I've been reflecting on something lately - When people say they want to have better sex, what do they really mean? For some, it's about lasting longer. For others, it's about more passion, more confidence, more connection.
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Lovely Dutta
2025-11-21 15:18:18 +0000 UTCI hear you!
Lovely Dutta
2025-11-21 15:16:36 +0000 UTCThat's kinda interesting!
Lovely Dutta
2025-11-21 15:16:10 +0000 UTCI totally hear you!
Lovely Dutta
2025-11-21 15:16:01 +0000 UTC👀
Lovely Dutta
2025-11-21 15:15:51 +0000 UTC👀
Lovely Dutta
2025-11-21 15:15:47 +0000 UTCMakes sense!
Lovely Dutta
2025-11-21 15:15:40 +0000 UTC👀
Lovely Dutta
2025-11-21 15:15:34 +0000 UTCI think all of these play off one another, when you learn new skills, you feel more confident and let go of performance issues. When you let go of those issues you open yourself up to being more connected to your partner. Its like a snowball effect. this is exactly what happened to me. It all started with me realizing that you need to love the person you are, warts and all. If you can't look in the mirror and say damn I'd fuck me, what makes you think anyone else would want to. It takes a lot of effort to be the best version of yourself, but if you work at it every day it pays dividends down the road.
Hellmine
2025-11-20 15:28:09 +0000 UTCExactly what I was thinking
Chad G
2025-11-20 12:43:32 +0000 UTCIm feeling like it's a combination of them all. It seems more like I want better sex as I want more erotic intelligence as to be able to read my partner and my desire at the time. Is this a moment where we just want to pound it out and fuck the shit out of each other or a time we want to have 3 hour sex and have closeness and gentle tantric sex? Seems like better sex means understanding what is desired at the time
Chad G
2025-11-20 12:18:46 +0000 UTCHow about (E) All of the above ? (no joke)
Grouchy Vince
2025-11-20 04:36:14 +0000 UTCB&D. I would add matched libido and adventure.
DavidD
2025-11-19 20:18:20 +0000 UTCFor me it is E)...which is feeling that I am getting what I need and my partner (my wife) is getting what she needs to feel satisfied. I try to do my part to make sure there is as much balance as possible.
Tommy
2025-11-19 19:00:04 +0000 UTCB I have chased all of these at one time or another, and all of them are important contributors to having the best sex life. But emotional connection to a partner is always the most important to me. The best sex is among co-conspirators, working together and playing off each other. With that, the other considerations all fall into place.
Eli Israel
2025-11-19 18:43:59 +0000 UTCB and C for me
Marek
2025-11-19 17:03:51 +0000 UTCC, because if SHE'S not comfortable in her body, it feels like performance pressure is put on me
Paul
2025-11-19 16:54:21 +0000 UTCB would be important. But the combination of all of them would make it better or be best. Knowledge is key. And we thank you for the tips.
Johann J
2025-11-19 16:36:43 +0000 UTCC
Scott
2025-11-19 16:07:50 +0000 UTC
