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Patreon Exclusive | Expressions of Love [Asexual Listener]

Intimacy is about more than sex. Initmacy is about trust, having a true connection with someone, about being there for eachother, love. I want YOU. This doesn't change that.

TW: NSFW topic discussed.

Requested RP.

SFX: Tabletopaudio.com 

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Glad you liked it ❤️

Sarah

Lovely audio, thank you

Jest

I'm so sorry people have responded in such awful ways before. There is nothing to 'fix', because nothing is broken. And not loving deeply of feeling deeply; that is just the cherry on top of the offensive cake. Not a cool thing to say. And how would they know how you love? If you feel deeply or not? I think you summed it up perfectly by saying assumptions. That is all it is. And pretty ignorant assumptions at that. Be you and know that it is always more than enough. 🫂 Glad you enjoyed the audio ❤️

Sarah

oh, I don't think I can properly express what this means to me but as always I'll do my best^^ I think if I sit and think about it, I've somewhat always known I was asexual in some way. I just didn't, well still don't really, understand sexual attraction. I'd hear my friends and family talk about people and refer to terms one would deem "sexually attractive" but I just...never really saw it? Nothing really hit home and still doesn't. It got pretty confusing as teen and early adult cause I was able to get crushes on others. Heck, I'd even crushed on my best friend in college but never felt an urgency to do deeper things than just cuddling or kissing. I remember struggling with finding myself, wondering if I liked boys, girls, if I liked them both. Did I want to sleep with them? well...no. I hardly felt the need or want to be intimate in that way, I've always found other intimacies to be more beautiful I think. Sometimes I can sit and think, maybe if I were emotionally close to someone and loved them, then it'd be easier, just. Not having the love and relationship revolve around that, I'd rather do something else. This particular part of me has unfortunately earned me a lot of scorn. people have said such mean things to me. I think when I tell them I struggle to be intimate on that part, they take it as I can't love at all. One friend I have even offhandedly said that he was envious of me, because it meant my feelings might be less deep for someone and it might hurt less cause there's a part of love that's not there. It's definitely not true in my case, when I love, I love deeply. Others sometimes will make assumptions or ask about personal things. It's even worse when I tell them I've been with a partner in that way, which turns into "you just haven't had something good, I could fix that." it's frustrating. I say all of that, rambling as ever, to say this audio made me feel validated and I hardly feel that way as an asexual. communication-wise, I love the conversation in this. Acknowledging that somethings might change but the love remains and the listener won't be left. Means a lot to me. Every relationship is different and it's so, so validating to hear that it is okay to show intimacy in other ways. I think I've spoke a lot haha. Thank you, seriously. I truly do appreciate it and love it. good work and tight hugs🫂

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