Let’s play a little “This or That.” No right answers. Just your truth in the moment.
Added 2025-08-27 14:36:39 +0000 UTC👉 What usually gets you going first?
A) The mental build-up – words, anticipation, energy, eye contact
B) Physical touch – hands, lips, bodies getting closer
We all have different turn-on blueprints.
Some of us are in our heads first. Others are in our bodies.
Drop your answer- A or B in the comments 👇
And if you’re open to sharing…
What’s one thing that never fails to turn you on? 👀
Comments
A mostly, but B if done very well - I prefer subtle to completely overt - just give me the signs of what might be on your mind and that you're open to escalation. Starts with how she's dressed, inflection of voice and body language - also effective if done properly is complaining of a stiff neck or tired feet (and possibly wanting a massage) - and can never go wrong with a bit of footsie under the table.
Mindyown Bidness
2025-09-25 12:09:02 +0000 UTCDefinitely physical touch. But, a few whispers/quite demands in the ear..... mmmmmm..... that's really nice.
Feisty_Achievement
2025-09-01 19:46:11 +0000 UTCAfter 15 years of a technically sexless marriage, and a few years of absolutely no intimacy, a cool breeze would do the trick. I should have employed your services when I was interacting with you before you got married.
Rich
2025-08-28 19:26:25 +0000 UTC
