Setting Boundaries and Checking Patterns
Added 2025-05-10 18:01:38 +0000 UTCWhat do you do when you like someone and it turns out they have been using you? I share a little of my current situation, the old patterns it brings up, and some nuggets of wisdom. If you feel uncomfortable in any relationship, set a boundary that you feel will bring you peace. Sometimes this needs creative solutions, but we all deserve the best treatment for ourselves. No need to make excuses for the other person. If you don't like it, that is enough. I know at times I have acted from a place of scarcity surrounding love. Believing that I need to keep certain people in my life because who else is there, or I believe I owe them something? The truth is, we need to love ourselves the most. Which is the opposite of what we are taught, but if you can learn to love yourself. Then you can truly be much more authentically selfless. Just changing your mindset to I am someone that deserves the best, and I will only treat myself the best will help to change your reality and future situations:)
PS- I was a little horrified at my dirty nails, please forgive me, I was gardening lol
