Be honest for a second, when things get intimate, what tends to pull you out of the moment most?
Added 2025-12-05 15:25:09 +0000 UTCComments
When she starts talking about ANYTHING other than what we're doing lol, or when she wants the TV on (for background noise b/c of the kids), but then I catch her attention on said TV. Both are the ultimate, "wow, this feels amaz...SQUIRRAL!" Ugh. Lack of presence is the ultimate turn off
Robert Voccola
2025-12-17 18:20:15 +0000 UTCWhat's your age? Have your t level checked. Years ago I had issues when I took cold meds. Been getting t shots ever since.
Photoguy77
2025-12-10 11:58:24 +0000 UTCIβm in a funk now. My sex drive isnβt very high at all and itβs depressing and getting me down. Anybody have any ideas to help me
James Taylor
2025-12-08 15:23:23 +0000 UTCI hear you!
Lovely Dutta
2025-12-08 15:02:48 +0000 UTCI hear you!
Lovely Dutta
2025-12-08 15:02:14 +0000 UTCπ
Lovely Dutta
2025-12-08 15:01:49 +0000 UTCI hear you!
Lovely Dutta
2025-12-08 15:01:42 +0000 UTCI understand!
Lovely Dutta
2025-12-08 15:00:56 +0000 UTCI hear you!
Lovely Dutta
2025-12-08 15:00:46 +0000 UTCAppreciate you sharing!
Lovely Dutta
2025-12-08 15:00:39 +0000 UTCThe usual stresses of everyday life like finances usually distract me. It has never stopped me from being able to finish but it certainly has impacted the quality of the orgasm at times. Sometimes I distract myself with every day stresses just to make sure I don't get too excited like when my wife is approaching orgasm.
Tommy
2025-12-07 18:17:51 +0000 UTCNumber 1. Getting and keeping a good erection and lasting as long as we both want.
Jeremy
2025-12-07 15:36:25 +0000 UTCSorry for my ignorance, what is a Pillow queen?
Jeremy
2025-12-07 15:34:23 +0000 UTCAll of the above...
Ken
2025-12-07 00:04:15 +0000 UTCOverthinking performance and the feeling pressure to please my partner. These two combined have been typical obstacles in my sex life. Because of these two performed bad, didn't enjoy sex or even haven't been able to seduce a women to have sex with me.
Lohan Cohan
2025-12-06 13:25:51 +0000 UTCNumber 4, If I encounter a Pillow queen I will get up and pull my pants up and leave without delay....
lil46$β¬
2025-12-06 13:22:52 +0000 UTCFor me, the biggest problem is severe ADHD. A pin drop could distract me for a moment. But, if I am hyper focused on pleasuring her in various ways, I am up to the task. π
Barry Shafer
2025-12-06 13:01:57 +0000 UTCNumber 4. I feel like Iβm the only one trying. Itβs been a long hard road as a couple the past year and a half. I feel like Iβm the only one trying to make the relationship better. Very discouraged.
John Freeman
2025-12-05 20:03:39 +0000 UTCNot really on the list, but when I'm worried if she's in the mood or really enjoying it. As soon as I feel like what I'm doing isn't working, I'm kinda like meh why are we doing this. I have to ask if she likes it and she usually says yes, and then starts moaning and actually paying attention. So I guess what pulls me out of the moment is when she's pulling away from the moment. Don't get me wrong, she cums a lot from a lot, but she gets a little too in her head. I guess I need to spend more time grounding her in our intimacy and get more connected. She wants me to go down on her a bit too fast! And she gives me head sometimes before we even kiss. I prefer kissing to start! She wants to get down to business she knows she's got lots of Os coming. But I want her mind to be more connected and to slow it down.
AndrewA
2025-12-05 18:21:00 +0000 UTC
