The Impact of Autism on Sex & Relationships | Reacting to Sex Educator Hannah Witton
Added 2023-12-03 18:00:07 +0000 UTC
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I can completely relate to dating people just because they like you. That was my first relationship and many that followed it. I didn’t get treated like a human being by many of them and that led me to feeling like sex was something that was done to me, not something enjoyable and for me too. It is much, much better with my partner and he is lovely but I do thinks it affected how I approach sex. I feel very awkward and almost like I have to get it right.
Sex education for me at school was dreadful. We did the separate classes and all the girls got the period video. Then, a few years later, our RE teacher did a class where we put condoms on cucumbers. 😐
I find what you said about fixating on others whilst in a relationship really interesting. I will need to read that book!
Thank you, Meg. 🖤
Becky
2025-06-07 08:41:37 +0000 UTC
Absolutely not unique! Not only Autistics do this but we definitely can do more we can be especially vulnerable to this. My first two relationships (especially the first one at 15) was this, also some unsafe friendships throughout school too.
Kristel
2025-05-27 14:34:15 +0000 UTC
Sorry, I appreciate this is an older video and it's probably weird to get a new comment on it, but I was absolutely smacked in the face by the idea that we as autistic people get so ostracised that we can put ourselves into relationships that harm us, just to feel liked. I think I realised this was not an exclusive experience, but it was still reassuring to have it addressed, especially in this context.
Wren
2025-01-07 12:40:14 +0000 UTC
I don't love intense eye contact, but I'm a fool for beautiful eyes. I'm an enigma, wrapped in a riddle, boxed up in murder mystery dinner theater, duct taped with internal contradictions.
Ghoulie Marie
2024-11-21 05:17:58 +0000 UTC
1. Eyes... I am a sucker for big brown eyes🤷 but I do struggle a lot with eye contact and definitely am not into the eye staring bit. 2. Same with the eye closing and blocking the world out in order to focus on sensation but while I can't imagine using a fidget or stimming in any way like that, I have noticed that since I've worked on intentionally allowing my body to move in whatever ways it instinctively wants/needs to (as opposed to suppressing like I had for most of my life before realizing that I'm autistic) I do get like stimmy arms (you know, like the hand flapping movement but without the actual hands involved) during intense sensory experiences during sex. 3. My partner is an extrovert and it actually works really well for us. He doesn't like to go out a lot anymore (we're in our 40s) but he does talk to strangers a lot whenever we do go anywhere. I like it because he talks so much that I never feel like I have to say anything🤣
Heather Ensign
2024-11-10 05:55:52 +0000 UTC
It is classified as a disability.
Angel Best
2024-10-08 17:12:20 +0000 UTC
I only just realized this after watching this video but I think I do stim quite a lot during sex, I just don‘t use fidgets for but as an example twirl my partners hair all the time or pinch my arms etc. :D
imgrundehella
2024-09-11 17:43:12 +0000 UTC
I could not help but actually laugh out loud when you said
"Some people must be attracted to eyeballs!" Its also the way your voice went up when you said it made it so much more funny.
Im so glad I was alone because it was not a pretty laugh.
Mirajane Barnes
2024-07-11 10:40:22 +0000 UTC
Thankfully sex education is pretty good in my country, we learn about both male and female bodies, and about the sexuality spectrum (aka not only heteronormative sexuality education) :) If I had that education in 2010-2013, then I think it's only gotten better now.
And for the matchup part between neurotypes, that it could create problems with vocal stims if the other one is sensitive to sounds etc... I have tourettes, adhd and autism - and I cannot stand myself. My only option is to clock myself off with either videos, podcasts, music or plain eardefenders - but everybody around me still hears my vocal tics - and I often get told to be quiet. If I coud, my solutions wouldn't be to mute myself from me either lol, idk wtf to do :)
Maria Grøndahl-Schwarz
2024-06-26 05:42:08 +0000 UTC
Random: My spouse is an extrovert and in a lot of situations I end up using them as a social shield so it has actually worked out quite well for me even as an AuDHD introvert ^.^
Jennie
2024-05-31 19:16:04 +0000 UTC
Thank you for drawing attention to meltdowns/shutdowns are not always caused by sensory overwhelm! (This has also been very confusing for me)
Jennie
2024-05-31 19:04:56 +0000 UTC
My parents were very much uptight about discussing sex so we never really did and it made me very uncomfortable about discussing it to this day. I'm not blaming them just setting up the message.
