This show doesn't really fit the classic feel-good BL formula that I usually love, like Blueming from the same director. However, I think it's trying to tell another story alongside the romance about overcoming generational trauma, which is interesting and different. I think the only thing that let this show down was that it tried to be a bit too real, and to be honest I'm mainly here for the romantic fantasy 😅
Totally agree about moving on. You cannot make someone choose you. In real life that's a complete waste of time and emotional energy.