Most men think performance is about “doing it right.” Staying hard. Lasting long. Getting her off.
Added 2025-08-22 14:48:33 +0000 UTCBut I’ve coached enough couples to say this-
It’s not what you do. It’s how she feels.
Does she feel seen? Desired? Safe to let go?
Great lovers aren’t just skilled, they’re attuned.
Reading her breath, her sounds, her energy. Responding like it’s a dance.
👉 So tell me:
What’s something you’ve learned about performance that has nothing to do with technique?
Drop it below, I’d love to hear. 💜
Comments
Something I’ve learned about performance that has nothing to do with technique is attention to detail when performing oral on a woman, be intentional about her pleasure, put her orgasms first and make the space feel intimate. I know I said alot but those of you who love oral and pleasuring your partner would know this.
Kareem Thompson
2025-08-28 16:17:13 +0000 UTCI love your face and eyes so much 🔥🔥🍆💦💦💦
Beard n Skull
2025-08-27 15:18:16 +0000 UTCThat's interesting!
Lovely Dutta
2025-08-25 14:21:44 +0000 UTCI am glad you feel that way!
Lovely Dutta
2025-08-25 14:21:33 +0000 UTChm, cute photo... as for post, in my opinion nothing can match the amazing sounds women make when they come to orgasm. And I wonder, why are men so silent and unvaried in comparison?
Franciscus
2025-08-23 16:52:43 +0000 UTCThis is a great reminder and post thank you.
Ed
2025-08-23 14:28:16 +0000 UTC
