#159 Uncut Video w/ Youngmi Mayer

I loved this episode ☺️😊

Samara Davis

I hang out with a bunch of Buddhists...and Youngmi's definition is among the best I've heard XD Also, not all of us on your text list are lesbians (but we've listened to enough of your material to know that "U up?" is not applicable to us)! Re: Sharing Details From what I read in r/polyamory, it generally seems frowned-upon to assume that you can share full details of sexual encounters with a third party (even if they are your nesting/spouse/primary partner) without the prior consent of the other party(s) involved in said sexual encounters. Also, some versions of ENM do involve don't ask don't tell (DADT) agreements, but given the uncertainty around them, many folks also elect to avoid people in these kinds of relationships, too.

B

this was such a good mix of humor/ serious topic ep!!!! loved this one

'I didn't learn anything about myself, but I learned a new word.' Relatable! Compulsory heteronormativity is a thing.

so i’m not opposed to sounding the alarms over mass lesbian text that it’s time to overthrow the government 😅

Ceilidh

Kate?! Kate is back?! Best news ever. 😊 (Even if it’s just for a little bit).

I think people normally go from cry to laugh rather than laugh to cry is because ending on laughing leaves the people feeling better?

The way that I want to go make like 75 fake twitter accounts of celebrities right now

Woah!! I love Esther Perel!!!

Steph

As someone who is often the third or the unicorn, absolutely agree the couples that fight in front of you is the worst and then seeing couples who don't it is truly impressive the level of communication they all have

Feeling so affirmed on these discussions of ENM

I had submitted a story a while ago about being the unicorn for a couple... hoping it gets read soon i want ya'lls reaction 😂