOOO
Sarah LP
2024-09-28 14:40:06 +0000 UTC
Hmmm, wonder why you said a Southern American accent 😏 Fun fact (May in fact not be fun) my partner is named after a Back to the Future character but has never actually seen it. My stepdad loves it and has tons of memorobilia.
Mel
2024-09-28 14:26:26 +0000 UTC
Nic Cage?! NOT THE BEES!!!!
Sarah LP
2024-09-28 14:13:40 +0000 UTC
I love Hereditary and it’s terrifying!
Entombed is a personal favorite
It’s a LoFi cover of running up that hill- I’ll share a link later to that playlist!
🖤
2024-09-28 13:58:20 +0000 UTC
P.S. my husky/GSD says "halloooo" to your husky and malamute.
Melly
2024-09-28 13:31:46 +0000 UTC
Thank you for taking the time and care to answer all these questions. This was a lovely thing to wake up to.
Melly
2024-09-28 13:29:03 +0000 UTC
Every time someone says they like hereditary and thought it was scary, a small part of me dies 😔
Entombed as the only song during sex is such a good choice but I think only playing one song during would ruin it for me so I couldn’t pick anything by deftones lol
ALSO what is the song playing in the background around 22:00?? It sounds like Running up that hill but I haven’t heard that version before
honey
2024-09-28 13:14:35 +0000 UTC
Yay! I was wondering if you were able to track down Snow Crash!
Solid movie choices 👌🏻
Aly
2024-09-28 13:02:25 +0000 UTC
Your authenticity and integrity SHINES in the art that you create Xander. I really appreciate the work you put in, with sfx and soundscapes. In particular I loved the background city feel of Sweet Pumpkin. Your DD/lg work is really comforting to me, as I'm going through a bad time right now and you're helping me to access my 'little' and feel cared for.
Also House of Leaves - phenomenal 😍. Thank you for the AMA you lovely human. ✨️
Lara
2024-09-28 12:18:46 +0000 UTC
Was that French? *sigh* Another language to learn...just in case 🫠😂
Ebony
2024-09-28 12:04:30 +0000 UTC
"Southern American" Me-from Texas 👀 also, so sorry for commenting so much.
Tara Latham
2024-09-28 12:04:12 +0000 UTC
Oh shit. Spoke too soon. That hairstylist in me appreciates the hairstyle thing. I am the same way! If someone has really great hair, I'm immediately interested in that person for whatever reason
Tara Latham
2024-09-28 11:58:38 +0000 UTC
Just 30 min out not this deciding this is my go-to for anytime I'm stressed. You do such good work, sir.
Tara Latham
2024-09-28 11:56:43 +0000 UTC
Never loved you more than when you said Nicholas Cage 😂
Jenna
2024-09-28 11:14:44 +0000 UTC
I kinda hoped you'd pick the Axolotl ^^° And yeeeesssss, they are hella cute!
Kitty
2024-09-28 11:01:41 +0000 UTC
“What are you talking about🤨? Keep going😃!” That took me out😭
Emma
2024-09-28 10:50:54 +0000 UTC
People really overlook Ghost Ship, and it's such a shame! I don't think there will ever be a better opening scene in a horror movie.
La Nuna Luna
2024-09-28 10:45:53 +0000 UTC
“Two broke girls”! It’s been a while, but I used to watch it religiously when every episode was released. Max, Oleg and Sophie were my favorite characters! I loved that sense of humor! Too bad people these days get offended by that kind of show…
MilaHarrogate00
2024-09-28 10:27:20 +0000 UTC
Romance movies and musicals? Dude, your stock just went up.
Essi
2024-09-28 10:02:03 +0000 UTC
DUDE. No one else has ever mentioned Ghost Ship. Hands down one of my all time favorites. I mean that opening scene alone?!
Also. Horror book rec - The Black Farm. That book still haunts me.
ashmail
2024-09-28 09:53:17 +0000 UTC
I think about this on a near daily basis, I'll have you know
🖤
2024-09-28 09:37:35 +0000 UTC
Good soup! 🍲
ikarus30
2024-09-28 09:34:27 +0000 UTC