"Ohh yeah, I had the same issue when I first changed. Your hair, your quills, whatever...just forget about styling it and learn to embrace what you've got. No amount of conditioner helps, it's gonna be a bit spikey. On the plus side, you don't have to worry about hairspray or gel, it's pretty much always shaped like this. I really don't think it looks that bad.
And yeah, I see you're already accepting the clothes-optional lifestyle. Shirts and bras are just a nightmare, and it all feels weird over fur anyway. You'll probably be a little chilly until more of your fur comes in, but it's been nice outside lately.
Just let me know if you have any other issues adjusting. Us hedgehog girls gotta stick together."