I am absolutely Demi-Sexual and also Bi. So many one night stands have ended in disappointment for my partner of the moment because I seemed uninterested. I have always had trouble understanding unpronounced boundaries. In addition to being on antidepressants I am always too socially exhausted for sex.
Chuck Hargis
2024-05-09 22:42:39 +0000 UTC
New to the Patreon and to the autistic community in general, but I had a laugh about the use of fidgets during sex.
Obviously if fidget toys help that’s great, but I keep laughing at the idea of getting ready or initiating sex and then seductively asking if you can use your “toys” only to whip out a fidget cube or fidget spinner 😂
Always keep your partner guessing 😂
Indy
2024-04-17 00:54:01 +0000 UTC
I met Timaree, of Sex with Timaree, when she was a student. I was awkward, and people ended up not liking me. I'd be happy if she had no memory of who I was.
Sex education was a lot like that for me, too. And there was a joker who called himself "Captain Abstinence". Their ideal for sexuality is thinly disguised Christian purity culture. And if you're not a Christian, tough.
I don't know about the whole certain-days thing. From what I've learned, there are no safe days; just SAFER days. And even then, not safe enough.
I'm surprised about the eye contact thing. For me, eye contact is inherently an intimate thing a lot of the time. It's a vulnerable thing. And a lot of times I don't want to do it, especially if I'm talking about something difficult. But if you've got someone you want to be intimate with, for me, eye contact is a bridge between me and them. It's a thing that I can't share with just anybody, but I can share it with them. I don't need to be afraid of the connection; I can give in to it. It's another form of intimacy.
And I know how we've got to be careful with eye contact. If we do it too long, we'll initiate a soulgaze. Oops, I said too much.
You're right about being in a relationship with an extroverted person. Partly because they'll pressure you to go out and spend time with friends, when you just want to spend time at home. And they'll tell you that it isn't healthy, and they'll harass you. I'm divorced, by the way.
Ray Sincere
2024-04-16 19:00:45 +0000 UTC
I think eyes are probably the most attractive I can find a physical feature to be on someone. I think lots of stuff about people can be beautiful and attractive, but honestly for me nothing beats "beam-gleaming", or staring lovingly into each other's eyes in a positive feedback loop of cuteness amplification. For the record, there are also plenty of other times when I find eye contact to be stressful or distracting, but when it's my partner, I love to mutually eye-stare with them lol.
Edit: Oh, during sex though, I'm not so sure... Depends on what's happening. Usually one or both of us has our eyes closed, especially if they're trying to make their way toward orgasm. But if we're just sharing sexy touch and closeness, loving eye contact is still super wonderful.
Jordan Curry
2024-04-13 09:09:43 +0000 UTC
last comment but 47:41 is me fr too lmao i think that might be why a lot of my relationships ended the more sex we had (well ig it was just 2 ppl ive ever had sex w or 1 and a half ig bc i dont rly count one of them that much but i wont go into it lol) and i think it was bc of exactly that cuz its not like they didnt like it or anything they mainly just got annoyed that i kept "questioning" them ig esp when they werent moaning that much cuz i just was taught ig that moans in sex=pleasure and my autistic brain didnt rly understand the nuance to it at the time so id be super worried and esp too when i wasnt doing as much "work" or wtv as a lesbian lol cuz i just felt bad and was like are u mad at me are u annoyed w me am i being lazy am i a burden rn do u hate me am i the worst lmfaoo😭💀
Aqua DeMoney
2024-02-26 02:59:05 +0000 UTC
i never understood the point of shaking hands and honestly still dont like if ur not close enough to hug then why do u HAVE to still do smth including touch esp smth as awkward and annoying and just genuinely uncomfy asf as shaking hands lmao i hate it so so so much omg😭
Aqua DeMoney
2024-02-26 02:37:12 +0000 UTC
