Fat Chat: Am I a Feedee or a Feeder? & My Dream Feederism Relationship
Added 2025-06-26 21:19:01 +0000 UTCSo excited to drop the first episode! This one is a little bit longer than episodes will typically be because its actually a double episode where I cover two topics:)
I also did NOT realize the settings on my mic were messed up until after I recorded the whole thing, so not only does it kinda sound like a voicemail lmao, there are some random crunchy moments, so sorry about that! It's fixed for the next episode for sure (I've actually already recorded it lol), but that you for bearing with me!
Also, if you listen very carefully you'll be able to hear my podcasts first ever (surprise) guest, because my roommate's dog somehow snuck into my room and was looking for me, so everybody say hi Danielle. Double also, side note about me since this whole thing is just me sharing personal stuff, my roommate's dog is named after her sister, so for literally 2 years I just assumed her sister was dead and the dog was named Danielle in homage. Turns out her sister is alive and perfectly well and I only found out cause she got married??? Not that I can actually give her this feedback, but pleaseeee back me up and agree naming your dog after your living sister is insane😭😭😭
Anyways I hope you enjoy! Episode two dropping soon:)
Comments
Omg to have someone count my calories, track my gains and measurements, and snap my before/after pics for me would literally be the dream 🤩 I’m originally from the US, now in the UK, and the density of feedists and FAs and happily fat folk here is super high, and meet-up events happen formally and informally all over the country throughout the year - just sharing so you know in case an opportunity one day presents itself! Now, at the risk of spamming your comments, I will shut up! I’m just super into what you do (and the effect your content has had on me!). Thanks again 😋
ErinAF
2025-07-29 08:03:21 +0000 UTCThanks for making this series! Listening to it’s really made me retrace the steps in my time in the feederism community. Honestly, you’re a sweet soul and this really helped me, in a way. I grew up in a household that values fitness and health above all. I had to do sports, eat right etc. When I discovered my kink for feederism, I was in a feeder mindset, as I was still at home and in the fitness scene. But once I graduated, it all changed. I went to college and for the first time, the choice was mine. I let myself relax and eat what I wanted. That’s when I learned I felt more feedee than anything. I lived for that change.
Cheesethulhu
2025-07-08 00:47:12 +0000 UTCI like this, its so interesting to hear your experience as a female feeder since it feels like the mirror opposite but same to being a male feedee. Like, I never even considered the idea that there WERE women who were feeders and liked fat men until I met one. (So imagine my surprise when I gained 60 pounds in about 6 months one year and started noticing a lot more attention from women afterwards. I think there's a lot more of y'all than anyone realizes.) The feeder / feedee pipeline is absolutely a real thing. I would say that I started off as a feeder because that was my first feedist relationship. But as I look back at my life if I'm honest I've always been a feedee since I would stuff myself in secret so much. Well that was tmi from me lol. Since someone else posted the same thing for research purposes, I'm also a bi man.
Docroxxo
2025-06-27 12:35:03 +0000 UTCOmg, lol, you should add a field to your commission form "May I add your pictures to my spank bank?" 🤣 I mean, probably shouldn't, but would be funny. Love this episode and ramble so far
Michael
2025-06-27 05:31:33 +0000 UTC
