Most guys don't actually know what turns them on. They know what stimulates them, not what truly arouses them. And that difference changes everything.
Added 2025-12-03 15:13:51 +0000 UTC
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Thank you for sharing!
Lovely Dutta
2025-12-05 15:23:54 +0000 UTCAppreciate you sharing!
Lovely Dutta
2025-12-05 15:23:37 +0000 UTCThat's interesting!
Lovely Dutta
2025-12-05 15:23:16 +0000 UTCThank you!
Lovely Dutta
2025-12-05 15:23:07 +0000 UTCVery interesting, thanks for sharing!
Lovely Dutta
2025-12-05 15:23:00 +0000 UTCThank you for sharing!
Lovely Dutta
2025-12-05 15:22:47 +0000 UTCBy the way, I know that itβs more than just the photo. Having experienced your courses and knowing how you help guys definitely factors into, and intensifies, my reaction to the photo.
Don Whitehead
2025-12-04 17:39:55 +0000 UTCFor me arousal is on the level of sexual empathy. The sudden silence in conversation, that look in a woman's eyes, the way her breathing changes. How her body moves change. Change in the tone of her voice. Stimulation is the what the woman is wearing, how she moves, how and when she may touch you.
Grouchy Vince
2025-12-04 17:06:19 +0000 UTCYes, I know. I in fact had the opportunity to test that exact question recently when I had sex with someone I hadn't had sex with in years. There was a lot of relearning to do and what used to work for her didn't work the same anymore. I did my best, she noticed I wasn't getting turned on, and she asked what would turn me on. I said "appreciative sexy sounds from you." She said "Oh, I'll bring one of my toys next time then." Rather than waiting until next time, I dug through my drawer of spare NIB toys and found one that worked for her, while I helped. By the time she came, surprisingly only a couple minutes later (apparently what I did for her was still about 90% effective), I was totally ready to go.
fyrstormer
2025-12-04 02:30:06 +0000 UTCIβm sure youβre right but Iβm still confused. Am I aroused or stimulated when I see that photo of you?
Don Whitehead
2025-12-04 01:29:34 +0000 UTCThis is like peeling back layers of an onion for me. For example, I love curves on a fit woman. A broad set of shoulders, a muscular back, etc. It is hard not to be attracted to a healthy woman with a nice shape to her body. The next layer is a great personality and a good brain - like @raymond mentioned above. But then when it gets into the physical realm I am aroused by a woman (my wife) pleasuring herself. The moans and other sounds that emanate from her while receiving pleasure are also a strong source of arousal for me as is her orgasm. Just the other evening I was going down on my wife when she stopped me and flipped over so I could enter her doggy style. She started fingering her clit almost immediately and then had an orgasm probably within a minute or two of us beginning to fuck. I was holding back knowing that consistent thrusting would help her achieve orgasm so I wasn't close - until she came. Then I was suddenly rocketing towards orgasm and it was all over mere seconds after she came.
Tommy
2025-12-03 20:54:50 +0000 UTCAbsolutely
William
2025-12-03 17:19:03 +0000 UTCThis really got my brain going, thinking about how my brain really processes the situation. What i came up with was .. I am attracted a healthy fit woman that has confidence, but what turns me on is her brain and her heart. I am also very sensitive to energies that people radiate , their ora . Some women exude love and passion which is hard to resist . True arousal comes from having all of these elements in play and she is being flirtatious or acting in a sexually aggressive way. Hard to put into words . Honestly I love when a woman knows how to use dirty talk as a weapon. I had a girlfriend that got that about me and used it with out mercy. She could be so sweet and innocent, kind , caring come up to me and hug and kiss me then while embracing me look me in the eyes seductively and say almost in a whisper "do you want to F U C K " her spelling it out really got my brain chemistry going and gave me almost an instant hard on , that is when the magic happens . I think that men and women are very much the same in this regard. When body and mind are really turned on and exciting it creates an environment where you can get lost in the moment and have so much pleasure and joy coursing through my veins that it is like being taken to another world. In the end I will have the most mind blowing orgasms, that are felt to my soul . Thank you for the Amazing Question Caitlin V π
Raymond
2025-12-03 17:17:37 +0000 UTCI know. It's admiration, every time. She is smart, driven, witty, playful, unafraid, and, above all, capable. This steals my heart and ignites desire every time. I have no time for damsels in distress. I want a co-conspirator.
Eli Israel
2025-12-03 15:30:34 +0000 UTC