YESSS THANK U OMG so many times in my life have i said "eh well my body ALWAYS hurts" or this or that is "always uncomfy/in pain" or i "always have headaches" etc etc and yeah its so nice to finally have an actual explanation/reason for it w out it just being me being "dramatic" or "attention seeking" (im STILL constantly called attention seeking even by my own family which is why like u said ive kinda just learned over time to just "shut up and deal w it" kinda thing) and yeah i also have said before i even knew abt my autism things like "i dont think ive ever been fully 'happy'" bc idk allistic ppl and media always made emotions seem so black and white and like u either feel this way or that way and im like well theres constantly things bothering me but that doesnt necessarily mean that im severely depressed again or anything im just used to no one rly respecting me/my boundaries and that unfortunately is kinda the outcome of it so yeah im vv grateful u pointed that out meg tysm <33
Aqua DeMoney
2024-02-26 02:32:58 +0000 UTC
as a recently discovered autistic lesbian that hates the idea of dildos/strapons and has most DEFINITELY always dated ppl that just happened to like me and were at least a bit attractive to me and obvi a girl lol٫ i cant even begin to explain hm the points in this vid hits esp w the self worth and dating thing bc like omg i just paused and was like wait a min oh shit thats literally me😭 lmfao but yeah and like in porn and shit ive always hated how the media CONSTANTLY (even when the whole point of being lesbian means i like WOMEN and only women's features) intigrates dildos and strapons into the sex scenes n shit like WHYYY BRO THE WHOLE POINT IS I DONT LIKE DICK WHY DO U KEEP FUCKIN FORCING THIS YUCKY YUCKY IDEOLOGY THAT THE WORLD REVOLVES AROUND MEN OR THEIR PARTS NO MATTER WHAT LIKE SHUT UPPPP lmfaoo sorry for the rant like i said this vid def hit me lmao and im only 18min in💀
Aqua DeMoney
2024-02-26 02:06:02 +0000 UTC
I've just been diagnosed last year (at 45) and recently I had a meltdown because of strong positive emotions. I was very happy but got overwhelmed. It felt very weird, but afterwards I thought about it and it totally made sense. Too much emotions is too much emotions, positive or negative.
Watching this video I remembered several times when I was younger, where I cried after sex. Good sex, I mean. I didn't understand it, and my partners thought I was disappointed.
These kind of anecdotes seem so different once you know you're autistic :D
hakugei_
2024-02-18 21:50:14 +0000 UTC
Looking back, my first boyfriend at 10 was literally a friend who happened to be a boy so I guess we both answered the question about being boyfriend and girlfriend literally when it wasn't intended that way. We made the most of it and hung out at each others houses when we could but what our peers didn't need to know was our play dates were more about the play/company than the "dates" they were expecting. That lasted about a year. When we connected again on FB I was rather proud to discover I was his only girlfriend before he came out as gay. I guess we used each other to mask about being "normal" to our peers as we were usually the last 2 picked for sports etc. No regrets, he was lovely and I met his fiancé (now husband) a few years later which was nice. :)
I also once asked "Are you a hugger?" to an American I met with who I was going to be doing a few tour dates with. I was very surprised at the shock on her face at me asking an innocent question... until my Canadian friend stepped in and repeated "hugger" for me. Apparently my Cumbrian/Lancashire accent was so thick that day she heard the word "hooker". Simultaneous embarrassment and amusement.
Rosie Wise
2024-01-29 23:02:47 +0000 UTC
I think my sensory differences do make sex different for me than for other people. When I describe how sometimes during sex I lose track of who or where I am and sort of *become one* with the sensation of pleasure itself, my NT friends look at me like I'm insane. I try to avoid it happening when I'm with a partner that I have a strong emotional connection to because I feel it is rude to forget that they are there. But it is very enjoyable for sex with casual partners/friends, and they always seem so proud of themselves when it happens XD
Liam Lamb
2024-01-12 15:19:16 +0000 UTC
I found that sex triggers nearly every single sensory sensitivity I have. Smells, tastes, sounds, touch. Makes it hard to enjoy the experience.
Julie Fore
2024-01-08 02:49:46 +0000 UTC
Oh noo!!! 😩
I'm Autistic, Now What
2024-01-05 21:39:26 +0000 UTC
As far as the sex ed goes, in my high school I remember just one thing: a super racist movie in which they said that in certain group of people in Africa women use coca-cola to prevent pregnancy (yep, they are not drinking it...). And the "scientists" decided to make an experiment and test if this method could possibly work and they tested several different types of coke. The outcome was that neither of them really worked, but the cherry one was to closest to doing anything. So yes sex ed was terrific in my school...
Waleria
2023-12-15 10:10:51 +0000 UTC
Thank you for the warning - that sounds awful 😩
I'm Autistic, Now What
2023-12-13 21:05:48 +0000 UTC
Just a quick warning/ response about the show sex education- i loved it until the most recent season- the dynamic changed and then suddenly with absolutely no trigger warning there's a really graphic and upsetting scene with a kitty and i completely stopped watching.
Brooke Beauregard
2023-12-12 17:37:13 +0000 UTC
Can relate to a LOT in this video.. On my mind though is the autistic/autistic relationship aspect, as even though I thought I was NT when we were first together, it turned out we were both on the spectrum. I’d say overall it’s super comforting to have someone to click with easily & be on the same wavelength, avoiding that feeling when the mask comes down that they don’t like you any more. The only negative has been that since having a kid & experiencing difficult times, we can both struggle to empathise and see each others points of view without a lot of effort. Even though it’s from a place of self preservation, it isn’t a healthy relationship dynamic and before we figured out what was happening & started to both own up to it, it let to a lot of conflict that was hard to reconcile. Also hard after social obligations if you’ve both used up all your spoons, but you’ve still got that parental responsibility when you get home rather than being able to decompress. Overall though, I wouldn’t change it, it’s got so many more positives than any small negatives. I love my wife more than anything else and I might not always be the best partner, but I hope we can continue to develop & lean together :).
Samuel Melrose
2023-12-08 12:26:52 +0000 UTC
We never got seperated for sex ed, which I am glad for. First time I had it was in 3rd grade, we learned about anatomy, puberty, periods, and cishet sex (in relatively simple terms). Then again in 6th and 10th grade (I don't quite remember what exactly happened when) in biology class we went more in depth about all of these, and learned about how conception and pregnancy work, STIs, contraception, etc.
I think in 7th grade we had an extra class that was partially about sex/sexuality, being safe, consent, and generally focus more on the personal side than the clinical perspective we got in bio (I don't remember much about that though). We had one day where some extrernal educators came in to talk about queerness, answer our questions, and once again be a little more personal and real life - oriented.
It wasn't perfect and I definitely would have liked more on pleasure, masturbation, how diverse sex can be (not just penis in vagina), and more fleshing out of the topics of queerness and consent (that was all very brief).
All together thre's room for improvement but a lot better than what I hear from other people!
Link Leo
2023-12-08 11:56:14 +0000 UTC
Haha also unfortunate because it actually happened, but thankfully after my time at school. They mimick it in Heartbreak High with noodle consent.
Glen Rose
2023-12-05 21:21:21 +0000 UTC
Hahaha that is a very interesting video... :p
BD
2023-12-05 17:08:07 +0000 UTC
This is very similar to my school sex education, I learned more out of school but it was always with a "if you do it you're bad/naughty." Never talked LGBT things and if you did you were now a target for so many people and wrong for even considering it
Mia G
2023-12-05 16:29:28 +0000 UTC
Does this help at all? https://support.patreon.com/hc/en-us/articles/212052266-Getting-Discord-access
I'm Autistic, Now What
2023-12-05 14:20:49 +0000 UTC
Can I please get a link to the discord, please I can’t find the thing, and I’ve tried for a while 🥲
Rick J.S.
2023-12-05 06:43:25 +0000 UTC
Haha I hope so! Like surely at least Netflix could cash in on this unfulfilled niche market.
Perhaps some vague Australian sex ed stimming videos 🤣 https://youtu.be/n3aHhNKIcKU?si=bUNkuJjexxP_fE1I
Glen Rose
2023-12-05 01:29:57 +0000 UTC
Thanks for the reply... Yeah, the professionals miss us too. I didn't know for a very long time, despite being jokingly compared to C3P0, Spock, Rainman and Sheldon Cooper by various people (including my parents) when I was younger...... Its only through a lot of research (including your videos) that I came to understand myself better. I find your content very helpful and appreciate everything you do. Keep up the good work.
Darren Mills
2023-12-05 00:37:54 +0000 UTC
😂 It just made me think of all the stims that wouldn't work/be appropriate when she said that too 😂 One day we'll have Hollywood portraying sex stimming 😅
I'm Autistic, Now What
2023-12-04 23:45:50 +0000 UTC
I'm so sorry to hear about your previous relationship. You didn't deserve that. Connecting through your interests might be a good way to meet people. Have you tried online at all? I think that's what most people are doing these days!
I'm Autistic, Now What
2023-12-04 23:44:43 +0000 UTC
It's definitely not supposed to be an attack on any individual! It's more of an attack on the medical professionals and researchers who ignore those who don't fit the stereotype (and I'm sure many who do fit the stereotype are actually missed too!)
I'm Autistic, Now What
2023-12-04 23:42:51 +0000 UTC
That's so interesting!
I'm Autistic, Now What
2023-12-04 23:40:55 +0000 UTC
So crazy how so many of us all over the world have this similarly lacking sex ed experience! I imagine the graphic birth video was an attempt to scare people off sex? 👀
I'm Autistic, Now What
2023-12-04 23:40:03 +0000 UTC
I'm so sorry you were taught that. Unfortunately, it seems to be super common. And this idea that women in particular must suffer for the sake of a man really needs to go. Hannah's content is great for discussing this type of thing! 💛
I'm Autistic, Now What
2023-12-04 23:37:44 +0000 UTC
i had basic sex ed in my sixth grade but in one of my years at high school,we had to make this project about procreation and everything around that: anticonceptie for men and woman, after anti-baby stuff,period and what the men have i don't remember right now (what could do about when you have it? age when you have it for both men and woman and menopause of course),birth (in detail, what hopital can do for you?),lgbtq,news articles,being pregnant (the whole nine month in detail + after too) the differed ways you can have sex,kinks and that about it, i think. you had to find out everyting on your own and this was the graduction project meaning if you got a bad grade you had to redo your whole year. so i learned a lot from that project.
Rainbow Butterfly
2023-12-04 16:18:37 +0000 UTC
This is amazing. The stimming thing is very intriguing 😇💕
Hmm 🤔🤔🤔😳😅
Haha my stimming often involves intense pacing or worse leg shaking that shakes the entire room. Not sure how I can work THAT into my yearly sex schedule 🤣🤣🤣
Also really enjoy the hand flaps now that I've tried them.
Is there a sex stim guide haha, I need the instruction manual for this new bit of information which has no societal reference, Hollywood has failed to teach me yet again 😂
Glen Rose
2023-12-04 06:54:52 +0000 UTC
I want a sexual relationship, I have zero opportunity to find one, and from my perspective sex is something that other people do. I have no idea how anyone even gets into a social position where that is even possible. It's a complete mystery to me.
As I've mentioned previously my only relationship to the current time was extremely abusive, and she is literally the only woman that's ever expressed any interest in me. The relationship exploded almost 3 years ago and I've had absolutely zero interest displayed my anyone since. I'm now 33, the majority of single women my own age are in utterly different life stages and I have nothing in common with them.
It's even more difficult because I have nothing whatsoever in common with most people, the things that interest me are mostly only done by people vastly older than me. I don't like night clubs or any loud environments, do not drink alcohol, and have zero tolerance for smoking or any other kind of drug use.
robert hickman
2023-12-04 01:30:35 +0000 UTC
Yes please do the adhd one too at some point please x
Fiona Hutchings
2023-12-03 23:34:35 +0000 UTC
As a "cold logical cis-white boy" I feel a little bit attacked... it isn't my fault that's a stereotype and I am not responsible for the previous lack of knowledge, or anyone's misdiagnosis etc. Certain parts of this video may feel a little dismissive to those who fit this stereotype.. I know that's not your intention, I just can't help but notice it.
Darren Mills
2023-12-03 23:23:25 +0000 UTC
ThAnks for the video. I quite enjoyed that one. Sex Ed for me was exactly as you described it. No information about the opposite sex.
Rich
2023-12-03 23:23:18 +0000 UTC
I get that! 😄 I'd probably either never or always wear it.
The only jewelry I wear is a necklace from my deceased dad, and that one I never take off unless I absolutely have to.
Isabelle
2023-12-03 22:13:51 +0000 UTC
Thank you sooo much!! 💛
I'm Autistic, Now What
2023-12-03 21:55:20 +0000 UTC
Yes, I think you're right!
I'm Autistic, Now What
2023-12-03 21:49:50 +0000 UTC
How about sex itself as a form of stimming? As stimming is about creating pleasant or satisfactory stimulation of the senses for whatever your purpose or need at the time may be, as sex can be a very sensory experience, could it be seen as stimming, albeit one that involves a partner?
Andy
2023-12-03 21:07:07 +0000 UTC
As a ex adult entertainer, there’s plenty of autistic people in the industry,
Benjamin d.t
2023-12-03 20:57:12 +0000 UTC
That was a good video you reacted to. I remember sex education in primary school, I think it was our whole class in maybe year 3 or 4 and everyone giggled the whole way through it. My son's in year 4 now and they had a sex education lesson last year but I think it was mostly talking about the reproductive side as they are still quite young. When I was in secondary school I remember talking to my friends about masturbation and they made such a big deal about it and half of the class then knew that I was doing it. I never understood why they had this reaction, super weird. I'm quite thick skinned so didn't care if they were talking about me but thinking about it now, I bet they were lying when they said they didn't masturbate! Also your demi-sexual video was really interesting, I need to look into that more because I've definitely had times where I've not felt connected to a partner and have not wanted to have sex because of it.
Damaris Russell
2023-12-03 20:57:10 +0000 UTC
My sex ed was interesting. 5th grade I learned about periods (boys and girls were separated) 6th grade boys and girls separated again learning about the opposite gender. Jr high 8th grade was co ed. We learned about STDs and labled all parts of both genital Anatomy. Then the last sex ed class I had was in high school 10th grade (Sophomore year) we learned about pregnancy and birth. We even watched a graffic video of the whole process. Never was condoms, diffrent styles/positions, or that getting pregnant has to do with your menstrual cycle mentioned. And of course it was all cis het. It was kind of forbin to ask questions. Especially when it came to specific seniorios or was to detailed. Anything LGBTQ+ was considered to be shameful, dirty, and you were a bad person for thinking and asking about it.
Morgyn Olson
2023-12-03 20:52:02 +0000 UTC
Unfortunately, sex ed has become a political thing (in the US at least.) It was only a few years ago that my state changed the law from requiring permission from parents to teach sex ed to making parents opt their children out if they didn't want them to participate in it.
Drymarchon
2023-12-03 19:55:58 +0000 UTC
I can definitely relate to that, in high school, I thought that nobody could ever be interested in me. Now looking back, there were definitely a couple I missed because I didn't interpret their actions/words as interest and didn't believe it was possible! It's definitely okay not to date if you don't feel like that's something you want to do but if you can find someone who can help you talk through things, it can be a great way to learn about yourself. But can be very damaging if you don't have a good support system to help you through any difficult situations that might come up. It's hard not to feel like a failure because you're not married but I have seen how much happier people are single than in a horrible marriage.
BD
2023-12-03 19:43:36 +0000 UTC
my solution has been to just not date. so I've been living the single life since 2009. I'm also asexual, so I stress over that as well.
Moonpie
2023-12-03 19:31:23 +0000 UTC
I have an early memory of sitting in a swing, maybe 8yo, and lamenting I'd never be able to get married, because no one could ever love me that much.
Moonpie
2023-12-03 19:30:16 +0000 UTC
My first boyfriend was a result of that, so glad I learned from that experience to try to figure out if someone is actually a nice person or not before dating them!
BD
2023-12-03 19:28:15 +0000 UTC
Thank you so much for this! Consent is a huge thing I'm struggling with at the moment because I've been taught from a young age that I have to let people hug/touch me even when it's extremely uncomfortable, especially people I care about because they get offended (best case, worst case abusive) if I say no. Also, I have always just suffered through extreme pain and discomfort because that's what I've always had to do so why would it be any different during sex? I always thought that sex could only possibly be over when the man is finished so I just had to dissociate and try to survive until it was over. So grateful for these types of videos discussing these things and making me aware that there is another way!
BD
2023-12-03 19:25:45 +0000 UTC
Love your complete honesty and openness. Watched the Demi sexual video before this one. Both very good. Chuckled when you posted actual dates in the video. I’m looking forward to my snail arriving soon. I love how you can talk about anything, I’m like that too. The lady in the video was quite good too.
Maria Nelson
2023-12-03 19:25:24 +0000 UTC
I'm sorry that you can relate to that feeling too 💛
I'm Autistic, Now What
2023-12-03 19:25:03 +0000 UTC
I bet I'd never remember to wear it 😭😂 But I should probably look into it!
I'm Autistic, Now What
2023-12-03 19:24:36 +0000 UTC
Oof, I relate to that "liking someone because they like you". The fact that feeling affection is so foreign...
Moonpie
2023-12-03 18:55:54 +0000 UTC
If you struggle with bringing stimming devices, stimming jewelry might be for you.